NTR, in the eyes of ordinary people, is an anti-human existence. However, we have to thank this information age. The word NTR has gradually appeared in daily life. Many simple passers-by will use these letters to describe the relationship of pure love triangle. The people who promote this word are actually in the field of secondary elements. Both the tauren and Gongba/Gongba brother use the word NTR with a hint of obscene ridicule, but it is precisely because of this that true NTR lovers are afraid that their feelings will be more complicated when they see that this group pronoun is more and more deviated from the essence.
I haven't come into contact with people who really use NTR as their daily mode, including green hat slaves, changing wives and so on. Undoubtedly, it is difficult to act. When it comes to NTR, the words around it are disloyalty and disloyalty. After all, this relationship always needs a third person, and in daily social life, the fit of two people makes it easier for a threesome.
There is a branch of BD5M called non-monogamy and non-one-to-one. Do not advocate one-on-one exclusive relationship between men and women, and are not satisfied with only one fixed sexual partner. Just like some people pay attention to open feelings, in fact, there is a premise for non-one-to-one relationships, that is, the premise of mutual consent, that is, under the condition of mutual consent, both sides of non-one-to-one relationships maintain sexual or loving relationships with more than one partner at the same time, for example, open relationships or polygamy.
Most people want a sense of social belonging after all, so in the mainstream (institutional) cognition, people always think that a relationship can only be healthy and happy if it is committed and rejected (there is no non-one-on-one), otherwise it will be betrayal and suspicion, which will eventually lead to the breakdown of a happy relationship. NTR has become a cold-eyed and incomprehensible crowd.
In 1980s, the NTR relationship was discovered among gay people. According to research, in history, with the legalization of abortion and the continuous development of contraceptive technology, open or polygamous love has gradually emerged among heterosexuals, which is an unrestricted social orientation, and the opposite is the concept of social orientation. This restriction can also be speculated to be more widely recognized and supported in order to ensure the purity of family lineage.
But in fact, Conley and other scholars showed the research results of one-to-one relationship with 1507 people and non-one relationship with 6 17 people in their papers in 20 17 years. The researchers used a series of scales (Relationship Assessment Scale, Commitment Scale, Trust Scale, Passion Scale, Expectant Jealousy Scale) to measure participants' overall satisfaction, commitment, passion, trust and jealousy. The researchers found that there was no significant difference in the scores of satisfaction, commitment and passion between people in one-to-one relationships and those in non-one-to-one relationships. Even the scale shows a slightly better non-one-to-one relationship, such as trustrank.
NTR has nothing to do with your attributes and mine. It is an independent branch and a minority group with different sexual values from most people. More people come into contact with it in order to gain greater stimulation, domination and humiliation, just like beasts gushing from the depths of blood, trampling on each other's fields and making each other submit. Of course, this can't be an excuse for your master to be a slave, let alone a reason for you to force your partner to accept it. Not everyone is suitable for an open relationship. Don't try to understand too much for feelings, force yourself to accept it. Ah Qiu reminded me that gathering people for fornication is against the laws of our country. No matter what the relationship is, as long as it is involuntary, it is considered rape.
The animal nature in everyone's heart likes dependence and exclusiveness, but is willing to enjoy but possess, and then splits and perverts on the basis of these instincts, and finally presents various unique human nature. All hobbies will eventually become tools and means to compromise with the animal nature. This is not a shameful thing. As we all know, in the face of human nature, temptation or tolerance should be restrained and rejected.
In this circle, we are all brave. We have no regrets and there is no need to feel guilty. Pursuing sexual freedom is human nature and animal instinct. Be patient, and you will find someone who is willing to tame your desires with you.