7: 32 March 28, 2005 [Source: Luoyang Evening News]
Everyone has a home, and if there is a home, there are neighbors. However, the neighborhood relationship now is very different from before.
In the past, people in one unit lived in a building or a yard. Parents are colleagues and children are classmates and partners. They greet each other when they meet, often visit each other when they are free, and are also very polite on holidays. But now, with the rise of commercial housing, in single-family residential buildings, neighbors are more unfamiliar, indifferent and alert, which is "the voice of chickens and dogs hears each other and does not communicate with each other." Some people even say that the era of strange life in China has arrived. In this regard, some sociologists pointed out that neighbors are not strangers, and urban communities and every resident should create a harmonious new neighborhood relationship through the improvement of social functions and the cultivation of healthy psychology.
Some people may still miss this "happy time": in the past, because of the shortage of housing, we lived on the same floor, and several people in a yard used a kitchen and a bathroom, just like a "home". You tasted the special dishes brought by my relatives, and I helped you look after the children after school. The relationship was very harmonious. Now it seems that the economy has really developed and life has improved, but the neighborhood relationship has regressed.
Wang Zhenyu, a researcher at China Academy of Social Sciences who has been engaged in family sociology for a long time, said that this cannot be simply regarded as the decline of social morality. She pointed out that alienation and urbanization are the characteristics of modern society. With the development of economy and society, people's lifestyle has undergone profound changes. In the past, the unified housing distribution of units disappeared, and strangers in different places became neighbors because of the purchase of commercial housing. There must be a process from strangeness to familiarity, but with the accelerated pace of work and life and different interests, it is also inevitable that neighborhood relations will be alienated from each other.
Wang Zhenyu said that in the past, due to limited living conditions, disputes often occurred between neighbors. Now the living conditions have improved, and the living functions of the room are relatively complete. At the same time, personal needs have been greatly satisfied, and relatively independent space has been maintained, and disputes between neighbors have been significantly reduced. In addition, the negative impact of some public security cases caused by opening the door to strangers has strengthened the vigilance and preventive psychology of urban residents, and also caused the neighborhood relationship to be worse to some extent. This is a new situation and a new problem in social development and progress, which should be understood objectively.
Wang Zhenyu pointed out that the creation of a new type of civilized and harmonious neighborhood relationship is an important part of strengthening the construction of spiritual civilization and building a harmonious society. The community and every resident should work hard for this. Therefore, she suggested that as a community, it should improve its own functions, provide more places and forms for community residents to communicate, encourage and attract community residents to participate extensively through appropriate fitness and entertainment activities, eliminate the strangeness between neighbors and narrow the distance between neighbors. Every city resident should cultivate healthy social psychology and establish the concept that neighbors are not strangers. They should guard against dangerous things and not isolate themselves. Where possible, neighbors should respect each other, help each other, increase contacts and exchanges, and gradually form a new type of civilized and harmonious neighborhood relationship.
Neighborhood relationship and comprehensive management of social security
Provider: Lu Huaibo Date of Release: June 8, 2005 2 1: 05: 24
Source: 5th floor, Anhui Zhongcheng Gaoxin Law Firm Author: Lawyer Lu Huaibo
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-two people talk about neighborhood relations.
Moderator: What is the good neighborhood relationship advocated by society?
Author: Neighborhood relationship is a kind of social relationship between people in the final analysis, and it is one of all kinds of interpersonal relationships in society. Neighborhood, as an objective existence, how to get along with each other and what kind of neighborhood relationship can be established depends not only on the social, economic, cultural, natural environment and other objective factors, but also on the attitude and code of conduct of establishing relationships between neighbors.
Neighborhood relationship advocated by our society is a relationship that abides by legal norms, conforms to social morality, has certain ideological and emotional exchanges between neighbors, and can be friendly, mutual understanding and mutual help.
Moderator: Please talk about the significance of establishing a good neighborhood relationship from the perspective of work and life.
Author: The significance of establishing a good neighborhood relationship can be analyzed from different angles. For example, from the perspective of mutual assistance in production, good neighborhood relations are conducive to the exchange of needed goods, mutual support in production and business activities, common development of production and common prosperity. This is especially obvious in rural neighborhoods where families are the production units or business units, and the labor force and means of production of each family are relatively limited. As far as the current urban situation is concerned, because many family members are facing the problem of being laid off and re-employed, good neighborhood relations are also conducive to encouraging and supporting each other to embark on the road of re-employment. Many families have actually tasted the sweetness in this regard.
For another example, from the perspective of mutual assistance in life, a family will always encounter difficulties of one kind or another, even misfortune, and need help from others. If it is in a good neighborhood environment, a family can often get comfort, sympathy, care and assistance from neighbors in time, so as to overcome difficulties and get rid of misfortune in time. These families who have been helped by their neighbors believe that when their neighbors are in trouble, they will lend a helping hand in time. Therefore, a good neighborhood relationship is conducive to helping each other in life. Our Chinese nation has many traditional virtues since ancient times. The so-called "when one side is in trouble, all sides will help", "A distant relative is not as good as a close neighbor", "You respect me one foot, and I will pay you back one foot", "The kindness of dripping water will repay you as a spring" and so on are the portrayal of this traditional virtue in neighborhood relations. Today, when building socialist spiritual civilization, we should vigorously advocate and carry forward these traditional virtues.
In addition, from the perspective of social control, good neighborhood relations are also conducive to the comprehensive management of social security. This is also the main reason why we choose the topic of "neighborhood" to communicate today.
Moderator: What is the significance of good neighborhood relations to the comprehensive management of social security?
Author: The comprehensive management of social security is an effective way to solve the public security problems in China and to prevent and reduce crimes. Good neighborhood relations are of great significance to the comprehensive management of social security, at least in the following three aspects:
First of all, a good neighborhood relationship helps to resolve conflicts between neighborhoods, and can directly avoid or reduce public security and criminal cases caused by intensified neighborhood conflicts. In a good neighborhood environment, neighbors can often consciously adopt the method of mutual understanding and accommodation, thus amicably resolving contradictions and disputes. On the contrary, in an environment with bad neighborhood relations, conflicts often occur between neighborhoods because of trivial matters. The light ones are at loggerheads, while the heavy ones fight, leading to bloodshed, which in turn leads to public security and even criminal cases. In social security and criminal cases, bad neighborhood relations account for a considerable proportion.
Moderator: Good neighborhood relations can also provide a safe and harmonious community environment for the healthy growth of teenagers.
Author: It is like this. Good neighborhood relations help to purify the social atmosphere of the community and provide a healthy environment for young people to grow up.
The high juvenile crime rate has become a major problem of social security. Therefore, an important task of comprehensive management is to reduce juvenile delinquency. The physical and mental characteristics of teenagers determine that they have weak self-control ability and strong plasticity, and are easily influenced by objective environment and atmosphere during their growth. "Close to Zhu Zhechi, close to Mexico are black people" expresses the role of this influence. In an environment where elders are law-abiding, moral-abiding, and friendly, and can handle neighborhood relations with the attitude of mutual help, mutual understanding and mutual accommodation, teenagers have received more positive education since childhood, so it is not easy to commit illegal and criminal acts. On the other hand, teenagers who live in an environment where they often fight and their neighbors are uneasy are subtly affected by more negative influences, and it is easy to embark on the road of breaking the law and committing crimes. At present, the "regional" characteristics of juvenile delinquency illustrate this problem.
Moderator: Now grass-roots units are carrying out activities to create a safe and civilized community. Please talk about the influence of neighborhood relations on this activity from this aspect.
Author: Good neighborhood relations are conducive to preventing and dealing with illegal and criminal phenomena. Neighborhood relations get along well, and neighbors must care about each other. When they find hidden dangers that may lead to illegal crimes, they can often remind each other and work together to prevent or reduce the occurrence of illegal crimes to a great extent. When illegal and criminal acts are discovered, they often stand up bravely, and everyone can fight against illegal and criminal acts wholeheartedly, thus effectively stopping and cracking down on crimes. On the other hand, the neighborhood relationship is not good and the neighbors are indifferent to each other. It is difficult to form a joint force to prevent and crack down on illegal crimes, which easily provides opportunities for criminals, thus leading to an increase in the incidence of illegal crimes in this community.
From the three points mentioned above, it is not difficult to see that establishing a good neighborhood relationship is an important part of realizing the comprehensive management of social security, and we cannot ignore this important work.
Moderator: Finally, please make a summary of this topic.
Author: Different people and families in the neighborhood can live together and be neighbors, which is a kind of fate, and we should cherish it very much; Being kind to others and neighbors is actually being kind to yourself; A good neighborhood is good for others and good for yourself. social governance
Comprehensive safety management is a systematic project. Let's start from ourselves, start from the small things around us, establish good neighborhood relations with people who live together, and work together to create a peaceful, harmonious and civilized living environment.
Rural neighborhood is a natural social group formed by rural residents' long-term common life and friendly exchanges on the basis of geographical relationship. Compared with other rural social groups, it has four obvious characteristics: first, it is regional, that is, it is a geographical group. The second is emotion. In other words, it is an emotional group. The third is selectivity. In other words, people have a certain choice in which neighborhood they join. The fourth is informal. In other words, the neighborhood is an informal group.
Rural neighborhood structure refers to the unit composition of rural neighborhood and its relationship. Structurally, rural neighborhoods include homogeneous neighborhoods and heterogeneous neighborhoods. The former is a neighborhood relationship composed of families with the same blood, the same educational level, the same occupation and the same social status. The latter is a neighborhood relationship composed of families with different blood ties, different cultural levels, different occupations and different social status.
The social functions of rural neighborhoods are various. First, it has the function of mutual assistance in production. Second, it has the function of mutual assistance in life. Third, it has the function of social security. Fourth, it has the function of socialization. Fifth, it has the function of emotional exchange and ideological exchange. Sixth, it has the function of mediating disputes and coordinating relations. Therefore, we should guide farmers to establish a reasonable neighborhood structure, strengthen the construction of spiritual civilization in the neighborhood, and establish and improve the neighborhood relationship that meets the requirements of rural modernization.
New neighborhood relationship
Neighbors are an important link between family life and social life for us. The old saying that "a distant relative is better than a close neighbor" is enough to illustrate the importance of neighborhood relations. Neighborhood relationship is an important public-private relationship in society. If it works well, it will have a far-reaching impact on people's quality and moral level.
With the improvement of housing conditions, we may no longer rush about for aisles, and we don't have to worry about walls having ears, but we are all wrapped in cement barriers. At the same time, the neighborhood relationship has also risen from the previous perceptual stage to the rational stage.
Of course you have the right to say that neighbors are not important to me. However, when a society laments the lack of neighborhood relationship and the deterioration of interpersonal relationship, the germination of new neighborhood relationship may mean some change and hope-equal interpersonal relationship has become the soul of a society, and the neighborhood relationship we have forgotten is an important part of it.
According to the survey, the proportion of greeting among neighbors decreased by 25. 18% compared with ten years ago, but the proportion of mutual assistance and reciprocity increased by 65.6438+0%. The new neighborhood relationship greatly embodies "humanization"-people have more room for two-way choice.
Now the neighborhood relationship has risen from the perceptual stage to the rational stage, which means there may be less superficial greetings, but the solution to the problem is scientific and effective. The new neighborhood relationship focuses on everyone living in harmony but never interfering in "internal affairs", emphasizing the sense of distance-as we all know, distance often produces beauty. Many noble communities have "residents service centers" and "owners' committees". Neighbors no longer bother each other, but go directly to the residents' service center, which has become a model operation.
People always miss the life of the old quadrangle, saying that it fully embodies that "distant relatives are not as good as close neighbors." However, this closeness and excitement is based on the narrow housing dilemma. In the final analysis, it is a kind of helplessness-the crowding of 72 tenants has produced a sense of intimacy, the space is narrow, and people's boldness of vision is also small. Knowing each other too much and being familiar with each other's personality and temper, everything can spread like wildfire, let alone privacy.
Social scientists believe that 80% of neighborhood disputes more than ten years ago were related to housing. With the improvement of housing quality, the division between public and private areas is clear, and the disputes arising from the confusion between public and private areas will naturally disappear.
The new neighborhood relationship is actually a new interpersonal relationship under the changing living conditions. When conditions change, people's thinking changes. It is obviously unrealistic to emphasize a certain atmosphere blindly. The relationship between people is a profound social philosophy.
Key words of new neighborhood relationship: building distance, clubhouse, owners' committee, community architectural style, private sphere.
If the distance between houses is reasonable, there will be good neighbors. Good neighbors are people who are not far from us.
In the 1970s, the most common problem among neighbors was who occupied whose corridor, whose coal pool crossed the border, the land was precious, and wars were raging. Now houses, public areas and private areas have been clearly divided. The emerging problem is how far our home is from other people's homes, and how far we will feel the sense of belonging given by the community, so that we can feel that the hidden fun in life will not be violated.
A good house should have a good view, and at the same time, it should be in the eyes of neighbors. The flower wall surrounded by fences makes the border friendly. Even the thorn on the rose is not the flower-picking hand. The distance between a good house and a good house, like the distance between hearts, should be neither far nor near.
With the increasingly fierce social mobility and professional mobility, people have a demand for non-profit and non-work interpersonal communication. When colleagues, business partners and competitors are constantly changing, what we expect is a stable relationship outside the family but unrelated to economic interests. So a good house belongs to a good community, and a good community should have a club, so that we can feel that the relationship between the public and the public is smooth, and the neighbors can cooperate well to find the people they want. Clubs give us a strong sense of regional belonging and enrich the connotation of home. Clubhouse is such a place-in addition to our family life and career, it also helps us to know a group of neighbors who have the same living habits as us.
Good neighbors should be mutually supportive. For example, play ball together, repair the flower wall together, and nail the swing for the children together. In addition to cooperation in reality, cooperation in the online world also allows neighborhood relations to advance and retreat freely. The cooperative relationship between neighbors is a kind of fun dedication, which reflects the value outside of one's own career. Cooperation and mutual assistance make neighborhood relations the most interesting and relaxed social relations. As a job of the owners' committee, sometimes it is a pleasure to be a member of society.
There should be tacit understanding between a good house and a good house, between a good house and a community, between a good house and nature, and between the owners of a good house. Coordination is perfect only when there is tacit understanding.
The tacit understanding is that your house is luxurious, but it will not be abrupt, domineering and extravagant.
The tacit understanding is that someone else's door is a bamboo fence, and your door is not a Roman pillar.
The tacit understanding is that your neighbors won't let your children pick your flowers and turn on the radio loudly in the middle of the night. Because of tacit understanding, your house is more valuable and your life is more interesting.
A good house should not only have a large private space, but also have a community environment that respects private space. It's best to have a neighbor who respects your private space with you-no one knocks on your door in the middle of the night, no one takes the newspaper that falls out of your mailbox, and no one asks you if the house is a one-time payment. On weekends, you all open the door to greet each other. Your pumpkin is ripe, so you put it in front of your neighbor's house.
Respect means that you and your neighbors abide by the potential rules in life.
The excitement and intimacy built up in a small space are gone forever.
As Yu Yongqi, director of Rena Garden Resident Service Center, said, serving the owners well is the lifeline of property management. Whether the owners are satisfied or not determines the life and death of the property management company to a certain extent. Therefore, it has become commonplace for business owners to find property. Who will bother the neighbors? What's more, the housekeeping service center will try its best to solve everything from leaking water pipes and losing keys to being responsible for renting houses and transferring ownership.
Excellent property management companies have entered the stage of brand creation, and it is a compulsory course for them to keep emotional communication with owners anytime and anywhere. Property management companies let owners know, recognize and support through various communication methods, and also collect and summarize the recent requirements and voices of owners through various channels as an important basis for improving working methods. "Resident Service Center" and "Maintenance Center" provide 24-hour service, and are ready to receive consultation and complaints. The monitoring center of the property management company has a direct network telephone to every household, and there is a "friendly reminder board" at the entrance of every building. In this way, the excitement and intimacy that were once built in a small space are gone forever. Through the adjustment of the "housekeeping service center", the distance between neighbors is moderate day by day, gradually emitting a cordial aesthetic feeling.
Neighborhood relationship is an important public-private relationship in society. Whether it works well often has a great influence on the quality and moral level of people in this society. If we live in a luxurious house, but the neighborhood relationship is missing, with the acceleration of the pace of life and the widening of the spatial distance brought about by urban expansion, the relationship between relatives and friends will become more and more alienated. If there are only peripheral public relations such as colleagues and customers in life, life will become boring.
The neighborhood relationship I experienced
Nostalgic mentality, analyzed by psychology, has a filtering effect, leaving the good and filtering out the unpleasant.
I live above a tall building.
(Lu Peng, media editor)
"I live in a tall building and look back on the good old days ..."
I made up the lyrics myself. Whenever the familiar melody flutters in my ear, my heart will buzz, and the feeling of melancholy, sadness and depression will instantly pervade the empty room.
After living in this so-called high-end residential area for several years, the living environment and material life have improved, but the inner loneliness is increasing day by day. I didn't know until recently that there were 12 families living in my building. I was a stranger to them for a long time, and we both knew that going in and out was a doorway. When we met, we just nodded politely, that's all.
Modern people seem to be used to making a cold mask on their faces and a thick cocoon to hide their hearts. For years, I don't remember a neighbor knocking on my door. As for me, when I was preparing to decorate my house, I went to study in my neighbor's house. There is an owners' committee in the community. I don't know who they are. I don't know what the owners' committee can do. The property in our community feels more formal, and we often post a notice under the floor and send a notice or something. There is also a supermarket in the community. If you usually want to buy something, a phone call will be delivered to your door. The sewer at home is blocked, the door handle is broken, I have troubled my friends and found a property. The attitude of property service is good, but the price is very expensive.
When I first moved here, my son was still young and very naughty. Although we taught him to scold him all day and spanked him with chopsticks and told him not to jump around on the floor, otherwise his uncles and aunts downstairs would have problems, but from time to time it was inevitable that something would happen. Downstairs, the young couple had no children, and the man came up politely and put forward his own opinions. After a long time, people stopped talking. We're really sorry.
One day in the middle of the night, our intercom doorbell suddenly rang, and there came a man's voice, saying that he was an upstairs neighbor and forgot to bring his key. The next day, my wife told me that this person is Korean, so I got on the phone. There is a woman living with him. She often goes out for a walk with her puppy at night 10. I don't know if that woman is his wife or Korean.
Then the Koreans left. Here comes another person, who is also Korean. Koreans don't understand the customs of China. On Dragon Boat Festival, his wife put several mugwort trees in front of his house, and he felt puzzled.
Anyway, my son finally has a small partner. The new residents of the West Unit, which has been vacant for a long time on the first floor, have moved in. There lived an old couple in the West Unit, their daughter, son-in-law and little nephew. I don't know their last names or what they do. My nephew is less than 2 years old and his name is Doudou. Grandpa often plays with his nephew in the yard. We passed by his house every day, and our son became familiar with Doudou. Every time I pass by, Xiao Doudou calls my son "Niu Niu".
Niu Niu is willing to play with Yang Yang upstairs next door. Niu Niu and Yang Yang were born on the same day in the same year. They met by setting off fireworks downstairs during the Spring Festival this year. Niu Niu went to Yang Yang's home once and didn't come back after 10 in the evening. He's crazy. Later, his mother wouldn't let him go to other people's houses. Maybe Yang Yang's mother thinks so, too. It's annoying for irrelevant people to play at home until evening 10.
I am a fan, and I know there are some good balls near my home. Because I often watch football until midnight on weekends. During the intermission, I smoked on the balcony and could hear my neighbor's TV. Unfortunately, we can't communicate.
Alas, it is impossible for people to go back to the past. Living in a big yard, rice is delicious, and the days when chickens and dogs hear each other will never happen again. Society has indeed made progress. Sometimes, hiding on the balcony at night and looking at the distant sea is just like being in a tall building. There should be many people who are as confused as me, right? In the final analysis, people live more in pursuit of spiritual pleasure.
In my childhood, the world was a family.
(Private owner Mr. Zhang)
My happiest memory comes from my neighbors in the alley, which is my childhood game years. Following my brother deftly through one complicated path after another, the lingering shouts were the assembly numbers of friends, and soon a group of dolls were saved in an open space. The so-called emptiness is about 5 square meters at most, but it is our childhood paradise. Cigarette brands, billiards and the Four Kingdoms War often appear there. Once, a friend stole a bottle of cooking liquor from the kitchen next door, and we tasted the burning excitement for the first time in our lives.
Today's high-rise buildings, although there is no mother-in-law gossip, adults' ears can be clean, but children's hearts are lonely. My child is only 3 years old, but all he knows is staring at the computer and watching colorful game software. I think when he grows up, his childhood memories must be more comfortable than ours, but not necessarily happier than ours. Neighbors may only remember his cold iron door with a cat's eye.
Now, I live in a two-family apartment with one staircase. Neighbors are very familiar with each other, but after closing the door, they have little contact. Perhaps with independent space, the right to privacy can be preserved, but the inner concerns of neighbors are also locked behind the door. Every city is actually the same. The times have progressed, the society has progressed, and people have become civilized, but the passion has disappeared forever. Modern cities are only warm and weak, which makes people feel lost.
Memory tongzilou
(Li Yiman, media editor)
The tube-shaped building where I used to live was a three-story building. It turned out to be the guest house of the unit, and later it was distributed to cadres without houses, one for each family and one for each of the three families as kitchens. People on the first floor use a bathroom with two rows of faucets and a toilet with three squats.
Every morning, two rows of face-to-face faucets in the bathroom are crowded with people, just like military camps or university dormitories. Everyone just nodded to each other and had no time to say anything. They just brush their heads and wash their faces, and there is running water. The toilet next door is even more busy, because whoever goes first will occupy territory for the same sex, so our female compatriots usually put the washbasin in the bathroom after getting up and quickly enter the toilet to facilitate other sisters to come in one after another. I usually brush my teeth and wash my face while listening to the movement of the toilet. The female compatriots inside shouted "Who is coming?" I quickly put down my towel and ran over. After I went in, the talents inside came out, just like changing shifts. If this link is not well handed over and vacant, the women's toilet will become a men's toilet, and it will be difficult to change the dynasty.
Bathing in summer is a hassle. The tube-shaped building has been in disrepair for a long time, and the bathroom door has long since disappeared. Someone hung a curtain on the door. Because it is a public place, the frequency of use is too high. A few days later, the curtain either lay heroically on the ground and dipped in water, or sadly disappeared. After a long time, no one has the patience to hang new curtains. People come and go in the corridor, and people who cook after work shuttle back and forth in this corridor, taking a bath with the door open? Men, willy-nilly, turn on the tap and rush up, and our female compatriots will stay at home honestly. When it was dark, we were ready to start. A man standing guard outside temporarily froze the flow of people in the corridor. People inside are afraid to turn on the lights. Without curtains, there would be no curtains. They touched the black three and rushed to the ground, and some people wanted to come in.
Life in a tube-shaped apartment is semi-collective. After a long time, people in the tube-shaped apartment feel like a family. When I used to cook, I found that the food was out of salt when I put it in the pot. Xiaojin next to me conveniently handed her a salt shaker. Because it was so convenient, I even forgot to buy salt and soy sauce, which are indispensable anyway.
It's sad to live in a tube-shaped building in winter. In a small room, there is no place to install a coal stove. In the 1980s, there was a timely electric heater, which everyone used to keep warm. The power went out several times a night, and then everyone came out to see what was going on. Usually, the fuse will be blown. Some people hold flashlights, some people stand on stools to change fuses, and the rest look around. When the light came on, everyone went home at ease. It feels like everyone burned it together. My son was still very young at that time, and there was no room for a nanny in a house, so I had to send him to my grandmother's house. There are no children in my family, so there is no need to burn the electric heater. One winter was very cold, and the temperature in the room was 0℃. I am reviewing my lessons to prepare for the exam in the evening. I'm too cold to sit still. I turned on the tape recorder and danced disco to keep warm. Soon I broke out in a sweat and attracted all the children in the building. They pushed open the door of my house and squeezed their little heads to watch me dance. As soon as I waved, the children called Lala in. When I said that I would dance with me, the little guys all twisted up.
I have lived in an apartment for a long time. I have heating and gas, and I will never lose power again. Closing the door is your home's world, but opening the door is no longer lively. Even after living for several years, I don't know the neighbor's surname in the corridor. And now I dare not forget to buy salt and soy sauce. Even if I have dinner time, I am embarrassed to knock on my neighbor's security door for a spoonful of salt, so I have to turn off the gas and go downstairs to the market to buy it. At this time, I can't help but miss the tube-shaped apartment.
Escape from the old house
(Qiao Tianmao, 39, university teacher)
To tell the truth, I "escaped" from the old house and never want to go back. The house is very old and there are many families living in it. No one can hide anything, even the man next door can hear whether he snores at night. Neighbor aunt asked if you had eaten, and took a trip from the aisle. You don't want to see the situation of each family, but you look straight at it. When cooking every day, the fumes in the corridor make people blind. As for the quarrel between husband and wife and the beating of children, everyone in the hospital knows it. In view of public space, every household has taken advantage of it and become the fuse of all kinds of struggles.
The director of the neighborhood Committee managed to convince the photo frame.
(Wang Shuxiang, 70 years old, former director of the neighborhood Committee)
I have been the director of the neighborhood Committee for many years. You said it would be nice to have good neighbors at that time, but within a week, there were no three or two failed neighborhood disputes. Rob a public place, you occupy a coal stove, I build a coal pool, and even people are swollen. I, the director of the neighborhood Committee, became an expert in persuading people to fight.
At that time, one family stumbled and eight came to persuade. The neighbor next door is not separated by a wall, but by a layer of plywood. There is a little contradiction between the young couple, which can easily become the news of the day when neighbors have dinner and discuss. Now that I think about it, it's really hard to live in that environment.
Neighbors are honored as guests.
(Chen Gan, Department Manager of Foreign Enterprises)
Today, the communication between neighbors is actually a new social way, which also reflects the civilization and quality of urbanites. All good communication begins with smiling, smiling and nodding.