I once read such a story: in a small mountain village, there was a disabled couple. The woman's legs are paralyzed and the man's eyes are blind. Spring, summer, autumn and winter: sowing, managing and harvesting ... Throughout the year, women observe the world with their eyes and men measure their lives with their legs. Time is like water, but it never washes away the happiness that permeates their faces. When someone asked them why they were happy, they all asked in unison, "Why aren't we happy?" The man said, "I am blind, but her eyes can see!" " "The woman said," although my leg is paralyzed, his leg can still walk! " "

This is happiness, optimistic and open-minded attitude, and a beautiful life!

With this kind of mind, it is like having flowing water from the source, nourishing the smart eyes at all times, discovering happiness, discovering beauty and appreciating beauty: colorful flowers and long grass are all beautiful; Lonely smoke in the desert and sunset in the long river are beautiful. Will it be disappointing to lose your chrysanthemum? Why not savor the beautiful artistic conception of "leaving a residual lotus to listen to the rain" and "a residual chrysanthemum"? In the city, there are bustling high-rise buildings; In the countryside, there are small bridges, flowing water, wheat waves and frogs. This is optimism, this is happiness.

With this kind of mind, the mind is clear, beyond the dispute of fame and fortune, and I feel quiet and satisfied. Zhong Mingding lives in a high position and eats and prints symbols, which can be described as wealth. In the humble room, people can "tune the pipa and read the Golden Classics", tease insects, fish and raise flowers and birds, and be indifferent to their aspirations. With an ordinary job, you can feel the peace and ease of life. "Petals are like her face and willow leaves are like her eyebrows" is an innate pride: the infiltration of "poetic and self-improvement" can make you stand out from the crowd; Even if we encounter the frustration of "water stops us from moving", we should face the difficulties calmly and "sit and watch the clouds surge in Yun Qi" smartly. This is optimism, this is happiness.

Having an optimistic attitude towards life is the pillar of happiness. Happiness is the destination of optimism. If you want to be happy, you must first have an optimistic spirit.

Life is colorful, the key is to look at it with what kind of eyes: with the right perspective, you will find that life is so beautiful. Let's have this attitude towards life, like that couple, to find beauty and happiness.

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Everyone has his own stage, and how broad your mind is, how big your stage is. Looking up at the long river of history, the ups and downs of life are a drop in the ocean, but how many people can be remembered for thousands of years? How many people can show their ambitions on their own stage? People with great achievements can tolerate things that ordinary people can't tolerate, and can tolerate things that ordinary people can't tolerate. Only with a broad mind can they achieve great things.

"When studying heaven and man, we can change the past and present and become a family statement." A It has never been recorded in history books, and no one has ever been here since. The "Holy Lord" listened to the wind and made Sima Qian suffer from corruption, but he did not degenerate in anger, dragged his mutilated body, endured the ridicule and contempt of the world, accepted all hostility with a broad mind, and created an immortal chapter with his persistence. "Historians sing a swan song, leaving Sao without rhyme", how magnificent!

Emperor Taizong accepted it with an open mind and widely accepted suggestions, making it governed by Guan Zhen; Chongzhen was narrow-minded, and hearsay caused people to cry bitterly about Yuan Chonghuan and hanged themselves in the southeast branch.

Having a broad mind means that you can look at life correctly and your ambition will never fail.

"Only the breeze on the river and the bright moon in the mountains can be heard by the ears. When the eyes touch, the color is beautiful." Although perilla frutescens is caught in the muddy water of officialdom and literary world, it can stand alone, and its breadth of mind is sighing. With this open-mindedness, perilla is in high spirits and has repeatedly lost and fought; With this open-mindedness, perilla can be more confident and ambitious in the future. Look, "the water in front of the door can still flow west, don't sing yellow chicken with white hair!" " "

Having a broad mind shows that you can correctly handle the relationship between people, find your own friendship and feelings, and pave a smooth road to success.

In the past, Lian Po made outstanding achievements and was very self-reliant. In his eyes, Lin Xiangru was just a Confucian scholar, and defending the country depended on their armed bloody battle, so he got into trouble several times. However, Lin Xiangru was not angry, but accepted it. Later, Lin Xiangru "returned to Zhao intact", and Lian Po suddenly realized that he offered a humble apology, and Lin Xiangru showed his true feelings. Lian Po was deeply moved by its broad mind, and they *.

The overlord of the place of Chu, who was buried in Wujiang River, refused to cross Jiangdong, so Liu Bang's narrow mind made Zhou Lang fly to Jingzhou. What about today? Often some people get together and attack those who are dissatisfied with their academic opinions; When you see something very popular, you will mobilize everyone to recognize it. Today's era is an era of development. What we need is a broad mind, taking its essence and discarding its dross.

Is your stage as big as the sky? But what is broader than the sky is the human mind.

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Tolerance, what is it? Tolerance is a kind of mind, wisdom and courage to face life optimistically. It can dispel the pain and tears in life, it can spread the happiness and smile of the soul. Tolerance wins humor, reduces the heaviness of life and makes life full of happiness and laughter. If you don't know how to tolerate others, then others won't tolerate you. Tolerance can make you more friends and gain happiness. "Take a step back and broaden the horizon." If you take a small step back and help others, you will get a bright future. , endure for a while, calm. It is understandable to blame others for their mistakes, but to tolerate others with a broad mind will make the world more exciting and make a wonderful person in the world with a tolerant heart. If you learn to be tolerant, you will learn a useful responsibility and a good way to be a man. Tolerance is powerful in life. Because criticism will make people dissatisfied, abuse will make people disgusted, humiliation will make people angry, and threats will make people angry. Only tolerance, can't avoid, can't retreat, can't stop, can't resist. Lin Xiangru's tolerance for Lian Po's insolence finally influenced Lian Po to offer a humble apology, leaving an eternal beauty to make peace, so that Zhao Xiao, no one dared to commit it; Premier Zhou pursued the policy of seeking common ground while reserving differences and seeking peace in diplomacy with his broad mind, which forged his great personality and set up the great country demeanor of the Chinese nation. Similarly, the unity and harmony between neighbors need tolerance, the husband and wife can not do without tolerance, and a healthy, civilized and progressive society can not do without tolerance everywhere. If there is no tolerance, the country will meet with each other, the people will fight with each other, and society will become gloomy.

Of course, learning to be tolerant is not unprincipled indulgence, nor is it to submit to humiliation. Tolerance is a beneficial attitude towards life and a gentleman's wind. Learn to be tolerant, and you will be good at discovering the beauty of things and feeling the beauty of life. Let's treat life with an open mind and an open mind, so that the original dull, irritable and angry life exudes charming brilliance.

"A generous person, his love is often more than resentment, he is optimistic and cheerful, open-minded and patient, but he will not be sad, depressed, anxious or annoyed; He used love to comfort his partner, relatives and friends, to explain with reason, to move with emotion, to make the listener tempted, admired and respected, so that there would be no emotional estrangement, action opposition and psychological resentment between them. "

Tolerance is actually a state of mind, a healthy psychology that is not demanding, extreme and willful. It requires us to learn, experience, understand, show a little courage and wisdom, think, do and live ... In a short life, learning to be tolerant means that your life is better.

The sea is very big, so it can hold all the water. A person should have a mind like the sea. Be generous, be generous, be calm, my friend. As long as you are truly tolerant, you will have a successful life.