However, with the progress of the times, the development of society and the construction of civilization, our affection should not stay in blind filial piety and doting.
According to the newspaper, a father signed a "father-son agreement" with his son. The main contents are as follows: the son raised all the funds for higher education by himself and solved a series of life events such as career, entrepreneurship and marriage; Parents should solve their own pension expenses and take care of their daily life. Some people say that this goes against the traditional morality that parents in China raise their children and children support their parents. There is no doubt that this is a virtue handed down for thousands of years. Dare to ask, is this era progressing? Is society developing? Can this family relationship remain unchanged? Can you adapt to this era?
This agreement is not so much a "father-son agreement" as an economic agreement. This economic agreement is in line with the development of this society, but the economic agreement does not mean the extinction of kinship agreement and love. The relationship between parents and children is kinship rather than economy. Children are always the efforts of parents. Whether you are 18 years old or an adult, our parents love us for life, and they have no regrets.
In 2009, Chen Yurong, a 55-year-old China character, was moved. She suffers from severe fatty liver. However, in order to save her son with congenital liver dysfunction by liver resection, she walked 10 km every day, rain or shine, from February 8, 2009. Seven months later, Chen Yurong's weight was reduced from 66 kg to 60 kg, and fatty liver disappeared. Doctors even call it a "miracle". On June 3, 2009, Chen Yurong underwent liver resection, and then his son Ye Haibin received a liver transplant. "Runaway Mom" has no regrets. What he wants is that his son can live a healthy and happy life, rather than asking him to do a lot for himself. Because love can't be measured by money. Family ties are so simple and complicated.
"Who has an inch of grass in his eyes and holds three Chunhui?" A son proved what filial piety is and what filial piety is. Tian's 70-year-old mother is an ordinary housewife in Zaozhuang, Shandong, but she suffers from an unusual disease, uremia, which is undoubtedly a great blow to her and her family. After Tian's mother suffered from uremia, she lived in the hospital and had to do renal dialysis every week, which was very painful. Her arm is full of pinholes. Not only that, you can't even drink water. If you are greedy, put a cucumber slice in your mouth. If you are thirsty, lick the bottle cap of mineral water. Looking at his mother, Tian would rather get uremia than his weather-beaten mother! When Tian heard that he could change his kidney, he decided to change his own. "But mother knew unconsciously," said mother, "so she wouldn't live." However, Tian lied that the hospital had a kidney source because she wanted to change her own kidney for her mother. In this way, all the people in the hospital were moved to defend this beautiful lie for Tian. I like it so much.
Think about how many people are happy now. Thousands of parents in Qian Qian are not unaware that the obligation to raise their children only needs to be 18 years old, but they have devoted their lives to their children without any regrets-because of love, not agreement. Therefore, as children, what we have to do is to be grateful and really love our parents-what parents pay for us most and best is not money, but their love.
Yes, by contrast. Today's relatives need to be independent, not always under the wings of their parents. What is needed is to fly higher and farther. Parents, too, fly higher and farther as far as they can, instead of watching their adult children fly slower and slower. Because they also have children to take care of for a while. Don't worry, because parents are tired, children will always be with them.
The agreement is more about family.