A life teacher should first start with the daily management of the dormitory. So I have to go to the dormitory at least three times a week, especially after the evening self-study, I will go to the dormitory to be on duty, hoping to know more about my classmates. Dormitories are students' second home. Only by paying attention to the hygiene and discipline of the dormitory can students have a better environment than quiet, tidy and rest. So every day, I will go to the Political and Educational Affairs Office to know the routine inspection results of the dormitory, and make a record and comparison of the points deducted every day. For dormitories and individuals with relatively serious points deduction, I will communicate with the class teacher and them in time. As the college entrance examination approaches, students all take time to study, and basically the dormitory performs better. The relatively serious problem is "mixed dormitory", which is the so-called "vacuum zone". The students in these dormitories come from several classes and are difficult to manage. I will pay more attention to it, such as going to the dormitory more often. In order to do a good job in the dormitory, we have formulated the rules of daily behavior in the dormitory and the sanitary arrangement in the dormitory. Educate students on "obeying rules and discipline", "being polite" and "caring for public property". At the same time, strictly regulate the student leave system, so that there are not a few students when they should be in the dormitory; Should not be in the dormitory, there are not many people, contact the monitor in time. At the same time, the school has also set up a reward system, which has excellent dormitory evaluation every month, and the winning dormitory can get extra points in the monthly moral education assessment. In this way, students' enthusiasm will be mobilized. At the same time, we also carried out a series of dormitory cultural activities. Students give full play to their intelligence, and the best Taobao shop decorates their bedrooms by itself, which is simple, generous and full of creativity, and has achieved very good results, making students' small homes more harmonious and full of vitality. Through a series of activities of the Political and Educational Affairs Office of the school, the dormitory atmosphere has become cleaner and more harmonious this year, which is a good place for students to relax physically and mentally.
Do a daily inspection to ensure the external environment of the dormitory. I want to communicate with students and try my best to do some psychological counseling, which should also be the responsibility of life teachers. Because of this, I think students may be relatively weak in correctly handling the pressure of exams and communicating with classmates. I have consulted a lot of materials and done a lot of work in these two aspects. Because the life teacher works for a wide range of boys, I strengthened my contact with the class teacher and the management teacher on the dormitory floor, got to know the people who need help most, and paid special attention to them. The sixth grade exams are frequent and the academic burden is heavy. Students have been living in high-pressure areas. How to treat test scores and rankings and how to position yourself is particularly important. Give special guidance to children. Help students position themselves correctly, establish a good attitude and successfully meet various exams.
In the process of visiting the dormitory, I found that students' communication ability is relatively lacking, so I made more efforts in this regard. I think it is of great significance for students to deal with interpersonal relationships clearly. Establishing normal interpersonal relationships is an important embodiment of social civilization and progress, and handling interpersonal relationships well also reflects people's knowledge and cultivation. Interpersonal relationships are related to personal growth and success. Most of today's students are only children, and they have a strong sense of superiority since childhood. Only by comparing with others can they fully understand themselves. Without the object of communication or comparison, even the best Taobao shop will lose its ruler and mirror to measure itself. If a student is aloof and indifferent all day and lacks communication, then he will lack a "frame of reference" for his own understanding, will not find anything good or bad in others, and will not be able to adjust and improve himself. Dealing with interpersonal relationships is a kind of ability and a kind of technology, which can be cultivated and improved through study and training. Such as increasing the frequency of communication. In addition to intense study, I might as well take the initiative to chat with my classmates, discuss some problems, exchange some views and deepen emotional ties. Usually I really care about my classmates. When other students want something from themselves, as long as it is a legitimate request, I will try my best to meet each other's requirements. When you see other students in trouble, you should take the initiative to help them. In addition, learn to be tolerant, courteous, cherish time and keep promises. It is also a skill to correctly handle interpersonal relationships. In the small family of dormitory, students should always help each other and build deep friendship. The life teacher of the best Taobao shop for one year came down and felt that the work was positive and comprehensive, and people knew the root of it; The relationship between teachers and students is harmonious and the work is fruitful. Of course, there are still many shortcomings in my work. I can't give every student enough care, and the depth of my work is not enough. I hope to make greater progress in the future and realize "zero-distance contact and close communication" with students.