Broad-minded argumentative essay 1 Why do you envy someone you don't know?
Think about the past. Think about the old you. At that time, although you paid attention to these, it was true, but you have never entered this state since the second day of junior high school. Think about why? What makes you linger in one place without making progress for ten years? You used to be like this. You never change your point of view and stick to it. Although you are stubborn sometimes, you are never proud, because you are not smart, but you are willing to work hard. Although you don't have that lofty ambition, after two years of study, you should be able to understand a truth: although things seem far away, as long as you are willing to work hard, you will definitely reach or even surpass this goal.
However, you have changed and become inferior. Only a small part of this inferiority comes from your real learning ability, and most of it comes from vanity, not being handsome enough, not being tall enough, having no money at home and so on. As a result, the naive, hardworking, kind and principled one disappeared. I just saw a child slowly becoming vain, but his innocence has not changed. Although he is vain now, I still want to treat you as a saved young man.
You start to be impetuous. You think the people around you are right because you see that they can easily get what almost everyone wants. Those are all recognized honors and temptations, so you think this is life?
In any society, most people fail not because of their lack of ability, but because they think they are a special case. We publicize those special cases all day, and those who fail because of it can only bear the responsibility of failure themselves. Why do some people succeed and you fail? But have we ever thought about it? If you think of yourself as a special case that can be achieved for nothing or easily, how should you write the history of mankind? How much beauty will there be in the sweat and tears that really move us? At that time, no matter whether there will be beautiful women or cars, we will have a sincere dislike, and the truth will always be true. For ten years, outside junior high school, you have never been unable to sleep for your own ideals. Outside of high school, you have never been unable to sleep for your own survival. After four years in college, you have never even been unable to sleep for your exams. All I see is that your heart is getting numb. So, now, I can't see your own soul. Everything makes me feel that you have fallen deeply into the world of mortals and are willing to be captured by it. Think about "Waiting for Godot" in high school textbooks. You are the two people who do nothing but wait all their lives. The poor feel their It's a Wonderful Life. Fantasy can fill your empty mind, boring life and vain dignity.
Is this your imaginary life? Is this the success you expect? Is this the happy life you are pursuing? Is this how you spend your life? When you were born, you had no choice. When you die, you still have no choice. Is this the only courage in your life? Do you want to face the God who gave you a good life like this? Crouching under the pressure of fate? Perhaps, we will never do anything earth-shattering in our lifetime. Maybe, no matter how hard we try, we won't live the beautiful material life that the world expects, but we can try our best to make ourselves a qualified product. If we become a qualified product, we can strive to make ourselves better. What Hemingway said in "True Noble" may make us scoff. But only those who really do it will feel more and more responsibilities, more and more resistance, more and more bumps and thorns. The more serious a person is, the simpler his performance will be outside. In fact, the material that human beings need is actually very limited. Because others are not noble, the real nobility lies in our past self. As long as we all want to do one thing for reason, no matter how bitter life is, it is as sweet as honey. Lermontov's "If" You once wasted your time in life. Please don't use empty sighs as compensation. In the face of painful life memories, the important quality is a strong will. Tomorrow's time is longer than lost time, and the driving force of action is our desire not to die. No matter where the end of life is, as long as you live for one day, there is hope for one day. As long as there is an immortal ideal in your heart, life will always be filled with fresh plasma. As long as you do something for yourself every day, no matter how bitter your life is, it will be as sweet as honey. Winners are constantly running in pursuit, and winners should constantly brew new goals and pursue them! Even though we have never won honor, we are equally happy to meet death.
In the past ten years, you have been anxious, but now you are less and less anxious. There is no absolute difference between good and bad. The key is how you choose to use them. In the past five years, you have become very anxious. Sometimes this is good. What I can't find is that I didn't take many detours because I didn't find my own direction, but I also missed a lot of scenery. Now I don't want to tell you any truth in that didactic tone. You heard these words ten years ago, but they didn't leave a deep impression on you, so you know a lot, but your thoughts are shallow. Real thoughts should be combined with concrete practice. Only practice can enrich your thoughts and your life. Only practice can make those words deeply engraved in your heart, and make a person become heavy and not dance because of the bubbles around him. What I want to ask this time is how to be a broad-minded person, that is, to do it according to your principles, and to be a sincere person without those things. Although nothing will go smoothly at first, because "it never rains but it pours", no one will do well at the beginning. This is life. Without experience, we can only stay in a rough stage, and we will never improve spiritually, ever.
Some people imagine such a person-handsome in appearance, calm and humorous, cheerful and not lying, with extensive communication, self-respect, external circle and internal environment. This kind of person exists, but most people rarely reach this level after a lifetime of hard work, so you don't have to envy such a person. On the contrary, you should respect them, because their life is full, they have experienced countless storms, and their attitude towards life. If this person is very young, then there are two situations. In the first case, the hardships and tempering they experienced since childhood contributed to their current state, so there is nothing to say. They deserve it, and God is fair. In the second case, if you are born like this, there is nothing to complain about, because it is obvious. Genius, genius is for appreciation, genius has the pain of genius. How do we ordinary people understand? They have their own life paths, even if they meet occasionally, they will eventually part, otherwise you are also a genius.
Besides, from this way of thinking, how many examples do you need to find to suppress your jealousy? Just remember what Hemingway said.
The memory bottle in my mind is floating, telling the dribs and drabs of my past. I seem to wander among the fallen leaves in autumn, thinking of such a thing. Yes, that's it! It was that that taught me the truth of being a man, so that I could stand higher and let me know that what is bigger than the sky is a broad mind.
It was an autumn morning, and my inseparable friend Xiao Ying and I walked hand in hand in a busy and noisy street, enjoying the comfort of the weekend. Here comes a little sister who is almost a head shorter than me, with a bottle of soy sauce in her hand. Suddenly, accidentally, my little sister fell and broke the soy sauce in her hand. Suddenly, the soy sauce in the bottle spilled out and landed on the white cloth shoes I just bought. I quickly took out a tissue from my pocket and wiped it. However, Xiao Ying helped her little sister fall and scratched her palm, regardless of her blood-spattered trouser legs. I'm angry because I can't wash the stains off my shoes. Just raised his hand to teach my little sister a lesson when Xiao Ying stopped him. Xiao Ying touched her sister's head and turned to me and said, "Come on, honey. We should have a broad mind and care for everyone with a kind heart. Besides, this young lady didn't mean it. " "But, these are the shoes I just bought last week, and they are so dirty!" I pointed to the shoes under my feet and said. "Sister, I'm sorry, I didn't mean to."
The young lady standing by spoke. "Dear, you are already a young pioneer, so you should learn something from others. Look on the bright side and leave a better impression on others. " I was speechless for a moment and threw a "I understand" look at Xiaoying. "Yes, be broad-minded." I secretly said to myself. So, I squatted down and said to my little sister, "Little sister, I'm sorry! I scared you just now. " Say that finish, all three of us smiled at each other! "Come on, little sister. Sister takes you to buy soy sauce. " Xiao Ying said, just holding my sister's hand and mine. After that, we sent my little sister home together. Walking on my way home, the sun seems to be smiling at me. I looked at the cloth shoes under my feet and felt more beautiful than when I just bought them.
"Isn't a person with a broad mind bigger than the sky?" I asked myself this question.
Broad-minded argument 3 On the issue of raising children, raising boys will bring more challenges to parents than raising girls. Plato, the great philosopher of ancient Greece, wrote more than 2300 years ago: among all animals, boys are the most difficult to control and deal with! Indeed, this little guy born with "Y" sex chromosome has brought endless educational troubles to his parents from the moment he was born.
They like adventure, and adventure will make them scarred. They climb trees, climb mountains and play with water. ......
They are still stubborn by nature. The more you refuse to do it, the more he wants to try, and his rebellious mentality is quite strong.
Although they are careless at work, they are very sensitive at heart. Your incomprehension, distrust and disrespect will hurt their young hearts.
They have poor self-control, and a little trouble outside will distract them, affect their studies and make their grades worse.
In short, parents with boys at home should be careful, otherwise, this guy with so many "great qualities" will give you a headache.
There is such a little guy in my family who has many "great qualities". I did some work to make him grow up happily. Of course, no one is perfect, and we parents can't be perfect in everything. And the situation of educating children is different for different families, but our ultimate goal is to establish a good outlook on life and values for children.
I remember when my son was in a big kindergarten class, every time I picked him up from school, there were always some vendors at the kindergarten gate. Of course, I won't buy it for him casually, but I will buy it occasionally. She makes it herself, which is more sanitary. That time, my son wanted to eat zongzi again, so I went to buy it for him. Because there were many people waiting in line, I waited after paying the money, but later a woman also brought her daughter to buy it. She was behind us, but she took it first. The son said, "Mom, is it our turn?" "Aunt Zongzi and I haven't waited to talk, but the woman said in a provocative tone," We have been waiting for a long time. Why are you the first? " Say that finish to get zongzi. My aunt and I looked at each other. We both smiled and said nothing. Aunt hurriedly brought zongzi to her son. I said to her son, "look, isn't it your turn?" "Wait a minute. It doesn't matter. Mother closed all the doors. No hurry. " The woman had no sense of shame and pushed the child away. On the way, my son said to me, "mom, that aunt is so rude." Why not talk about her? " "I said to my son," she is not afraid that her daughter will be as rude as her in the future. So, is mom afraid to tolerate her this time? "
In fact, before I had a son, my temper was not so tolerant, but it was also "people don't attack me, I don't attack." Since I had a son, in order to set an example for my son, I can proudly say that I really set an example for my son in dealing with interpersonal relationships. Shakespeare said, "Don't burn yourself to death just because your enemy lit a fire!" " "When your emotions dominate your reason, you will become a slave to your emotions, but when you overcome your emotions, you will become the master of your own destiny!
As we all know, boys often have conflicts with others because of trivial things, such as: small partners have conflicts, disagree when playing, accidentally touch each other in the classroom and so on. At this time, boys who don't understand tolerance will lose their temper, swear and even hit people. Boys are impatient and impulsive when dealing with problems! That's because boys' competitive mentality makes them unable to restrain themselves. But if they can be considerate and considerate of others, the situation will be different.
Now parents love their children very much, because most of our families are only children, for fear that their children will be wronged a little. Look at the following conversation and think about whether you have said, "What's wrong with you? Fight? Who the hell hit you? " "You this child, how can you cry? Let's go to school to clean him up! " "He hit you, why didn't you fight back?" "To the you just accidentally touched him, he hit you? Then why didn't you hit him? " "I tell you, if I do this again, I will fight back and cut off my medical expenses!" Do you think that educating children in this way can handle the relationship between classmates? Not only that, it will also affect children's future interpersonal relationships. At this time, when your child becomes narrow-minded and stingy, even to family and friends, you should remember: it's your fault!
Tolerance is a very precious emotion for children. Mainly in forgiving others' mistakes. Tolerant children are often kind-hearted, gentle and lovely. Children who lack tolerance will be eccentric, easy to go to extremes and difficult to get along with others. Therefore, it is particularly important for young men to have a tolerant heart, not only for their children to get along with their classmates today, but also for their future development. It's still my old saying: up and down! What kind of future do you want to give your child depends on what parents do now!