A famous IT manager summed up his successful experience and said, "In my opinion, life is actually very simple. In the final analysis, it is eight words,' be strict with yourself and be lenient with others'. If you can do this, many things will suddenly become clear! " The manager is talking about the lifestyle advocated by Cai Gentan-be lenient with others and be strict with yourself.
As a qualified middle school student, the first thing we should follow is to be strict with our learning attitude and way of doing things. First of all, as far as learning is concerned, we should take every learning task assigned by the teacher seriously and listen to the teacher carefully. We don't have to be hard on ourselves, but at least we should be diligent. Be tolerant of other students' minor faults, and give timely help and kind reminders. Similarly, be kind to others when dealing with people and things.
When Jin Wengong Zhong Er escaped, his beard robbed him of his property. Ministers who did not flee with him before he ascended the throne were afraid of being punished and might make trouble at any time. At this time, Zhong Er pardoned the bearded Sheikh and made him an official, which finally stabilized the situation at that time.
When Meng Changjun of Qi suffered, many people left. Meng Changjun bears a grudge and writes down the list of these people. Later, Meng Changjun returned to Qi, and all the people came back. Meng Changjun accepted his suggestion and destroyed the list without taking any revenge on the people. Finally, he deeply reflected on his previous behavior.
It was inappropriate for Meng Changjun to hold grudges at first, but he later chose to forgive those who betrayed him. He can think from the perspective of others, so as to fully understand and understand others and be strict with himself. This also laid a certain foundation for Meng Changjun's later great achievements.
Both Zhong Er and Meng Changjun have been praised by the world for their quality of "being strict with themselves and being lenient with others". So what does their story inspire our life today?
First of all, when we get along with our classmates and friends, we should pay attention to our words and deeds, don't hurt our classmates' self-esteem, and pay more attention to their bright spots. If they do something wrong carelessly, we should also sue him in good faith on the principle of "be lenient with others". We made mistakes ourselves, so we should first criticize ourselves and save ourselves, and then sincerely apologize to our classmates. In this way, the relationship between classmates can be maintained better and better.
Students, to err is human. If we treat others with our previous generosity and measure ourselves with our own stingy requirements, then we will become more and more perfect, and we will find that there are so many good people walking with us in the world.