The incident of "10-year-old girl beating a baby boy" in Changshou District of Chongqing has aroused strong public concern. Many people question the little girl's motivation, growth and educational environment, but the performance of her parents makes the public think that she is indifferent and evasive. The question is, is the responsibility only on parents? Let's briefly replay this event:
65438+1On October 25th, Ms. Wu from Chongqing went downstairs with her one and a half-year-old grandson Yuan Yuan. On the first floor, Ms. Wu first moved the stroller out of the elevator, but Yuan Yuan and a teenage girl were locked in the elevator. Five minutes later, Harahara was lying under the residential building covered in blood. Elevator monitoring shows that the girl carrying a schoolbag has been violently beating Yuan Yuan. The girl suspected to throw Yuanyuan downstairs. But the girl's father denied it, saying that he slipped and fell.
At 8 o'clock last night, Yuan Yuan's father sent a message to Weibo that Yuan Yuan was awake. Thank you for your concern. The original father received more than 50,000 yuan of medical expenses transferred from the police station and paid by the girl's family, but the girl's parents did not contact the original family and did not apologize. Chongqing police will announce the progress of the case in the near future. Pray for the early recovery of Harahara!
The horror of the original is heart-wrenching, and the violence of the girl is blood-boiling. However, is this girl a born demon? In addition to the special experiences that may be experienced in the process of personal growth, she is probably the result of the breeding of violent culture.
A few days ago, the media criticized the cartoons Pleasant Goat and Bear Haunted for their violence and vulgarity, which aroused considerable public, especially many parents of young children. But there are also many people who disagree. In their view, violent and bloody scenes abound in cultural products, and Pleasant Goat is just a piece of cake.
Needless to say, the culture of violence is common all over the world. A survey in the United States shows that contemporary teenagers have become accustomed to violent crimes since childhood. Before 18 years old, American teenagers can see 40,000 murders and 200,000 other violent acts in various media.
In cartoons, TV news, children's entertainment programs and online games, many characters are proud of cruelty. What did the children think when they saw that the big wolf in Pleasant Goat was smashed by the pot for 9544 times, cooked for 839 times and electrocuted for 1755 times? Using violence is a simple or interesting way to solve problems, which is acceptable and even the best. Injury and death are "games" that can be played, and people can't be killed. When all kinds of "ruthless horns" are furious, it will make children who are not deeply involved in the world willing to learn to imitate. In recent years, juvenile thugs and killers in many countries are not only extremely ferocious, but also have a strong "desire to perform" and "sense of camera". Some experts in the United States have warned that the culture of violence has become an "independent mentor" for juvenile delinquency. Children who grow up in a violent culture will become "law-blind" and "life-blind" if they are not guided and corrected in time.
It is impossible to completely hide the violence and evil in the world from children, but we must strictly grasp the discretion and opportunity to let them accept and improve this imperfect world. The immunity is gradually enhanced. Now, our biggest problem is that when the violent culture "rains heavily", society lacks "shelter from the rain" and children rarely have "raincoats". Therefore, we should reduce the "rainfall" as soon as possible. This should not rely too much on the self-discipline of the media and publishing industry, but also on the law.
In addition, in families, kindergartens, primary and secondary schools, "life moral education" should be advocated as soon as possible, so that children can develop the consciousness and skills of "loving themselves and caring for others" from an early age through various vivid and interesting activities, maintain reverence and goodwill for all life, cultivate love for nature and others, and know that there are more fun and effective ways to solve problems than violence. The traditional "playing house" is a good game. Children learn to be friendly, negotiate and feel warm and happy in their respective roles. A middle school in Nanjing once asked students to listen to their mother's story about pregnancy in October, and tied rice, soybeans and sandbags to their stomachs for 24 hours, feeling that life is not easy to conceive.
China's Law on the Protection of Minors emphasizes the importance of family protection, school protection and social protection to minors, which is a social systematic project involving all aspects of society. On the one hand, minors represent the hope of the motherland and the future of the nation and shoulder the historical responsibility of realizing the great rejuvenation of the Chinese nation; On the other hand, minors are physically and mentally immature and lack the ability to protect themselves. Therefore, the party and the state have given infinite care and special help to the healthy growth of minors. Therefore, it is pointed out that the state encourages citizens such as the press, publishing, information industry, broadcasting, movies, television, literary and art units, writers, artists and scientists to create or provide works conducive to the healthy growth of minors.
For the future and hope of the motherland, as adults, what cultural achievements should we contribute to them?
The above theme is to subtly guide and educate our descendants with excellent and good culture, so that the "Chinese Dream" can be realized at an early date.
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