Throughout the ages, there has been a famous saying more or less: listen to other people's opinions and trust them. After all, others know you better than yourself, and most of their suggestions are for your own good. They may be your friends and relatives. Similarly, how many kings in history destroyed themselves and abandoned themselves because they listened to the rumors of villains? Therefore, we should trust others, but we must trust people who are worthy of your trust.
Life is always faced with big and small choices: from choosing between two beloved toys to making a choice in the future, we must listen to other people's opinions. But again, it is wrong for us to trust anyone and not trust anyone. When we are faced with a choice, our minds are always immersed in other people's ideas, which makes it more and more difficult for us to make a decision. Humans have said, "Be good at listening to other people's opinions. "At this time, we should have a calm mind, rule out all other people's ideas, and know what we want by our own intuition before making a decision. If you choose that road, you must go on unswervingly, even if you regret it, because this is the road you choose for yourself, for your own thoughts and for your true self.
"Be good at listening to other people's opinions" "Go your own way and let others talk! "These two sentences seem to be incompatible, but in fact they complement each other. They mark two States of the life cycle. " No one is perfect, so in order to be close to perfection, we should listen to others' accusations and opinions on shortcomings and make our personality more sound. When our personality grows up, we will inevitably have our own new ideas: when making choices, we will act according to our intuition and break through our own bottlenecks. After the breakthrough, you need to learn from your opinions and constantly improve yourself. Life is such a process, from completion to breakthrough, from breakthrough to completion, and so on. This is the real value of a person's existence, and let him improve step by step.
People have gone through many crossroads in their life, and crossing the road in an orderly way according to other people's instructions at the corner does not affect which way you choose to take. On the contrary, with the guidance and help of others, you can cross the road faster and make better decisions about your own direction.
The long road of life is criss-crossing Choosing different paths will naturally lead to different lives. Faced with many choices, we should believe in ourselves, others and selectively listen to others' good opinions in order to take every step of life well.