Let what has been lost be lost! Instead of regretting, it is better to be proactive and get meaningful compensation in other aspects.
The journey of life can't be just flowers and laughter. There are bound to be thorns, cliffs, traps and setbacks. In the face of difficulties, setbacks, failures and adversity, different people will adopt different attitudes and have different lives. In a word, attitude determines everything.
In the face of "obstacles" in life, the weak will only adopt a negative attitude, will only cry bitterly, stop, complain about others and lament the injustice of life, thus becoming losers in life forever. During the Three Kingdoms period, Zhou Yu was self-reliant and had no rivals in his eyes, but gradually Zhuge Liang took the lead. Zhou Yu was older than Zhu Geliang, so before he died, he sighed, "I was born with Yu, why did I get lucky?" There are similar cases around us. For example, some students have adopted a negative attitude because of their failure in a major exam, resulting in inferiority complex, which is determined by their negative attitude.
However, for the strong, they will take a positive and optimistic attitude, face everything calmly, cherish every possible chance of success in life, regard setbacks as a ladder to success, fight against adversity and rise up in setbacks. Napoleon once said, "A soldier who doesn't want to be a marshal is not a good soldier!" It is this positive attitude towards life supported by faith that accompanied him through the bumpy road from soldier to marshal and changed his life status quo. On the other hand, in the 2008 Olympic Games, after 17 days of fierce competition, the 29th Olympic Games came to an end and witnessed the birth of one champion after another in this 17 days. There are also some people and things that move us. They may not be champions or gold medals, but their stories will be written into the history of the Olympic Games, just like the magical Phillips and Bolt. Among them, there is a terminally ill king-Van der Wade. If you look at his head carefully, maybe you will see two shocking scars. These two scars are not other people's decorations. This is a leukemia patient who has received chemotherapy and bone marrow transplantation. Traces left, such scars, some people say that even breathing will tremble. Vanderbilt, 27, has a gift for swimming. However, at the age of 20, he was diagnosed with leukemia, which took away not only his sports career, but also his life. Fortunately, Vanderbilt won the final victory in the fight against the disease. After successful bone marrow stem cell transplantation, he went to back in the game. In 2008, he wrote the most heroic stroke in his sports career in Beijing. Gold inlaid with jade is the best reward for a hero who never gives up. It can be seen that attitude determines whether a person is successful or not, and a positive and optimistic attitude will help us to the other side of success …
In our long journey of life, attitude always determines everything, so no matter how harsh we are, don't be troubled by pessimistic thoughts! In order to pursue our ideals, we must fly and accept the baptism of wind and rain; In order to realize our lifelong dream, we must fly to meet the spring breeze and the rising sun. Although our fragile wings may be hurt, we must fly far away. A positive and optimistic attitude will be the secret of our success.