Of course, not everyone can get something back after losing it. So did these people cry to death? Still have the attitude of "learning from mistakes"? I think most people will choose the latter.
"If you have something, you will lose it." "Every cloud has a silver edge. Are you very grateful?" ... You see, how many explanations our ancestors gave us about gain and loss, and we will still care about personal gain and loss, and measure the meaning of everything with gain and loss as the sole criterion? "Misfortune is a blessing; Blessed, where is the disaster? " Indeed, many things have two sides, and good and bad are interdependent.
The same is true of gains and losses, advantages and disadvantages. At first glance, one thing has an impact on you, and it seems like a loss to you. A careful analysis or looking at it from another angle just fills your gap in this respect, so that you won't make the same mistake again when you do the same thing next time.
We must treat the gains and losses correctly and grasp the balance between them. Don't be complacent and overjoyed because of "getting", and don't blame others and feel sorry for yourself because of "losing".
Have you ever found that there are so many people making difficult choices between gains and losses in the long history? Dayu managed water, but he didn't enter the house for three times. He lost the care of his parents and the warmth of his family, but he gained an eternal reputation.
Wencheng went to Tibet and married a distant Tubo. She lost the care of her relatives and the happy and comfortable life in the palace, but she was loved and respected by people in Xizang, and also got loyal and pure love, which replaced the peaceful and friendly friendship between the Chinese and Tibetan people for generations. Pavel Colta King lost his health and became a disabled person for the sake of the peace and prosperity of his motherland and the realization of his ideal. However, he is "disabled" but not "disabled". He is respected and worshipped by millions of teenagers, middle-aged people and the elderly in Qian Qian.
Li Dazhao was the first person in China to hold high the socialist banner for the cause of * * *. He lost his life, but he was respected by millions of people in later generations. There are also many negative examples.
Wu Sangui surrendered to the Qing Dynasty * * *, although he got the position of "King of the Day" and Chen Yuanyuan, the first beauty in the world, but he lost the backbone of China people, which will be remembered for thousands of years. Qin Gui killed Yue Fei, betrayed his country and pursued glory. Although he gained inexhaustible wealth and power, he lost his innocence. He must have been spurned by thousands of people and left a permanent shame.
..... Looking back at the long river of history, there are countless examples about the pros and cons of gains and losses, but the key is to grasp the present and look to the future, so that gains and losses can spur us to keep moving forward, get what we deserve and lose what we should lose.
2. Write a short essay of about 600 words with the meaning that a blessing in disguise is a blessing in disguise. As the saying goes, "it is a blessing, not a curse, but a curse cannot be avoided." When the blessing comes, we don't have to worry at all; When disaster comes, we don't need to worry, because since it is a disaster, you will never escape. This requires us to be as honest as Sai Weng in facing the coming misfortune.
In life, we always have to face all kinds of things, which will always bring corresponding blessings. In the face of blessings, don't be disheartened by disasters and give up your ideals. You should not be complacent, and you will stop when you get happiness. Instead, we should calmly and objectively face the current misfortune, "don't be happy with things, don't be sad for ourselves", just as Laozi said: "Misfortune comes from the mouth, and happiness lies in misfortune."
As the saying goes, "Feng Shui turns." When you least expect it, you may not be far from success, just like the tragic decline of Su Qin in wartime, but you finally became a famous figure; Van Gogh was poor before his death, but in the end he became a miracle in the history of world painting. Therefore, when you are unhappy, don't give up easily and give up hope, but resist the blows of fate again and again, and you may be able to wait for hope.
In misfortune, there should be hope of being blessed, but in happiness, there should be unfortunate sadness. If there is no unfortunate sorrow, there will be danger: Jack. After London became famous, it began to indulge in luxury life and ended up with a pistol; Sanmao died tragically because of her selfishness and indifference. The consequences of not having a sense of urgency are terrible, so we should calmly face our own life situation, calmly and objectively face the current fortunes, and make full mental preparations for the future transformation.
"A blessing in disguise is a blessing in disguise" warns us that we should treat the blessings and disasters in life correctly and face them with a peaceful mind. Only in this way can our life be more beautiful and full of hope.
3. Who can help me find a short article that a blessing in disguise is a blessing in disguise? Very touching. Look at the following story. I don't know how a blessing in disguise is just to get it again, but getting it doesn't mean I won't lose it again.
-Inscription No one will use gains and losses to measure a person's life realm, because gains and gains, losses and losses, no one can accurately say that what is lost will never come back. Even if it is realized, isn't it a blessing in disguise? Getting doesn't mean success, losing doesn't mean failure. Successful people rely on their own ability and wisdom to gain honor and attention step by step. His "harvest" is not a pie falling from the sky, nor a golden fruit growing on a tree, but a "fruit" refined with hard sweat, tears and blood.
A loser always relies too much on others or opportunities, dreaming that one day success will fall from the sky. He lost precious life time, and he got nothing but tears of sadness and regret. Some people are depressed or unhappy because their heart beats occasionally or temporarily.
For a lost job, a lost money, a beloved woman, why? You wasted your beautiful youth to feel sad and sorry, but it won't enhance your fighting spirit, win back what you lost and become better. An old frontiersman loses his horse—a blessing in disguise.
A man who fell off a cliff grabbed a rattan rope hanging on the edge of the cliff. In an emergency, in order to save your life, losing your weight is the key. He will throw away everything, including a 24k gold ring, a 5-carat diamond, a Swiss watch and a pocket full of money.
At this point, everything has become a thing apart, and he will feel lighter than the person who escaped into an empty net. When he set foot on land, he didn't regret what he gave up, because he knew that at that moment, life was more important than everything.
Yes, if you give up what you deserve, you will get more. Life is like an unpredictable stock market, and the boundaries between gains and losses are so unpredictable and unpredictable.
In the stock market, 90% people support 10% people, and in the living situation, 90% people only pay for 10%. Don't be heartbroken because of a little loss,' a blessing in disguise is a blessing in disguise', and don't be complacent because of that little gain, remember that all you get is another loss.
Think of your life as a spring, without which it will compress and shorten, but the shorter it is, the more elastic it is and the more explosive it is; On the contrary, if you get it, it will become longer. If you grow to a certain extent, you will lose your elasticity and life will become dull and colorless. Therefore, it is precisely because of gains and losses that life is so rich.
4. Who can help me find a touching composition by every cloud has a silver lining? Look at the following story: "A blessing in disguise is a blessing in disguise" is a fable that reads "Huai Nan Zi? Human training. This shows Laozi's view that "misfortune is a blessing, and happiness is a blessing".
Original text:
He who is close to the edge is skilled, and the horse is invincible. Everyone hung up, and his father said, "Why isn't this a blessing?" After living for several months, his horse returned to Hu. Everyone congratulated him, and his father said, "Why can't this be a disaster?" The family is rich and good, and the son is easy to ride, but he broke his stomach. Everyone hung up, and his father said, "Why isn't this a blessing?" After living for a year, the Hu people entered the fortress, and the Dingzhuang people played with strings. The man near the fort, the deceased was nineteen. This alone is lame. Father and son protect each other.
Literal translation:
Among the people living near the frontier fortress, there is a person who is good at speculating good and bad luck and mastering several tricks. His horse fled to the residence of the Hu people for no reason. People came to comfort him. The old man said, "Why can't this be a blessing?" A few months later, the lost horse came back with the good horse of the Hu people. People came to congratulate him. The old man added, "Why can't this be a disaster?" The old man has many good horses. His son likes riding horses, and as a result, he fell off his horse and broke his thigh. People began to sympathize with him. The old man said, "Why can't this be a blessing?" A year later, the Hu people invaded the frontier fortress on a large scale, and all the able-bodied men took up arms to fight. Nine out of ten people near the frontier fortress died. The man was saved in the battle only because he was lame, and the father and son saved their lives together.
A blessing in disguise is a blessing in disguise. One thing often has two sides, sometimes it seems to be a bad thing or a good thing.
It's like a blessing in disguise.
Similar idioms include "misfortune comes from the mouth, and happiness comes from the mouth."
Can you write a composition about being optimistic? There is a story in Huainanzi: an old man living in the frontier lost his horse one day and others came to comfort him. He said, "Why not be blessed?" A few months later, the horse really came back and brought a good Hu horse.
Of course, not everyone can get back what they lost. So did these people cry to death? Still have the attitude of "learning from mistakes"? I think most people will choose the latter. "If you have it, you will lose it." And "every cloud has a glimmer of hope, whether you are very helpful or not" ... You see, how many explanations our ancestors gave us about gain and loss, will we still haggle over personal gain and loss and measure the meaning of everything with gain and loss as the sole criterion?
"Misfortune is a blessing; Happiness lies in misfortune. Indeed, many things have two sides. Happiness and misfortune are interdependent. So are gains and losses, and so are advantages and disadvantages.
At first glance, one thing has an impact on you, and it seems like a loss to you. A careful analysis or looking at it from another angle just fills your gap in this respect, so that you won't make the same mistake again when you do the same thing next time.
We must treat the gains and losses correctly and grasp the balance between them. We should not be complacent and overjoyed because of "gain", nor should we blame others and feel sorry for ourselves because of "loss". Have you ever found that there are so many people making difficult choices between gains and losses in the long history?
Dayu water conservancy, three times not into the house, why?
6. How to write a story about every cloud has a silver lining? An old frontiersman loses his horse—a blessing in disguise.
Plug: border danger;
Weng: Old man.
Sai Weng: frontier fortress old man. The lost horse: the lost horse. How do you know it's not a good thing?
Metaphor may benefit from a temporary loss. It also means that bad things can be turned into good things under certain conditions.
Interpretation: "Happiness and misfortune depend on each other". Not happy or sad.
In ancient times, an old man in a family had a horse. One day, the horse suddenly disappeared, and everyone felt very sorry. Neighbors to comfort the old man, the old man is not sad, but said:
"Who knows whether it is a curse or a blessing?"
Neighbors think that the old man is confused and losing Ma Mingming is a disaster. Where did he get his blessing?
After a year, I didn't expect the horse lost by the old man to come back and bring back a lovely pony. Neighbors have come to congratulate, the old man is not happy, but said:
"Who knows whether it is a curse or a blessing?"
Neighbors are confused again: adding a pony for nothing is obviously a blessing, but where did it come from?
The foal is growing up, and the old man's son likes riding horses very much. Once, the old man's son fell off his horse and broke his leg. Neighbors to comfort the old man again, the old man said quietly:
"Who knows whether it is a curse or a blessing?"
The neighbor stopped ringing this time, thinking, how can a lame son be blessed?
After a while, a war broke out outside the Great Wall, and the court recruited young people to join the army. The old man's son was exempted from enlistment because of his leg disability. Most young recruits died in the war, but the old man and his son survived.
The story of "a blessing in disguise is a blessing in disguise" has been circulated among the people for thousands of years. She told us that no matter what happens, we should adjust our mentality, look beyond time and space, and take into account the extreme changes that may occur. In this way, whether the blessing event is a disaster or a disaster turns into a blessing, there is enough psychological endurance.
7. "Severn lost his horse. How do you know what composition he can write without blessing? How do you know it's not a blessing: the border is in danger; Weng: Old man.
Sai Weng: frontier fortress old man. The lost horse: the lost horse.
How do you know it's not a good thing? Metaphor may benefit from a temporary loss. It also means that bad things can be turned into good things under certain conditions.
Interpretation: "Happiness and misfortune depend on each other". Not happy or sad.
In ancient times, an old man in a family had a horse. One day, the horse suddenly disappeared, and everyone felt very sorry.
Neighbors came to comfort the old man. The old man was not sad. He just said, "Who knows if this is a curse or a blessing?" Neighbors think that the old man is confused and losing Ma Mingming is a disaster. Where did he get his blessing? After a year, I didn't expect the horse lost by the old man to come back and bring back a lovely pony. Neighbors came to congratulate him, but the old man was unhappy and said, "Who knows if it is a curse or a blessing?" Neighbors are confused again: adding a pony for nothing is obviously a blessing, but where did it come from? The foal is growing up, and the old man's son likes riding horses very much.
Once, the old man's son fell off his horse and broke his leg. Neighbors came to comfort the old man again. The old man said calmly, "Who knows if it is a curse or a blessing?" The neighbor stopped ringing this time, thinking, how can a lame son be blessed? After a while, a war broke out outside the Great Wall, and the court recruited young people to join the army.
The old man's son was exempted from enlistment because of his leg disability. Most young recruits died in the war, but the old man and his son survived.
The story of "a blessing in disguise is a blessing in disguise" has been circulated among the people for thousands of years. She told us that no matter what happens, we should adjust our mentality, look beyond time and space, and take into account the extreme changes that may occur.
In this way, whether the blessing event is a disaster or a disaster turns into a blessing, there is enough psychological endurance.
8. Who has a composition on the topic of a blessing in disguise?
Sometimes what you miss is not necessarily the best, maybe there is something better behind.
Someone once said: If you miss the sun, don't miss the starry night sky. Sometimes missing for a while does not mean missing forever. When we miss the sunrise, don't bow our heads and sigh. If so, you may miss more. Some people just miss something, no matter how sorry you are, sighing won't help. It is better to catch the tail of the next "miss" and make "miss" no longer a "miss".
I remember when I was a child and went back to Hubei for the New Year, the driver told us that there was heavy snow, which was 1 meter high. At that time, my brother and I both regretted missing a chance to play with snow. But dad said, "If you had to choose between playing with snow or going home to eat delicious food, which one would you choose?" As a greedy cat, we chose food. "So, sometimes what we miss is not the best. We miss it because there are more important things that we cannot miss. " Listening to dad's words, we seem to understand, but we no longer feel sorry for not playing with snow.
We can miss the scenery outside the window by bus, but we can't miss the destination; When we study, we can miss time, but we can't miss knowledge. ...
Missing is sometimes a blessing. Maybe you missed your dream, but you also avoided the bumpy road of dreams.
Life is like a running river. Keep going, even if you miss more, you don't want to stay for another second. Because its purpose is the ocean.
Perhaps, when we do something seriously, we will miss a lot of "scenery" around us. But when things are successful, you will find that everything has a price, and the success of one thing is at the expense of missing a lot. Although I missed it, I don't regret it. Because the harvest is greater.
So, if you miss it, let it be missed. There are more things that we can't miss in the distance, but once we miss something, it may become a lifelong regret. But everything has two sides. As long as you look on the bright side, you will find that any mistake has its advantages. And some things are missed, and there may be room for recovery. Then think about the reasons for missing this time and seize the next opportunity.
Missing is also a kind of growth of people. Because of missing, you know how to cherish, know how to reflect and learn to work hard.