When the moon is full, people always like to sit at the table, eat delicious food and enjoy the family warmth brought by family reunion. When the moon is short, most people are busy, for life and career. Why do people always miss home when the moon is full? That's because you will have a feeling of "full family reunion" in your heart. Perhaps this is the "state of mind", as monk Hui Chong said, "I think you look like the Buddha." It's not that you really look like a Buddha, but that people who look at people have a Buddha in their hearts, an open spirit and can accept all rivers. Every one of us who lives in society must accept many other kinds of people and things. It is even harder to learn to tolerate others. What's wrong with being alive? If you tolerate him, maybe one day, someone will tolerate you. There is a full moon in your heart, even if everything is flawed, you can see the imperfect beauty from it. Why can brokeback Venus be praised? Why do people think that Venus without arms is better than Venus with any form of arms? Because it was her broken arm that highlighted her fullness. Because she broke her arm, which makes people think and feel mysterious. This is the beauty of defects. This is because of the "full moon" in your mind, you feel that everything is beautiful and all mistakes can be forgiven, so incompleteness is also a kind of beauty, and even the beauty it embodies can surpass other complete objects.

People are always pursuing perfection, pursuing the perfection of everything. So "there is no best, only better" has become everyone's goal. Therefore, taking "perfection" to measure everything has become a convention. There was a girl who felt that she was not beautiful enough and "perfect" enough, and was willing to go to the hospital for large-scale plastic surgery, so she had the "first artificial beauty". But she is not ugly, but she is not outstanding enough, but she is still unwilling and feels that she is not "perfect" enough. The moon in my heart is missing. Even if I become a beauty, how can I feel it? Since you are so hard on yourself, you must be more harsh on others. Her nose is not high enough, her eyes are not big enough, he goes too far and speaks thoughtlessly ... everything is wrong, everything is wrong. If everyone has to haggle over every ounce, what fun is there in our life? Is it nitpicking? I gloat when I see others doing something wrong.