What attitude you have towards college life depends on what kind of person you want to be in the future, or your attitude towards life.

For example, if you want to be a stable employee in the future, but you don't want to succeed, but you don't want anything, then you should take classes and exams step by step, don't do anything out of line, just do it the way the school wants you to. It's simple.

If you want to start your own business in the future, you should prepare something in advance, such as social skills and the ability to keep learning. ), and consciously participate in some activities, it is best to organize some activities, which can help you exercise your management and communication skills. This is very useful.

If you want to be a very independent person in the future, you should cultivate your independent ability from college. You'd better make your own decisions when you encounter something. You can consciously travel abroad and work in the company.

In a word, you have a lot of freedom in college. How to use these freedoms depends on what you want to be in the future. Therefore, before entering university, it is very important to think about what kind of person you want to be in the future. Of course, it doesn't mean that you must be accurate in your future career orientation, but at least you can set such goals as independence, autonomy, courage, independent thinking ability, adapting to society and so on.

2. About the course

It's best to find some graduated brothers and sisters to find out what courses are most useful, which teachers speak well, who has the strictest exams and so on. Because according to my experience, not all courses are reasonable and practical, and some courses may be outdated or not used at all in the future. For such a course, you only need to know a rough idea. There is no need to cram for an "excellent" course unless you want to study abroad in the future (in that case, the grades in various courses are really important). Ask the predecessors' experience first. You can put your limited energy into something really useful and take fewer detours.

In addition, if it is a useless course and you are sure that you can pass it, you can skip class and do something more meaningful.

3. About work.

Everyone has a different opinion. My opinion is that we should try our best to create some opportunities for social practice and let ourselves know more about society. Most people have been studying and seldom come into contact with society. You should get in touch with society as much as possible when you have time in college. Only by contacting the society can we learn something really useful in the future, which we can't learn in school.

If possible, I suggest working, using the money earned from working to support myself, reducing dependence on parents and learning to be independent.

One more thing, you should also choose a part-time job and find a job that can really cultivate your ability. Don't always do some repetitive and mechanical work (such as librarian). The purpose of work is to understand the society and increase one's talents. Don't forget.

4. About love

Don't force yourself, and don't suppress yourself. If you think you have something you like, you can say it. You may not have this shop after this village. It's really unnecessary.