However, as people usually say, success or failure, persistence or abandonment are sometimes quite vague. Sometimes, persistence means success, but it also means walking into a dead end; In some places, giving up means failure, but winning a broad life.
Persistence is a belief, and giving up is an open mind; Persistence is a burden, and giving up is a regret. The right choice in life is difficult and easy. What is easy is simple understanding, but what is difficult is complex cognitive process.
I remember a climber who gave up when he was only one step away from the summit. Later, someone asked him, why don't you stick to it? Take one more step and you will succeed. However, he said, if I take one more step, I will die, because my physical burden has reached the limit, and I have seen the peak without regrets. Here, persistence is wrong, but giving up is a wise choice.
One year, the topic of the college entrance examination composition was a cartoon, which showed a man digging a well on the surface of the water layer. He dug three or four wells, some of which were separated from the water layer by a wall, but he gave up halfway. Here, persistence means success, and giving up means failure.
Being able to correctly control the life of persistence and abandonment is the life without regrets. How to do this, I think the main thing is to have a correct guiding ideology. You cannot change the objective conditions, but you can change yourself.
Let's talk about habits first. This is easy to understand. Stick to good habits and give up bad habits. For example, smoking, drinking, playing cards and other bad habits should be quit, even if you may lose some friends and friends from now on, the advantages definitely outweigh the disadvantages; Good habits such as going to bed early and getting up early, exercising, reading and writing should be adhered to. Even though you may have to endure some loneliness from now on, it has filled your life.
Insist on and give up, but also depends on the right time, place and people, and guide the situation. Don't give up when it's time to insist, don't work hard when it's time to make concessions, persist when the situation is favorable, and give up as soon as possible when it can't be done. Here, the key is to have a correct evaluation of what you insist on and what you give up, and more importantly, to judge the situation.
Persistence and giving up is a state of mind and an attitude. Stick to it when you are in a good mood, give up when you are in a bad mood, and vice versa. Persistence and abandonment depend on mentality. Sometimes, wisdom is wrong and we should stick to it, while wisdom is right and we should give it up flatly. What is shown here is an attitude. Regardless of mentality or attitude, persistence and abandonment may be irrational misinterpretations.
Persistence and abandonment are dialectical unity and can be transformed into each other. If you don't insist, you give up, and if you don't give up, you insist. Those who insisted later resolutely gave up, and those who started to give up later insisted.
In fact, in the final analysis, life has no persistence and abandonment, no right or wrong, and no choice. The so-called self-knowledge
I don't want to talk about persistence and giving up. Let it be!