Rousseau said: "Nature shaped me and then broke this mold, so I am me."
In the vast universe, everyone has only one chance to survive, which is unique. Then, to live in this world, the most important thing is to live high, let yourself mature in growth and improve yourself in maturity.
To improve yourself is to have a tolerant heart. Tolerance is a virtue of "all rivers run into the sea, with great tolerance", an open-mindedness of "the sea is wide and the sky is high and birds can fly", and a realm of "a big belly can accommodate things that are difficult to accommodate in the world". Between people, because of mutual tolerance, we can build a bridge of spiritual communication, bloom beautiful flowers of friendship and build a warm and harmonious paradise; Because of tolerance, family members will understand more and argue less; Because of tolerance, the friendship between Bao and Guan Zhong is getting stronger and stronger. Because of tolerance, Liu Bangcai "won the hearts of the people and won the world" and finally defeated Xiang Yu; Because of tolerance, there is a beautiful talk of "accepting a humble apology". Tolerance is a lubricant, which can eliminate the friction between people; Tolerance is sunshine, which can dispel the suspicion between us. Society needs tolerance, and our growth needs tolerance even more. Learning to be tolerant means stepping into the door of maturity.
To improve yourself, we must face setbacks and laugh it off. Who hasn't been tempered and tortured by setbacks in the long road of life? Frustration is a kind of suffering and a kind of wealth. Because of setbacks, we learned to be strong; Because of setbacks, we learned to struggle; Because of setbacks, our life has become rich and colorful. Frustration is the elder. After you have been baptized by wind and rain, I will give you the most beautiful rainbow and tell you a life philosophy that has never changed after vicissitudes of life-face life with a smile. Laughter is a kind of tenacity to life, and it is "tempered, whatever the east, west, north and south winds"; Laughter is a kind of persistence in life that "wildfire never goes out and spring breeze blows high". Laughing at life does not mean losing the direction of life, but just the correct direction of life. Laughing at life is Sima Qian's fortitude to endure the humiliation of historical records and Hawking's never giving up in challenging his fate. Laughter is a spiritual accomplishment and a mature expression to life.
To improve yourself, you must be confident and persist. Self-confidence is an inexhaustible source of persistence, and it is the strong wind that you sail on the road. Because of self-confidence, life can soar in the pursuit of ideals and will not collapse in the face of failure. Self-confidence is a stone that can knock out a single spark; Self-confidence is fire, which can light the lamp of hope; Self-confidence is a lamp that can lead you to the dawn.
The process of self-improvement is also the process of climbing the ideal ladder. What is maturity? Maturity is a bright but not dazzling brilliance, a mellow but not greasy voice, a calmness that does not need to look at others, and an atmosphere that does not need to appeal to the surroundings.