Read widely since childhood
The Excellence of a child prodigy can't be separated from the cultivation of parents, so how did Sun's parents cultivate Sun?
Sun was born in an ordinary family in the northeast of China. His father is a middle school English teacher and his mother is an ordinary accountant. In the eyes of parents, Sun is nothing. He learned to speak when he was two and a half years old. Before the age of three, Sun was a very naughty urchin.
Soon after learning to walk, Sun dismantled a set of stereos worth more than 2,000 yuan at home. His father saw that he had a strong desire to explore and curiosity, so he decided to take advantage of the situation and use Sun's curiosity to guide him to cultivate his hobbies.
In order to make Sun interested in literacy, he thought of a way to take his children shopping and look at shop signs along the street to guide them to literacy. When Sun was 3 years old, he took him shopping to see shop signs. In order to let Sun know the word mala Tang, he took him to eat mala Tang. In the process of eating, Sun soon learned the word mala Tang. When he went there for the second time, he recognized the word Mala Tang on the signboard of the shop.
In this way, without using a literacy card, Sun quickly mastered many words and became able to read. At the age of 4, he read the children's editions of four classical novels. With his own understanding and explanation, reading has gradually become Sun's hobby.
Sun has a wide range of reading, including novels, essays and history. Very supportive of Sun's reading hobby. Sun Feng thinks it's not important what books to read, what's important is to keep his interest in reading.
Parental Excellence
Sun spends a lot of time studying after school, especially doing homework, which takes a lot of time. So he has no time to read. At this time, his parents decided that Sun could not do his homework. This family rule has been adhered to from primary school to senior one.
A lot of homework is mastered by Sun, such as copying books a hundred times. Sun's mother sometimes even does his homework for him in order to reduce Sun's study burden. Because of the different fonts, the teacher soon found out.
Sun Feng simply went to the teacher and asked Sun to write only important homework. Of course the teacher won't agree. Finally, because Sun's grades are always among the best, the teacher finally compromised and Sun could not do the homework he had learned. Learn one thing at a time and respect personal choice.
Sun's parents are very liberal about Sun's education. They are always learning about Sun's neurological disorders, reminding and supporting Sun to relax and relax. High school is the time when students have the greatest pressure to study. Sun's parents not only don't object to Sun's extracurricular activities, such as reading, playing chess and table tennis, but also support him to do so.
With the enlightened support and care of his parents, Sun successfully completed his studies in a healthy and pleasant environment. He finished primary school in three years and junior high school in one year. In 2009, 13-year-old Sun scored 654 points in the college entrance examination and was favored by Peking University.
Unexpectedly, Sun refused the olive branch of Peking University and finally chose Beihang University. Because Sun's favorite major is aircraft power engineering, he finally persuaded his parents to let him study in Beihang University.
In the eyes of Sun's parents, Sun is an ordinary child. Treat him, you don't need to bow your head or raise your head. Only by treating each other as equals and respecting each other can Sun Tianrui maintain himself and thrive. Therefore, Sun's parents finally chose to understand and support his choice.
Sun insisted on giving up a prestigious school like Peking University and choosing his favorite major, which is commendable. Famous schools are important, but what suits you is the most important. Only by sticking to your initial intention can you go higher and further. Sun sticks to his true heart, and in this respect, he surpasses most people in all sentient beings.
Choose an independent and self-reliant life.
Sun finally chose university life without parents. Although he is only 13 years old, he still wants to live a relatively independent life. Sun's interpersonal relationship is good, and his self-care ability is not weak. When he was ten years old, he would scramble eggs and wash clothes by himself.
The grandson who went to college is still like a child in behavior. Sometimes he is naughty, and sometimes he plays secretly by himself. Sun also admitted this phenomenon. He is still a child in the eyes of his parents at home. In the eyes of experts, the phenomenon of prodigy is not encouraged. Psychologically, a child's premature entry into the adult world will cause great discomfort, and if it is not guided, it will cause great unfavorable factors for their growth.
Although there are many troubles, a person has been so excellent since childhood and has a desirable future. For most people, the life of a child prodigy is also very desirable.
Sun has extraordinary talent. Fortunately, he has parents who are good at digging and cultivating this talent. His life is on the verge of success. As long as there are no big mistakes, he will have a brilliant future in the future.
There are no parents in the world who don't want their children to succeed. I hope that while they want their children to succeed, they should also let them grow up naturally and have a happy childhood. Don't just want your children to be prodigies. You must know that there are always prodigies, and even more prodigies disappear from everyone. It is difficult for a person without a happy childhood to have a successful life.
If you want your child to become an excellent talent in the future, you must make use of the situation to stimulate your child's interest in learning, so that your child can grow up healthily and have a bright future. Now that Sun has graduated and has a job he likes, I believe he will make due achievements in his work.