The name Einstein is associated with relativity and genius. In people's impression, he is an inspiring, sacred and gentle person. However, no one is perfect. A recently published book named Einstein's Private Life reveals the other side of his personality through the failure of his two marriages.
When Einstein met his first wife, mileva, he was full of passion and romance. At that time, mileva was studying in a German comprehensive secondary technical school. People describe this Serbian girl from Vojvodina as "lovely, shy, kind, simple and modest." However, her peers think she lacks attractive appearance, and her friends say she is a very nice girl, but she is too serious and quiet. Looking at her, it's hard to think she's smart. They also described her as "thin, weak and ordinary" and a little lame.
On the other hand, Einstein is a handsome young man. He has regular facial features, thick black hair and warm eyes. Although he is not interested in all forms of physical exercise, he is muscular and energetic from youth to middle age.
Their friendship slowly turned into romantic love. This surprised Einstein's acquaintances. On one occasion, his colleague suggested that mileva limped and said, "I will never marry a woman with poor health." . Einstein said calmly, "But she has a good voice."
It is believed that Einstein was infatuated with mileva because of her spiritual strength and wisdom, and neglected her appearance. Einstein was all thumbs all his life. Mileva, who is three years older than him, learned to do housework very early. When she was in college, she would cook a good dish and cut her own clothes, so that she could take care of Einstein in every way in her life.
Their relationship was opposed by Einstein's mother Paulina from the beginning. She showed obvious hostility when she realized that her son was serious this time. She has an inherent prejudice against Serbs. She didn't trust mileva, not only because mileva was three years older than Einstein, but also because she was disabled. She thought that mileva was trying to push her son into the mire, and it was immoral for them to live together at that time. However, domestic opposition backfired and deepened Einstein's love for mileva. Soon, mileva found herself pregnant. At that time, it was not a glorious thing for a young woman. She is far from her parents, and there are still two months before the exam. There are still many practical problems to consider in the future. But mileva loved Einstein and was proud to be pregnant with his child. Einstein went to Zurich at that time, and mileva wrote to inform him. Einstein wrote back to express his joy, but he said he was not ready to be a father. He described how a physics paper published not long ago inspired him He said that only then could he consider the future with mileva.
Mileva gave birth to a daughter on 1902. She was too weak to write to Einstein because of childbirth. There is no record of the birth of this child. People think she was born far away from Switzerland, or her parents' home in Miliva. Mileva's father wrote to tell Einstein about it. Soon, Einstein expressed sympathy for his lover in his reply, and put forward a series of questions in the letter: Is the girl healthy? Have a good appetite? Who is feeding her? However, there is no information that Einstein met his daughter Liz once in his life. He seems to be more concerned about how to get rid of his father's responsibility. He didn't tell anyone about it. A few months later, the girl disappeared from his life, and she still didn't know whether she was alive or dead. If she is still alive, she is over 90 years old.
Einstein's meager income may be due to his lack of care for his daughter, although this did not affect Einstein's engagement with mileva. If mileva had a son, Einstein might have a different attitude. It is not ruled out that girls are abandoned because of illness and disability, but these are just guesses.
People who know mileva and Einstein's second wife, Alisha, think the latter is more attractive. Light hair, blue eyes, plump and luxurious. However, her myopia is often laughed at and her hair looks messy. Messy hair is not the only feature that people think that she and Einstein come from the same country. They all have big noses, high foreheads and strong chins. Married 16 years, a tourist found that they were strikingly similar.
The birth of a child changed the relationship between two people. A biographer quoted Einstein's son Hans as saying, "The daughter became a knot in their marriage." Mileva often reflects on himself and blames himself. Obviously, she didn't want to be separated from her daughter, thinking that Einstein forced her to take this step. In his later years, Einstein described mileva as a man who was taciturn, suspicious of illness and prone to depression.
Later, Einstein met his second wife, Alisha. People who know mileva and Einstein's second wife, Alisha, think the latter is more attractive. Light hair, blue eyes, plump and luxurious. However, her myopia is often laughed at and her hair looks messy. Messy hair is not the only feature that people think that she and Einstein come from the same country. They all have big noses, high foreheads and strong chins. After they got married 16 years ago, a tourist found their striking similarity: they were both short and strong, wearing pants and turtlenecks.
I feel relaxed about Einstein Alisha. His relationship with Alisha began in the last week of Easter in 19 12. In order not to arouse mileva's suspicion, Alisha sent the letter to Einstein's office, and Einstein destroyed it after reading it. But she was careful not to let him answer any questions. In the letter, Einstein expressed his inner pain caused by his dissatisfaction with love and complained that he had no chance to "love, love" this woman who fell in love at first sight.
Hans recalled that every morning, my father lay lazily in bed alone. In the evening, he plays the piano with his friends and often goes to their home. Reese, a friend's daughter, later became mileva's friend. She once wrote in her diary: mileva was silent and melancholy. She suffers from rheumatoid arthritis and has difficulty walking. But her problem is not from her health, but from Einstein's love for another woman and his lifelong exploration of physics.
In July 2003, Einstein was recommended for a good job. If he agrees, he will become a member of the Prussian Academy of Sciences, and get the podium of the University of Berlin and the chairman of the Institute of Physics. No one will ask him to teach, but he can devote himself to science. Einstein accepted. Mileva had to go to Locarno because his son had flu, whooping cough and otitis media at the same time.
His wife postponed the trip, and Einstein had more opportunities to accompany his lover. Mileva arrived in Berlin in mid-April on 19 14. For a time, they maintained a seemingly normal family life. Mileva often feels unhappy, so he misses Zurich very much. Life in Berlin made her more and more depressed. She is busy with housework every day and has no friends. 19 14 In the summer, she returned to Zurich with her son. The sons thought they would return to Germany after the holiday, but in fact, this was only the beginning of the end of their parents' marriage, and mileva never returned to Einstein.
After Leva left, Einstein and Alisha got married. However, after a while, their marriage could not be maintained. Einstein's two marriages ended in failure.