I have heard such a fable: a rich landlord sat under a big tree all day worrying: "Why is happiness so far away from me?" Did I do something wrong, or ... "So he made up his mind to find happiness, so he picked up his gold and silver jewelry and embarked on a journey to find happiness.

He came to a temple and saw the young monk sweeping the floor. He smiled happily. So he went in and said, "Ultrafine products, why are you so happy?" The young monk smiled and said, "Because I am relaxed, I am very happy!" " ""superfine products, what should I do to be happy? My master said, "As long as you are willing to let go and do what you like, you will be happy." After listening to the little monk, he put down the gold and silver jewelry on his back. Sure enough, he was much more relaxed, so he walked out of the temple with a smile and shouted: "I am very happy! " "

Give up, give up, and you will get it. In my opinion, the best way to do things is not to learn to let go. Don't let go for the sake of getting better in the future! Isn't man wandering between giving up and getting?

Desire is human nature. Under the temptation of money and power, we often can't control ourselves. It is because of desire that we struggle. But in the face of desire, it is often difficult for us to grasp, either failing or surpassing. So there are too many tragedies. Therefore, you must learn to be willing to give up, don't haggle over trifles, relax a little, and you will live more easily.

Learn to give up before you get something. Look at the famous figures in history. Gou Jian, the King of Yue, tried his best to destroy Wu. Han Xin fought back the humiliation of his legs, and Tian Ji raced horses, which was much smaller.

People are like this, and so are all things in the world. Gold is always found in the sand, and cicadas grow up in peeling. The sunshine after the storm is more brilliant!

Think about the past, we used to chatter about a piece of candy; Because a word tore the group, because a friend did something wrong and vowed not to talk to him for three months. Think about it, is it worth it? Man's life is short. Should we waste this short life on such trifles? Wouldn't it be better to put these aside and find your own ideal?

Failure may get you into a trap, and success may get you into heaven. You often suffer from failure and become arrogant because of success. However, these things have already become the past. The past belongs to time. Let go of failure, but also let go of success and strive for new goals!

Everything depends on people's efforts, and people can do it or not. They seek concessions, patience and forbearance in their struggle. Think about it carefully, but I can't bear it. The small house is too small and the big house is too big.

Give up what you should give up. Sometimes a small house is just for the sake of being big. If you get what you deserve, sometimes you have to give up after you get it, so you have to go with it. Give up, you can give up money, fame and fortune, for example, Fan Li, Mei Lanfang, you can also give up life, Haizi, Wang Guowei, give up mortal dust: Master Hongyi.

Give up self: the daughter represented by Wang Zhaojun is willing to be free. Gandhi and Su Wu have a poem, life is precious, what about love? Freedom? You can also use people who moved China, people who fought against SARS, and people who made certain sacrifices in earthquake relief. In fact, giving up is a realm of life. From the initial financial, desire, pursuit, life, are constantly repaired.

3. Gain and loss, loss and gain.

Plants lose beautiful flowers and gain sweet fruits; The earth lost its new green and gained pure white snow. Human beings have been satisfied with material things and lost the touch of their hearts. Gains and losses seem to have to be linked twice. The more you lose, the more you will gain in the future. Gains and losses should be mutually causal and inseparable. "Heaven will descend to the people of Sri Lanka, and they must first suffer their minds and work hard." God is fair, he wants to give you different preferences from others, and then he will take away your sense of superiority like others. Zhang Haidi's innate conditions are unmatched by us ordinary people. It can be said that she was losing from the beginning, but he knew that God was fair. He has no healthy body, but he has far superior perseverance. He used what he had to show the miracle of life to every healthy person. He lost a lot, but gained more precious. Loss is gain, and gain is loss. I believe that every one of us is touched by the mention of SARS. Why is there such a heavy blow? We have gains and losses. We pursue the development of material life too much and forget the laws of nature. We get too much from nature. We get available resources, delicious fruits and delicious meat. God gave us a lot, but we were still not satisfied and plundered, so he was angry. Let us lose more. Let each of us keep this in mind, and don't be too greedy.

If you are complaining about the hardships of life, don't be afraid to look at the happiness you get in the hardships; If you are complaining about the boring study and losing your virginity, think about the superior life you may get in the future. If you have a lot, don't be carried away by happiness, and be prepared to lose it. Life is beautiful and heaven is fair. We should all know that sometimes, you get what you lose and you get what you lose. Don't crave too much and complain too much. If you lose on the left, you will get something else on the right. Enjoy the happiness of gain and loss, and believe in the law of fairness. ?

There is an interview question: you are driving and passing a station on a stormy night. There are three people waiting for the bus: one is a patient; One is the doctor who once saved you; There is another woman (or man) who is your dream lover. But your car can only carry one person. What would you choose? Among the 200 applicants, another one was hired. He didn't explain any reason, but he added, "Give the doctor the car keys and ask him to take the patient to the hospital. And I will stay and wait for the bus with my dream. " I told this story to many friends, and everyone thought it was a perfect answer. But at first, few people

People think, I think this is because we never want to give up our advantage (car keys)! The greatest source of distress is suffering losses. People often don't understand it. If you want something, you must give it up.

4. How can we "get" without "giving up"?

Willing to give up advantages is sometimes a convenient way to give others and a way to sublimate yourself. Growing up, everyone told me to grasp my own advantages and stand on my own advantages. Maybe I stood up several times, but my heart lost my sense of accomplishment and motivation. Gradually, I developed a sense of dependence. One day, when I found that advantage was no longer an advantage, I was at a loss and lacked a spiritual pillar, which made me uneasy. Like a bird bound by wings, watching its companions fly high, but nothing stays in place; Like a bug thrown into the abyss, groping in the dark, struggling in the dark, reaching out to touch everything around, except cold or cold? Until I saw this story, I had a new understanding of Deng, and I had a new understanding of the gains and losses of "Li". "Advantage" can be a person's glory, but it can never be a dependence. Sometimes you have to learn to give up your advantages. There is a saying that "while you are mature, you are constantly abandoning the beauty that you used to be proud of." We can't live in the past, it will only become prisoners of history. If you don't understand the realm of "giving up", the more you get, the heavier you feel, and you can't get rid of it. In this way, all kinds of obstacles and interference will come one after another and linger, making it difficult for you to move forward, and the "take" East will become heavier. Once an advantage becomes qualitative and a burden, its value will be gone. Just like fish and bear's paw, (if I am confused by who I take, I would rather not) when there is no hard choice, even if I am confused by it, I would rather not have anyone. Advantage is just a kind of dependence. If you take it too seriously or even distort it, you will trip over it sooner or later! "She" and "De" were originally simple words, but some people succeeded and others failed. The reason is that we are willing and unwilling to give up in the face of advantages. Sometimes, giving up will improve your personality, and giving up in an instant will make you meet her (him) in life. In short, from such a short story, I understand that superiority is not a magic weapon to win. If you are willing to give up at the right time, your life may be different.

If you are willing to give up your advantage, you can't keep your feet on the ground after all. Willing to give up your advantage, maybe you can enjoy the blue sky beyond the white clouds. Part II: Composition for the College Entrance Examination: Giving up Jia Pingwa said: "Giving up is really a philosophy and an art". The word "willing" seems simple, but it is full of philosophy and wisdom. The ancients had a lot of discussions about this, for example, it is a blessing to suffer, and it is a great plan not to bear it. Everyone is talking about the relationship between "giving up" and "getting". There is also a saying in Laozi: "If you want to take it, you must repair it first." It means if you want to take it, you have to give it first. This is to "give up" first and then "get". Our ancients summed up this truth thousands of years ago. This philosophical exposition in Tao Te Ching is very comprehensive. People who don't understand this truth often run into a wall. People are often unwilling to give up a little money and die. There are many such things in history. There is also such a record in the history of Wang Mang at the end of the Western Han Dynasty. At that time, the rebel army was strong and captured many fortresses, and the capital shook. Wang Mang appointed nine generals, and the so-called "Nine Tigers" sent troops to suppress them, but Wang Mang was reluctant to give money, only giving them a little money. These nine tigers had no fighting spirit at all, and soon they were in flight, defeated, escaped and killed, and the insurgents quickly captured the capital. Wang Mang loves money, but at this critical moment when his life hangs by a thread, he is very confused. In the end, Wang Mang didn't even leave a body, which is unique among emperors in past dynasties. This is a reluctant attachment to money, and finally lost life and political power, thus a dynasty perished. In reality, not everyone can make good use of their own money and achieve "giving up" and "getting". Many men are often inferior to women and don't want men. This aspect is used freely. What is impressive is Empress Wu Zetian. Although Wu Zetian was favored by the emperor at that time, she was only canonized as "Zhao Yi" in the palace, ranking third in the harem. In the struggle with the queen and Xiao Shufei, finally, Wu Zetian won and became the queen.

Being willing is not only a philosophy of life, but also an art of doing things. Giving up and getting, like water and fire, heaven and earth and yin and yang, are contradictory and complementary, existing in heaven and earth, in the world and in the heart. Only by balancing the relationship between giving up and gaining can we achieve harmony and unity. Giving up is a choice, a commitment, a kind of patience, a kind of wisdom, a kind of pain, a kind of happiness and an art. If you really grasp the mechanism and scale of giving up and getting, it is equivalent to grasping the key to life and the chance of success. You know, a hundred years of life is just a repetition of giving up and getting a new one.

Step 5 be willing

Some people say that the purpose of giving up is to gain. Just like this, everything in the world has to be given up, but you can't have both. From black hair to silver silk, I gave up the complacency of young people and got the courage of old age; From ling cold driving alone to bits and pieces grinding into dust, I gave up the proud shadow of exclusive prosperity and got the legendary story told through the ages. From the height of the temple to the distance of the rivers and lakes, you give up the supreme money rights and interests, and get the leisure and freedom filled with smoke. Everything in the world is transformed into the fleeting time and the joys and sorrows of life in the inertia law of life and death and recovery. I once complained about the miserliness of fate, because it was reluctant to give me a little "peace". The friend smiled and suggested, "Why don't we play a game? Now you start to move forward. You should put all the stones on the road in your laundry list until you come to the tree in front. " So I started to pick it up on foot, but I couldn't lift it on the road. My friend smiled and threw a lot at me. I can't move my back, so I threw a few more pieces, only a few pieces left. Finally, I arrived. Isn't life such an experience? Since people can walk, we will carry a laundry list on the road and meet many things along the way, such as ideals. If we don't know how to choose our interests, we will be too tired to get up one day. Therefore, if you know how to be willing, you can get it better. This reminds me of an interesting story: a child reached into a bottle full of hazelnuts, but when he tried to get it back, his hand got stuck in the bottle. He doesn't want to give up hazelnuts, and he can't take his hand back. He couldn't help crying sadly. The ending of the story should be his own choice. First, he greedily caught a lot of hazelnuts, and then he had to let the adults smash bottles and get a scolding. The second is to know how to be content, take only half and make your fist smaller. Although you gave up half, the problem was solved. So sometimes, when the cost is inversely proportional to the income, whether the problem can be solved depends on whether you are willing or not.

Of course, the benefits of being willing are not only related to whether you know it or not, but also related to the object of being willing. If we pick up stones on our backs, we can't blindly choose between them foolishly, just as we can't blindly choose between interests and rationality. At least let the stones stay pleasing to the eye and useful. This is glad you came! If we reach out to catch hazelnuts, we can first weigh the hardness and quality of hazelnuts for a while, and don't catch rotten nuts at once, which will only save energy and miss our own taste; I'm hungry at the moment, but I've had diarrhea for three days. It's not worth the loss. Therefore, we should also choose with the attitude of "taking the essence and discarding the dross". After all, being willing to give up properly can make the acquisition more meaningful. How to give up? I wandered in the wider and wider Liuchi Lane, floating beside the Chrysanthemum Creek with the faint fragrance of Tao Yuanming, and followed Lu Xun's long journey of abandoning medicine and becoming a writer, from which I found the answer. In the bright future, I know how to give up.

6. Giving up is also a kind of wisdom

Cui Qi, the Nobel Prize winner of 1998, is simply a "freak" in some people's eyes: he stays away from politics, never shows his face, spends all day in books and laboratories, and even works in the laboratory as usual on the day when the Nobel Prize is crowned. What is even more incredible is that in the frontier field of American high-tech research, Cui Qi is actually a "computer illiterate". The instrument design and chart making in his research depend on his stroke by stroke. Once you want to send an email, you can also ask the secretary to send it for you. His theory is: the world is changing so fast that I have no time to keep up! Giving up the dazzling things in the eyes of the world won him a lot of precious time and supreme honor. People's life is very short, and limited energy can't take care of everything. There are so many dazzling wonderful things in the world. At this time, giving up becomes a great wisdom. Giving up is actually to get. What's wrong with giving up some unnecessary "beauty" as long as you can get what you want? Once upon a time, a child put his hand into a bottle full of hazelnuts. He grabbed a handful of hazelnuts as much as possible, but when he tried to get it back, his hand got stuck in the bottle. He didn't want to give up hazelnut, and he couldn't take his hand out, so he couldn't help crying sadly. Then a man next to him told him, "Just take half, make your fist smaller, and then you can take your hand out easily." Facing a lot of food in front of you, if you stuff it into your mouth, not only will your stomach digest, but your mouth will burst! Therefore, among many goals, we must give up and choose according to reality. Only in this way can we choose the nutritious food that suits us, and then chew it slowly and savor it until it is completely absorbed, so that we can have plenty of energy again?

Giving up is to better adjust yourself and prepare a good attitude to approach the goal. Especially in modern society, the competition is increasingly fierce, and everyone's survival pressure is getting heavier and heavier. The more you pursue, the deeper your disappointment. So be sure to keep a clear head and don't be the child crying with hazelnuts, because after all, we are not children anymore! Giving up is a kind of wisdom and an open mind. It is not blind or narrow-minded. Giving up is a kind of relaxation for the soul and a kind of nourishment for the soul. It dispels dark clouds and purifies the mind. With it, life can have a bright and calm state of mind; With it, life will be sunny. So friends, don't forget that there is still a kind of wisdom in life called "giving up"! Learn to give up The scientist asked Marin to do the experiment: Through a large piece of glass in the pool, Marin always wanted to rush over, but he hit the glass, once, twice, three times and more than ten times. Marin hit his head, still rushed at the glass, and still broke his head? Learn to give up!

Learn to give up, giving up is not giving up, but waiting for a better opportunity. Didn't Guan Gong, a warrior who embodied the word "righteousness", also have the experience of "declining Cao"? But he always wanted to help Liu Fuhan, and finally had the feat of "riding a thousand miles alone"! Learn to give up, giving up is not a retreat, but a storage of greater courage. As the old saying goes, "a gentleman can bend and stretch", and "bending" is not cowardice, but a long-term strategy for further "stretching". Only when the fist is backward can it be played more forcefully. Gou Jian, the King of Yue, tried his best and finally defeated the State of Wu. Learn to give up, don't insist, it will only kill your will and eventually lose yourself. Persistence and persistence can only make unnecessary sacrifices, which is a kind of stupidity and delusion of fools. Kong Ming has the honor of being a mountain. Ollila made Nokia give up TV manufacturing, machinery and other industries and focus on telecommunications and mobile phone services, which has its own secrets. It's nice to hold the last card in your hand, but it depends on whether your face is covered with tears or smiles. Abandoning the splendor, Wen Tianxiang wrote the words "Who has never died in life since ancient times, leaving Dan Xin as a history book"; Giving up cowardice, Wen Yiduo had the feat of standing up to the enemy's gun and making his last speech righteously; Giving up American flour, Zhu Ziqing explained the backbone of a China man with death. If you choose to give up correctly, you will have more gains and greater pride!

7. Learn to give up. Giving up is a kind of beauty of wisdom.

If you know how to give up, you will know how to have and cherish. Learn to Give Up Long ago, a man asked a wise man. The wise man took him to a path paved with colorful stones and gave him a basket to pick up all the stones he liked on the path. The man picked up stones of various colors. Finally, his shoulders were too heavy to support, and he fell down. Seeing this, the wise man asked him to keep his favorite stone and throw away the rest. In this way, he felt relaxed and soon reached the end. Although he gave up colorful stones, he gained a relaxed and happy mood and achieved success. So we should learn to give up. Giving up is sometimes better to gain. At all times, many people's success is based on giving up, but they will not hesitate because they choose to give up. because

After giving up for cruelty and pain, you will have a chance to get a new life and succeed in your career. Lu Xun abandoned medicine to follow the literature, and today's "Confucius has himself"; Van Gogh refused to be a missionary and became a painter, which led to today's Sunflower. Bill Gates gave up the opportunity of further study at Harvard University and joined the business world, which made Microsoft what it is today. Only when they learn to give up can they successfully control their lives and achieve success. Yes, this is just as the philosopher said: Sometimes giving up does not mean failure, but filtering life, baptizing the soul and re-understanding yourself. I remember reading such a fable: two rivers start from the source and meet and flow to the sea. They crossed the mountain stream and came to the edge of the desert. A river said, "I must cross it." The other said, "Let's go back and start a new road. If we keep going, we may dry up before we get out of the desert. " So, a river went on and dried up in the desert; The other returned to the source, found a new path, and finally flowed to the sea. Isn't the second river reborn because it was abandoned? Giving up may be painful, but every time you give up, you will be worthy of yourself. Only by learning to give up can we move towards the other side of success. Giving up can not only make people successful, but also make life more valuable. I learned such a thing in the recent newspaper. An old man who collects garbage for a living saw a leather bag containing hundreds of thousands of cash. Faced with the temptation of more than 100,000 yuan, the old man chose to give up and handed over all the money to the police. These hundreds of thousands of things are something that the old man who makes a living as a garbage collector can't earn all his life, but he chose to give up. Although I gave up hundreds of thousands of cash, I gained the value of life. We students should also learn to give up. On weekends, we give up time for rest and play and give full play to our specialties. It seems that we have given up, but we have enriched our lives. During the exam, we gave up a fill-in-the-blank problem that we couldn't do through hard thinking and put more time on the problem that we could do. It seems that we gave up and got more. To put a glass of clean water, you must choose to dump the existing old water; To get a rose, you must choose to give up the rose you have. Although I gave up, I also gained something. In our life, we will meet one crossroads after another, with too many choices and too many quits. In this choice and abandonment, we will move towards the other side of maturity and success. Friends, learn to give up, I believe that giving up today may be gestating greater success tomorrow! Article 3: Topic Composition See Wisdom between Willingness and Willingness Topic Composition "See Wisdom between Willingness and Willingness" and "Smart Life, Willingness and Willingness Taste" are advertisements made by famous Sichuan wines in CCTV at a high price. Good wine needs taste. Isn't life like this? When the creator brought us into this world, he had already given us imperfections, and we were doomed to live an imperfect life. Unfortunately, however, many people with dementia have never understood this simplest truth and will never let it go. They also want this and that. Finally, the bamboo basket drew water with a sieve, ended in one breath, and died with hatred.

Giving up is a necessity in life. You should learn to give up some and strive for others at any time. Some people know what to give up, what to get, when to give up and when to get it, and some people don't know at all, so there is the size of the realm and the level of taste. In 406 AD, Tao Yuanming, a famous recluse poet, changed the weak image of traditional literati and shouted, "How can you bow down to the village children with five buckets of rice?" He resolutely took off his robe of 8 1 day and set foot on the bright road in his heart to erect a shining banner of wisdom for the vast China. Cao Xueqin said that the world knows that gold and silver are good, and fame cannot be forgotten. He is talking about ordinary people, sighing about stubborn people, and the great Tao Yuanming is naturally not among them.

At the end of the Eastern Jin Dynasty, the change of the upper regime was like a lantern, and scenes of killing and meanness were staged. The dark reality in front of him finally extinguished the ideal fire in Tao Yuanming's heart, and his dream of helping the poor since he was a child finally stopped breathing. Tao Yuanming finally understood what Meng said 700 years ago. If you are poor, you will be immune to it, and if you are rich, you will help the world. Yes, it's the last moment. It's time to decide whether to persist or change. This time, in order to preserve our dignity and personality, we must give up a lot. This is by no means an ideal paradise. Only by choosing to leave can we stick to our ideals, and only by giving up vain fame and fortune can we preserve our sacred personality. As a result, he got rid of the dream job of countless people and happily returned to the countryside where countless people abandoned their shoes for fear of avoiding it. Since then, I have cultivated my own land, made my own wine, composed my own poems, played the piano and picked my own chrysanthemums. Even if I had to beg in the famine year, I was still pale and refused to accept charity from dignitaries. I always keep my personality independent and stick to the highest moral law in my heart. The most commendable thing is that in the middle of September in the fourth year of Yuanjia (427), the poet, who was ill for several months, wrote three elegies for himself when he was still conscious, and wrote at the end of the third poem: "What if he dies?" At this moment, he has regarded the cold and dark death as so plain and natural, and the arrogant death has opened his mouth in surprise in front of him. Life is bitter, but death? Abandon everything, go through hardships, stick to your ideals, and stick to your final dignity. Even in the face of death, what regrets can you have? In the face of power, some people give up their dignity; In the face of interests, some people abandoned morality; In the face of darkness, some people abandoned the principle; In the face of injustice, some people abandon sincerity. When most people, even the vast majority of people, choose to give up dignity, morality, principles and sincerity, what is the difference between this world and hell?

People need a little spirit. People without spirit are indeed animals, and they are not worthy to be called animals. However, in the face of realistic interests and powerful dark forces, it is easy for people to give up completely and give up the value of being a human being. My friend, from today on, please keep Tao Yuanming in your heart and always keep it in your heart. You will certainly draw wisdom and strength from him, and they will certainly make your life shine with charming spiritual light. "How can I bend over to the children in the village for five buckets of rice?" This voice is earth-shattering, and this voice shines through the ages. Now, Tao Yuanming has become a symbol. He represents not only himself, but also a spirit, a valuable spirit that dares to give up fame and fortune and adheres to personal dignity and ideals. For thousands of years, inspired by him, countless literati and people with lofty ideals in later generations dared to say no, fought against power and the dark and decadent system, and wrote the ode of the world, making the world upright and benefiting the world. It is they who stand up the backbone of the Chinese nation. Today, a thousand years later, I think of Tao Yuanming again, and I think of his failure to bend over for five buckets of rice. I can't help being fascinated by his willing wisdom, and I can't help being inspired by his fearless noble spirit. However, I feel straight and my breathing is smooth.

8. give up and give up. There is a saying in Zen Buddhism in Wang Na: "Give up a romantic, and the sky will last forever." He who persists in darkness will never get sunshine. Giving up is a kind of wisdom in life. If you give up, you will get it, and life will be interesting. (the introduction is concise and decent, not bad! Whales don't know how to give up. They chase sardines and end up stuck in the sand. Imagine, if the whale looked far away and abandoned a small sardine in front of him, would he still be a prisoner of the sea sand? It is precisely because it does not know how to give up that it has entered the "heaven" of death. (well expressed, concise and decent! ) Life is a process of giving up constantly. In his youth, Mao Zedong gave up the beauty and worry-free of youth, and shouted out the great ambition that "one is determined to leave the countryside and never return until he learns to become famous". He devoted himself to the revolutionary cause, left footprints on the way to the Long March and left a confident smile in front of Tiananmen Square. Is willing to let him become a great leader, is willing to let the Chinese nation's five thousand years of culture back to ancient times. The pocket of life can only hold a certain weight. If you don't give up, you will be overwhelmed by the heavy burden. Giving up is also for better acquisition.

Tao Yuanming, a reclusive scholar, returned to Xi and asked for a farewell trip. The world craves fame and fortune, but he abandons the secular glory of officialdom. For him, to give up all worldly things is to gain freedom that does not violate his heart and a chic life. Giving up is also a kind of life wisdom. Give up, give up a happiness, but get a lot of happiness.

Hu Zhong and Xie Xiaojun gave up their carefree life, took young children and put down their elderly parents, but for more children and more parents. Because she dared to give up, she became a snow lotus blooming on the plateau. In the world, no matter in the past or now, there is absolutely nothing that you just get and don't give up. Throughout the ages, there are not a few people who dare to give up. It is because they keep giving up that they get the happiness of one or more people. If you want to taste delicious food, you must pay the corresponding money. For us, if we want to get excellent grades, get the teacher's affirmation, and gain a foothold in society, we must learn to give up something. I think only those who make the right choice between giving up and getting can embark on a bright road. Dare to give up, all this is between getting and giving up, only giving up can get it, and getting and giving up are dialectical unity.

The happiest people are not all good people, but they are good at giving up and dare to give up, so they have more. It is difficult for us to reach the state of "no desire, no desire" in the whole world, so we should have a balance in our hearts to weigh the pros and cons. Let's learn to give up on the road of growth and experience the wisdom of life growth!