The Grateful Heart written by Lin Qingxuan, the author of True Gratitude, is an exquisite essay. There are not many words in the works, but the true meaning between the lines is thought-provoking; The article is full of poetry, but it is not just a superficial gorgeous chapter. The author digs the deep meaning behind the word "gratitude" from a deeper perspective. A trivial grass blooms like a sea of blue flowers-this is the grass's gratitude for life; A sorry bird serenaded the violin on the branch-this is the bird's gratitude for life; Look at the world and life with a simple and pure heart, and life will be more textured-this is the greatest gratitude for life. This reminds me of something that happened in Nanjing in this hot and irritable summer: a lovelorn young man decided to end his young life by a bridge after drinking. On the bridge, he saw an old man kneeling on the ground at night. He thought, anyway, he is going to die, and it is a kind of kindness not to donate all his money to the homeless elderly. So the young man went over and found that the old man was not a beggar at all, but writing a suicide note! The young man was in a semi-conscious state. After some conversation, he realized that the old man had family conflicts with his family. After the quarrel, he ran away from home angrily. The more he thinks about it, the angrier he gets. He just died well. The young man can compare the pain of his heartbreak with the pain of the old man not being understood by his loved ones. Suddenly, the idea of suicide vanished, but he still sat down to persuade the old man. Because the old man was determined, the young man had to dial 1 10, and then the police arrived with the old man's family. Finally, the two sides reconciled and the old man went home with his wife and children. A young man full of frustration with life and hatred for his lover didn't realize the preciousness and beauty of life until he heard the more unfortunate story of the old man. Isn't this the most meaningful spiritual baptism he experienced in his life? How can such a process from hatred to gratitude for life make people feel distressed? Recently, there has been a heated discussion on the Internet about setting August 3rd as Men's Day and August 8th as Father's Day. All kinds of suggestions about festivals are really lively. A festival, in a sense, is a day of gratitude to a group of special people. While blindly adding various festivals, people feel the emptiness and loneliness of modern urbanites while watching businessmen take the opportunity to speculate for profit. Some people say: "Look at what a person has shortcomings, just look at what he shows off." Isn't it a vivid manifestation of the lack of daily gratitude to find the concentrated explosion point of gratitude on such a large scale? What is true gratitude? Is Mother's Day a pink carnation? Is it the expensive blue enchantress on Valentine's Day? Is Children's Day a luxurious one-day tour? True gratitude is like lavender, small and light, with a wisp of fragrance flowing. Thanksgiving parents, often go home to see, do not have to carry a big box of nutrients, just sit with them in the warm sunshine, carefully help them comb their hair, while patiently listening to their nagging; To be grateful to your lover, accompany him (or her, the following "he" can be replaced by her, without repetition) to do housework, cook a delicious home-cooked meal for him, and accompany him to watch his favorite TV programs in the evening; Thanks to the naughty little angel who rolled around at home but brought countless laughter, I pushed away those unnecessary social parties, took some time out every night to listen to his interesting stories that happened at school, and read him a sweet story before going to bed ... Lavender can be used as the essence to treat insomnia, and can also be added to dessert to flavor. Its colorful uses fill every corner of life. This is the meaning of gratitude. Grateful life, you don't have to participate in the banner show signed by everyone, you don't have to label yourself as a "workaholic", you don't have to go to many places to appreciate the magic of great rivers and mountains ... A truly grateful life just needs to run your life with a simple and pure heart, just like that penitent young man-maybe life doesn't have to be brilliant, but in any case you have to take every step calmly and peacefully. True gratitude may be as simple as that.

Interviewee: American Jewish philosopher Herschel said: "The world is like this. Facing it, people realize that they benefit from others, not their status as masters; " This is the world. When you perceive the existence of the world, you must answer and take responsibility. "Life is fair. As long as you work as hard as he does, you and he will achieve the same good results. Will get the same reward.