Zhou Wuwang set four qualities for the world of sages: the first one is called "calmness"; The second is called "honesty"; The third is called "peace"; The fourth is called "respect". Just give two examples to illustrate: when Confucius asked Laozi for a gift, Laozi rode backwards on a green cow and answered Confucius' questions unhurriedly. His heart is so calm; At that time, Lu Guo and his friends played with mud on the road and built a tucheng. Confucius and his students happened to pass by in a carriage. The children dodged when they saw the carriage coming. Only Xiang Tuo is sitting in the city.
Confucius faced a child of seven or eight years old, but he was very calm. He got out of the car and respectfully asked Xiang Tuo why he didn't get away from the car. Through the dialogue, both sides feel that Xiang Tuo knows a lot, speaks well and is smart. Therefore, Confucius took Xiang Tuo, who was eight years old, as his teacher! If you want to be a sage, you have to read a sage book! If you don't read the book of sages, you won't know how many "hundreds of surnames" there are. If you don't read Saint Amethyst, you won't fully understand China's 5,000-year history of civilization. If you don't read Disciples Rules, you won't know the principles of life, the norms of daily life and the forms of etiquette. After reading the money, we have a basic concept of China culture, from which we can understand the philosophy, politics and economy of China culture. If you don't read the Book of Filial Piety, you won't know how filial piety came into being. Why should people pursue filial piety? I don't even know the truth of "filial piety, the classics of heaven and the meaning of the earth"; If you don't read The Doctrine of the Mean, you won't know what honesty is in the world. The word "sincerity" runs through the whole golden mean, and the highest realm of the golden mean is "perfection to beauty"; If you don't read "University", you won't know what the real "university question" and "university learning" are, and how can you "innovate, innovate and innovate again"? If you don't read the Analects of Confucius, you won't be a good person, and you won't really pursue "benevolence, righteousness, courtesy and wisdom"; If you don't read Mencius, you don't know much about benevolence and morality. If you don't read Laozi, you won't have the high wisdom of being a man; If you don't read Zhuangzi, you won't really know what "Qi" is. What is indifferent to fame and fortune; If you don't read the Book of Changes, you won't understand that life is everywhere in the universe. The Book of Changes reveals an eternal law of life in the universe: that is "change"! Only by reading the books of sages can we have an open and aboveboard gentleman's mind of "making a heart for heaven and earth, making a life for the people, making a career for sages and making the world peaceful"! The character of a gentleman is like this: gentleness and kindness are the foundation of benevolence; Caution is the soil of the benevolent; Generosity and calmness are the actions of benevolent people; Humility is the instinct of the benevolent; Etiquette rules are the appearance of benevolent people; Elegant speech is the literary talent of the benevolent; Singing and laughing is the sum of benevolent people; Dispelling the rich and helping the poor is the benefit of the benevolent.
Such people are naturally famous in society; Don't be conceited, but look natural and solemn; You don't have to keep a straight face, your expression is natural and dignified; You don't have to open your mouth to express your confession, so you are naturally trustworthy. This kind of people show "three noes" in appearance: don't slip, don't lose, and don't lose words.
The feeling to the people around you is: "Don't be arrogant, don't be impetuous, and keep your word." Only in this way can people "claim to be kind" and "claim to be kind".
Such a person can "live in the world, establish a position in the world, and do the world's way; Success depends on the people, not alone; Wealth can't be lewd, poverty can't be moved, and power can't be bent-this is called a gentleman. " Only such a person can follow the laws of the universe, pursue the way of human relations and be a truly virtuous person.
2. Begging for sentences that begin with "gentleman", such as the gentleman is freed from the food he comes to eat, the gentleman is poor, etc., is difficult to catch up with the friendship of a gentleman, just like the beauty of a gentleman as an adult. Gentlemen are unequal, harmonious but different, frank, peaceful but not arrogant, inconsiderate, long-term, arrogant and disloyal to gentlemen, pregnant with punishment, figurative, and self-seeking. Don't say it; And it makes people also, the villain's tool is difficult and easy to say; Although it doesn't matter, it is also said; It also makes people want to be prepared. The gentleman is poor, the villain is poor, and the gentleman is like the food of the sun and the moon. Everyone saw it. What's more, the gentleman must know the mistakes made by the villain that everyone admires, but the gentleman can know what is greatly influenced by the villain. A gentleman has courage and no plan, but he has courage and no plan for a disorderly villain. It is easy to learn from thieves and love villains, which makes the monarch and son have three fears: fear of life, fear of adults and fear of saints. I don't know fate, but I'm not afraid of it. You can bully others, but you cannot ignore them. A gentleman speaks slowly and acts quickly. A gentleman is ashamed of what he says, and then does it. The gentleman thinks that righteousness is the quality and propriety is the deed. Sun takes it out and believes in it himself. A gentleman is at a loss on earth, and without Mo Ye, righteousness is more than food. A gentleman who cares about the road but doesn't care about poverty can entrust him with six feet of solitary life, but he can't take it away at the big festival. A gentleman is ill and nameless. A gentleman is sick and incompetent, but a patient doesn't know it. A gentleman lives in filth, and all the evils in the world are blamed on him. A gentleman is called evil, filthy, brave and rude, and dares to stifle the consequences. A gentleman is not. There is no way to meet people. A gentleman acts according to justice when he is an official, but his way is not good, as you know. A gentleman is loyal and puzzled. Quality is better than literature, literature is wild, literature is better than history, gentle, and then a gentleman. A gentleman is neither heavy nor strong, and his knowledge is not solid. He is honest and honest, and people without friends are worse than themselves. If he passes, he is not afraid of change. A gentleman is not worried or afraid. Why does he suffer from not having a brother? A gentleman has no food? Evil is almost fame. If a gentleman has no food, he will violate his benevolence, and he will be frustrated again. A gentleman has a gift. He can reciprocate and help his husband. A gentleman can't think about his position. A gentleman regrets but does not dispute. Crowds are not parties. A gentleman is a Taoist. I am incompetent: the benevolent is not worried, the learned are not confused, and the brave are not afraid. A gentleman has Jiu Si, who thinks clearly, listens to it, is soft in color, respectful in appearance, loyal in words, respectful in matters, suspicious in doubt and difficult in anger. A gentleman has three precepts: when he is young, his blood gas is uncertain, so he should be careful; It is also strong and bloody, and it is fighting; Even when you are old, your qi and blood are weak, so you should quit. A gentleman believes and then works hard for his people, but if he doesn't believe, he thinks he is selfish. If you believe it, you will remonstrate. If you don't believe it, you will think that you are slandering yourself. A gentleman respects the virtuous, tolerates the masses, and Jiashan has no regrets.
3. "Build your own wharf" proposition composition Read the following text and build your own wharf as required. He always believed that it was gold and it would shine sooner or later. However, just now, he had doubts about himself because he was rejected by a company again. He always thought it was not enough for him to apply for such a job fair.
You see, a diploma from a famous university, a number of thesis award certificates ... which enterprise is vying for it? Unexpectedly, all I got was a gentle refusal again and again. He felt a sense of loss when he remembered his vows when he left home and his parents' earnest eyes.
Just then, an old man stopped him. "I pay attention to you for a long time.
You college students are too impatient, eager to show themselves and get ahead, but you can't see what you can do now. To make others appreciate you, you have to shine first! We have another position in the miscellaneous department here. Do you want to think about it? "A seemingly ironic smile flashed across the old man's face, which aroused him to accept the job he thought was extremely humble. If you don't do it, you don't know. If you do it, you will be shocked.
I meet so many people every day and understand their respective needs. After listening to their insightful suggestions but unwilling to "upload", he realized that what he learned at school was just a passing.
With this, I still want to work as a supervisor as soon as I leave school. Isn't this harming others and yourself? So he settled down to sort out some ideas in his work, collected relevant information online in his spare time, and did some meaningful market research on holidays. He fully applied what he learned in college to real life, forging himself and perfecting himself.
One day, he just got off the net and was still thinking about an improvement plan. He accidentally knocked down a plastic portrait in the corridor. He quickly apologized, but feeling that the man didn't respond, he hurried to help him until his hand touched his stiff body, only to find that it was not a real person. He couldn't help laughing at himself, and the people next to him had already laughed their heads off.
Half a year later, he submitted a reform plan to his boss, the old man. The old man clapped his hands after reading it and said, "I really didn't see the wrong person." I believe you will succeed if you make up your mind. "
You should have no problem going to the planning department now. "He smiled and took out a resignation letter from his pocket:" Thank you for your kindness, but you must understand that in the past six months, I have built a pier that is higher than your expectations.
For this reason, I have no reason not to choose a bigger and better ship to dock. That plan is my gift in return for you, and now I ... "He took out an invitation letter from a multinational company," I will also board that better ship and sail to a farther goal. "The skills of auditing opinions are concentrated in a" turn "-from" the company picks him "to" he picks the company "; From "shut out" to "eager to introduce".
This "turn" is unexpected at first glance, but the quality is reasonable, thanks to the author's ingenious "three ones": ① a platform. The miscellaneous department is the bottom of the company, but it is also a small society where the tentacles of all levels and departments of the company extend.
This provides him with a life platform to contact the society, accept everything, reserve sharp resources and forge himself. This platform enables him to tamp down his wharf.
(2) a detail. The detail of "taking the statue as a real person" condensed the long journey of "building" in an instant, which made people really feel his dedication and selfless investment in building his own strength. It is because of this concentration that his strength has been improved and the dock has been stabilized.
(3) a kind of pride. He is a proud man, and entering the miscellaneous department is just an act of pique. After he was strong and full of confidence, he aspired high and achieved outstanding results, which completely conformed to the logic of character development.
Examination room no.2 performed well. Build your own pier. In the history of 5,000 years of civilization, Chinese culture has always stood in the east of the world with its broad mind and profound connotation. In this endless history, pearls are dazzling.
The wheels are rolling on the yellow land in the distance-this is Mencius traveling around the six countries. Mencius said, "I am good at nurturing my noble spirit."
He respected Yao and Shun, worshipped Confucius, kept Wang Zhidao after his ancestors, looked down on princes when traveling, and Wang Yang was arrogant when writing. In his eloquence, we really felt his lofty and boundless tolerance.
Mencius' self-cultivation in more than 30 years of lobbying makes his works "irresistible" and unique among a hundred schools of thought. He himself is highly respected by future generations because of his lofty spirit between heaven and earth. The water of the Yangtze River is rolling eastward, and the sound of reading is heard on Tianzhu Mountain by the river-this is Li Bai's recitation.
The handsome poet passed by Tianzhu Mountain and was deeply moved by its beautiful scenery. He decided not to go anywhere at the moment, so he concentrated on reading here. At this time, Li Baigang was expelled from Beijing. He adjusted his mentality in the sky and clouds of Tianzhu Mountain, and further sublimated his talent in the book of Mo Xiang.
At this time, outside the mountain, the Tang Dynasty was making a difficult choice in a long romance and a vast show, while our violet layman propped up another world with books in this lonely Tianzhu Mountain. When future generations marveled at Li Bai's elegance and boldness, did they ever think that he had studied hard? On the long yellow sand, on the way to the west, a monk is trudging-this is Xuanzang's trek on the way to learn from the scriptures.
With the persistence of sacrificing his life, he walked through the desert Gobi, crossed the Pamirs and came to Gandhara. There, he met the last great monarch of India, the king of the sun.
Xuanzang absorbed the essence of Gandhara Buddhist culture with his broad mind and unparalleled wisdom. After 17 years of cold and heat, he brought back thousands of Buddhist scriptures. Xuanzang made himself and China's Buddhism.
Soon, hundreds of Japanese envoys to the Tang Dynasty also came to China to learn from the scriptures. Mencius' rolling wheels, Li Bai's reading sound and Xuanzang's stumbling steps are actually building their own docks.
After the completion of the pier, they were honored as saints, poets or monks, which attracted worship from all directions forever. At the same time, they also made China culture profound. China culture stood by its pier, laughing at people coming and going, ships coming and going-from small wooden boats.
4. About the origin or story of etiquette famous sayings: more than 300 words. Hello, let me answer for you: this is Confucius' famous saying about the behavior requirements of "gentlemen", which should meet your requirements.
"Confucius said:' A gentleman takes righteousness as his quality, courtesy as his conduct, grandson as his watch, and faith as his success. A gentleman! Confucius said:' A gentleman has three precepts: when he is young, his blood gas is uncertain, so he should be cautious; It is also strong and bloody, and it is fighting; Even when you are old, your blood is failing and you can quit.
Confucius said: "A gentleman has Jiu Si: he can see clearly, listen attentively, look warmly, look respectfully, speak faithfully, think respectfully, ask questions with doubts, feel resentful and difficult." "Confucius has four ways of being a gentleman: respect others with his own way, respect others with the way of doing things, support the people with benefits, and serve the people with righteousness.
Confucius said:' A gentleman has a gift, and if he makes a promise, he can also serve his husband!' Confucius said:' A gentleman has three fears: fear of destiny, fear of adults and fear of the words of saints. I don't know my fate, but I'm not afraid of it. I despise adults and saints.
Confucius said:' Being rich and expensive is what people want; If you don't follow the path, there is nowhere. Poverty and meanness are disgusting to people; Don't go if you don't get it by the way.
Isn't it good to be famous if a gentleman goes to benevolence? A gentleman has different opinions, and a wise man has different opinions. Confucius said, "A gentleman can't compare with others, and a villain can't compare with others."
Confucius said, "A gentleman is righteous, but a villain is profitable." "."Confucius said, "an upright man is open and poised, I am worried." ..
""Sima Niu asked the gentleman. Confucius said:' A gentleman is not worried or afraid.
You:' If you are not worried or afraid, can you call yourself a gentleman? Confucius said,' Why worry if you don't do it by introspection? Confucius said,' A gentleman is harmonious but different, while a villain is harmonious but different.' Confucius said, "A gentleman is easy to say, but a villain is hard to say.
Don't say it; It also allows people, this device. It's easy for the villain to say something difficult.
Although it doesn't matter, it is also said; And it makes people "welcome". If you have been deprived of food in the past, you can't get along with it if you are sick. When Lutz saw it, he said, "Even a gentleman is poor?" Confucius said,' A gentleman is poor, but a villain is poor and extravagant.
Confucius said,' A gentleman is proud but does not fight, and a group is not a party.' "Confucius said,' A gentleman is sincere but not forgiving.
"Zi Gong said,' Is a gentleman evil?' Confucius said:' There is evil: evil refers to human evil, evil lives in a dirty place, evil is brave and rude, and the consequences dare to be curbed.' Confucius said,' A gentleman doesn't attract people with his words, and he doesn't abolish them with others'.' Confucius said,' If I am a gentleman, I can do anything; The benevolent does not worry, the knower is not confused, and the brave is not afraid.
Zi Gong said, "Confucius is a Taoist." "."Lutz said, "What about Mr. Shang Yong?" Confucius said:' A gentleman puts righteousness first, a gentleman is brave and without righteousness is chaotic, and a villain is brave and without righteousness is a thief.
Confucius said, "A gentleman is not a tool." ""Confucius said:' A gentleman can't do it when he is sick, and he doesn't know what to do.
Confucius said:' There is no dispute between gentlemen. Will shoot! Give up and drink.
Its struggle is also a gentleman. "There is a disease, meng asked.
Ceng Zi said:' The bird will die, and its song will also mourn; The dying man speaks the truth. A gentleman is more valuable than Tao: move by appearance, stay away from violence, and stay away from it; Positive color, close to letters; Take it out. It's not even close.
There's a secretary about beans. ""Ji Zicheng said,' A gentleman is a man of quality, so how can he write?' Zi Gong said,' Well, your master is a gentleman! I can't talk to you.
The quality of words is still good, and the quality is still good. Tigers and leopards are dogs and sheep.
"cherish." Zi Gong asked the gentleman. Confucius said, "What you say must be done, and what you say must be done." .
Confucius said, "A gentleman wants to speak slowly but act quickly." Confucius said:' A gentleman is ashamed of his words and transcends his deeds.
Confucius said, "A gentleman seeks for himself, while a villain seeks for others." "."Confucius said:' A gentleman likes virtue, but a villain likes earth; A gentleman is guilty of punishment, but a villain is guilty of profit.
Confucius said,' a gentleman climbs the mountain, and a villain gives orders.' "."Lutz asked a gentleman.
Confucius said,' cultivate one's morality and keep one's family in order.' Say, "Is that all?" Say:' Cultivate your own safety.
Say, "Is that all?" Said:' Self-cultivation to protect the people. Cultivate yourself to protect the people and make them sick? ""Confucius said,' A gentleman is ill and nameless.
Confucius said, a gentleman seeks Tao instead of food. Farming is also awkward; Learn, and Lu is among them.
A gentleman worries about Tao but not poverty. ""Xia Zi said:' A gentleman believes in the people; If you don't believe it, you think you are selfish.
Believe and then remonstrate; If you don't believe it, you think you are slandering yourself. Confucius said: "if a person has no faith, he doesn't know what he can do!" Why can't the big car run away and the small car run away? .