The saddest thing is that the two sides of Tagore's works are far apart, and they obviously have their own strengths, but they can't help but envy the happiness of the other side. In fact, happiness is on this shore, but how can people on this shore not notice it?

"Before the rain, I saw the flowers first. After the rain, there were no flowers at the bottom of the leaves. Bees and butterflies have crossed the wall, but they think spring is next door. " Who is the man enjoying the flowers in the garden? "Just because I saw a few bees and butterflies flying to my neighbor's house, I suspect that I don't want to come to my yard in spring, which can only increase my admiration for the wall and ridicule myself.

"The old scene does not return, and gold does not cherish buying youth; The bald head is the owner of the garden, and the drunken flowers are others. " Who is the person who peeks at other people's drunken flowers? Just because of my silver hair, I sigh that time flies, and I regret that time has taken away my youth and brought happiness to others.

What kind of numbness makes people unaware of the happiness of this shore? What kind of greed makes people look forward to the happiness on the other side all the time? Or, just because of blindness, people can't see this shore clearly, and at the same time romanticize and idealize the other shore? Without the spring scenery next door, you can also enjoy the spring scenery at home: it is not colorful, but it has a somewhat solemn charm; The Chinese New Year, which has passed away, can also enjoy the splendor of the sunset, and it is destined to grow old, but also to grow old gracefully.

Yes, happiness is on this shore.

Happiness is on Su Shi's side. After being demoted again and again, Su Shi loves himself because of the loud sound of the crutch, and also because he is open-minded and happy as a Lingnan person. Perhaps in adversity, it is natural to lament the happiness on the other side. But Su Shi did not drown himself in unnecessary pain and endless prospect, but found the most primitive and true happiness in it: he rose and fell in an autumn wind, and Su Shi was like a leaf chasing the wind. Even if he finally lands, he still has to absorb the warmth from the sun in the wandering dance.

Happiness is also on the other side of Zhang Ailing. I remember her saying that when she was a few years old, she took the first payment for writing and bought a lipstick happily. Xiao, she must envy the actress who dresses in various styles. The tenderness in the bones is quietly blooming, so sincere that people are moved, and the frankness is really fascinating. Zhang Ailing not only looks for happiness on this shore, but also creates happiness on this shore. With red lips, I left happiness on this shore and in a small heart.

Both Su Shi and Zhang Ailing have happiness on the other side, so is there a unique happiness hidden on our own other side?

We don't have to envy the brilliance of successful people, we have youth and dreams, which is a grand chapter to be written soon; We don't have to complain about the embarrassment of life, and we don't have to look forward to utopia that we don't know. We can enjoy the instant touch and shock, experience the beautiful bits and pieces of plain life-happiness, and then we will play a never-fading hymn.

There is no happiness or misfortune in the world. There are many people who sigh, and there are happy people and unfortunate people. Those happy people are always good at finding happiness in any environment, and even creating happiness; And those unfortunate people, I am afraid, will only play hide-and-seek with happiness all their lives.

The happiest thing in life is to enjoy the happiness of this shore.

Fan Wensan's Theory of Happiness Illusion

My people, happiness is not in the end of the world, but in the hearts of the wise. The Bible? 6? 1 Old Testament

This side of the river longs for the happiness on the other side, but the other side of the river longs for the happiness on this side. Tagore's short poem "Illusion" reveals a truth to us: everyone is pursuing the beauty on the other side, but forgets the happiness under his feet.

In my opinion, there is nothing wrong with pursuing happiness, but it is sad to be immersed in the pursuit and forget to enjoy happiness! We should forget those misty happiness and get our own touch.

It is foolish to long for the happiness of others.

Shu Ting's "goddess peak" wrote: "It is better to cry on your lover's shoulder for a night than to exhibit on the cliff for a thousand years." Everyone is talking about the legend of the goddess, longing for that happiness, but not seeing the sigh of the goddess: under the aura, longing for mortal feelings! Unfortunately, even the lover's arms can only be extravagant hopes. It can be seen that both sides of happiness have their own difficulties, and there may be bitterness behind happiness. Stephen Chow's A Chinese Odyssey also touched me. The Monkey King, who won every battle, was envied by everyone. However, in the face of the death of his best friend, he could do nothing. In the face of his lover's questioning, he can only be silent-the price of divinity is the loss of good feelings. In the end, driving colorful clouds, you can only watch your lover die in your arms; With boundless magic, you can only enjoy a hug. He is not as happy as we thought. Every family has a difficult experience, so why care too much about other people's happiness.

It is wise to pursue your own happiness.

Since ancient times, fame and fortune have attracted the investment of countless people and become people's "happiness". In fact, these two words are actually devouring people's beautiful souls! Some wise men know this well, so they jump out of the world of mortals and look for real happiness. Tao Yuanming lived in the countryside, indifferent to the noise, and gained peace. Lin Bumei's wife, Crane, sang leisurely, "The shadows are shallow and the fragrance floats at dusk." Su Shi's official career is not smooth, but he still enjoys knowing and doing. "He never tied a boat, and Jiang Hai spent the rest of his life" and found his own happiness. They are all smart people who don't go with the flow and pursue their own happiness, thus making their lives extremely heavy and wonderful.

Unfortunately, there are always some people who go with the flow, blindly envy other people's wealth, yearn for their own status, but refuse to start from themselves. Always pay attention to others, afraid that one day my heart will be broken. Only those who are grateful for the life they have can take back their envious eyes and look back at the beauty they have. Maybe we don't have to envy other people's delicious food on the table, because there is deep love in the rough tea and light rice cooked by my mother, and it tastes sweet and heavy. We may not have to envy the beauty of other people's ice sculptures and jade carvings, because God has given us a unique face with its own unique charm.

Learn to appreciate yourself! You also have something that others envy. Give full play to your passion in life, why worry about not getting happiness! Others, let nature take its course; Your life is created by yourself, don't indulge in the fantasy of happiness!

On this river bank, you see, you have the most beautiful scenery, but you are troubled by sorrow; On the other side of the river, don't you see that happy flowers have filled your world? Find your own happiness, forget the vague scenery on the other side, step on your own practical footprints and find your own happiness.

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