There is a story about a pedestrian who fell down because of the uneven road surface. He got up, didn't walk a few steps and accidentally fell down, so he lay on the ground and couldn't get up. Someone asked him, "Why don't you get up and keep walking?" The man said, "since I will fall when I get up, why should I get up?" I might as well lie down like this so that I won't fall down again. "
Such a person, you must think he is a ridiculous person, because he is afraid of falling, so he dare not get up and walk, so he will never reach his destination.
You must have seen a toy called "tumbler". The center of gravity of the "tumbler" is below, so no matter how you push and poke, as long as you let go, it will stand up again immediately, so it will never get down. Life is like this. People can become stronger because of constant suffering. You have learned far more from failure than from successful experience.
There are many reasons for failure. Han Feizi in the Spring and Autumn Period once said, "People who are not overwhelmed by mountains may trip over stones." If there are some bad factors in your personality, such as arrogance and complacency, then you should try to change it, because this personality factor is the direct cause of failure, and the failure caused by this factor will make you suffer heavy losses.
To be sure, no one likes failure. Because, failure is mostly some painful experiences, even those that make your life suffer great losses. However, no matter who has a smooth life and has never tasted failure, it is estimated that there is no such thing. No matter how great and ordinary you are, as long as you are a person and follow your life step by step, then you have experienced failure more or less, but the severity is different.
Of course, you don't have to admit this. You can say that you have never failed, because your life is very smooth, without any blow or failure. Then, I can also believe what you said, you are successful. But I want to tell you that if you really haven't experienced failure, then I can definitely say that your life is meaningless and your so-called success is an illusion, because life without failure is boring, meaningless and even impossible.
It is true that most people almost deny failure, and some people even turn pale when it comes to failure. In fact, failure is not shameful. What is really shameful is those who don't admit their failure. Because on the journey of life, failure is normal and failure is abnormal. What matters is your attitude towards failure and whether you can turn it into victory. If you are devastated by a temporary failure, then I can say that it is not failure that defeats you, but your failed heart that defeats yourself.
"Failure is the mother of success!" This sentence is not unfamiliar to you. All people who are eager for success must be ready to meet failure at any time. Success without paying the price is impossible. If you want to achieve something, you have to pay courage, which is the courage to face failure calmly. You should know that failure is a very important wealth for a person, and how to cherish this failed wealth will become a prerequisite for you to decide your future.
Failure is a test of money and time. If you can't make full use of this test agent, then you can't be a winner. No matter what kind of failure, as long as you can get up immediately after falling, the lessons of falling will become useful experiences and help you achieve future success.
Therefore, being unwilling to face failure is as undesirable as being unwilling to admit failure. The biggest failure in life is never failing and not daring to fail. In fact, if you can take failure as one of the compulsory courses in life, you will find that almost all failure experiences will bring you some unexpected benefits. Taking failure as the basis of success in life is your best choice. Remember that failure is the mother of success!