After a brief understanding of the whole study abroad week, I deeply sympathize with my personal experience in Liu Xue, but the problems in real life should be solved in time. After all, we still have to live.
Back to real life, when it comes to affection, if there is no way to help your life, I think you should still take up the weapon belonging to the law, so as to find the balance point of life.
At that time, Liu Xue's biological parents only chose to sell Liu Xue and get married. Although they are husband and wife, as their own flesh and blood, Liu is a victim in this matter and has no interest at all. After more than ten years, it is a good thing that one's own flesh and blood are looking for relatives, but no one expected that there would be serious contradictions between the two sides because of the dispute over interests.
When the family can't shelter Liu Xue from the wind and rain, as a person, he still has to choose the weapon to protect himself, so he can choose the law. At least the law is fair to both parties and can protect the interests of both parties to the greatest extent.
Liu Xue found his biological parents, and put forward the demand that biological parents can buy a house or rent a house for themselves to solve the housing problem. First of all, there is no legal guarantee for buying a house, but as biological parents, it is incumbent on them to build a house for their children, because this is their own flesh and blood, and it is also the responsibility and obligation that guardians should perform.
Perhaps Liu Xue's biological parents think this requirement is too harsh, so they will choose to abandon Liu Xue and deny their own flesh and blood. However, as a minor, Liu Xue has no financial ability at all, so it is reasonable to ask parents to solve the housing problem by themselves.
However, Liu Xue's biological parents are not typical. For the protection of interests and practical problems, they chose to reject any questions raised by Liu Xue, which led to bloodshed. Many problems cannot be solved through communication and consultation between the two sides. In this case, both sides can only achieve their goals through law.
I believe Liu Xue doesn't want to go to court with his biological parents. After all, this is the biggest harm to the family. Once the two sides go to court, the relationship between the two sides will drop to freezing point, and even it will be difficult to have contacts in the future. This matter will definitely become a hurdle in the hearts of both sides.
But life has to go on and solve its own housing problem, so it can only be solved in the only way, so we have to choose between family and law. After all, life goes on.