First of all, premise: idolatry of middle school students has now become a universal trend. Most students' idols are movie stars, and only a few idols are artists, businessmen and writers. Therefore, we can see that the idolatry of modern middle school students has gradually become crazy. Many middle school students are fascinated by those star idols. They blindly "follow the crowd" and frantically collect star information, photos and records, which is very stupid. This is a waste of money and time. What's more, some students have reached the point where they cannot extricate themselves. For example, a 16-year-old girl in Dalian committed suicide because her mother didn't buy the CD of her idol Leslie Cheung; A middle school student in Wenzhou 17 committed suicide by taking poison because he had no money to see his idol Zhao Wei with his own eyes. Why do these middle school students worship their idols so enthusiastically? What are the causes and roots of tragedy? From these tragedies, we can also reflect on a problem worthy of profound social reflection. How to treat the "idol worship complex" of middle school students? * * * * * * * examples (if any) ~! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! Psychologically speaking, any behavior has a reason, and the idolization behavior of middle school students also has complicated reasons. Generally speaking, middle school students are idolized because they need idols. Middle school students are in the period of self-discovery and self-establishment, and they need an example to refer to, otherwise it is difficult for them to complete the task of self-establishment. Idol is the carrier of their ideal self. Middle school students are in a period of beautiful fantasy. When many of their ideas cannot be realized, they have to rely on idol worship to achieve psychological balance and compensation. Another reason is to get rid of loneliness by idolization. With the germination of self, middle school students begin to pay attention to their inner world. There are many things that they no longer talk about, but put in their hearts. They don't want to tell their parents something, let alone their teachers. What about their classmates? I am too young, inexperienced and as impatient as myself. At this time, they are willing to communicate with people from afar and enjoy the intimacy from afar. They not only feel free but also feel safe, and they can also have spiritual sustenance. Therefore, as long as it doesn't affect the normal life of students, adults don't need to make a fuss about their behavior. Therefore, as middle school students, in order to better understand the influence of idolization on peers, our project team members personally conducted questionnaires and interviews with students in several high schools. I sorted out my own opinions, and everyone expressed their opinions: Yuan Yongqi and Zhao Ying think that the reasons for idolization of middle school students are as follows: 1. Worship psychology. Most of the stars chased by middle school students are handsome and charming, and most of them are brave and resourceful iron men. Women are ashamed of flowers falling in the moonlight, sinking fish and falling geese, and playing more charming, kind, gentle and graceful women; Ball stars are also heroic, and they are more likely to have sex, which affects the overall situation on the field. These will inevitably make adolescent boys and girls envy, infatuate, worship and even crazy. 2. herd mentality. Among middle school students, idolatry is so common and powerful that those students who are not in much mood for idolatry have consciously or unconsciously entered this trend in order not to be regarded as "outdated" and "heresy". 3. Fashion psychology. "Idolization" is a fashionable thing in the eyes of many middle school students. As for whether it is reasonable and valuable, why care so much? As long as there are "stars" to "chase" is enough. Therefore, idolization is a normal psychological demand and behavior performance of middle school students, but we should grasp the discretion: 1. Don't idolize blindly. What you worship should be truly worthy of your worship. It shouldn't be superficial, but it should shock your heart. 2. Not crazy worship. Don't waste time and money on idolatry. Because, the star's aura should not cover you, idolize has nothing to boast about, and it should not be the whole of your life. 3. Abandon the narrow mind. The idols worshipped by students have similarities and differences. We shouldn't be exclusive or even hostile to other students because of different idols. 4. Be good at learning positive life experiences from idols you worship. In short, don't lose yourself in idolization, because you can only be yourself in the end. Ye Xiaoyun believes that idolization has advantages and disadvantages for middle school students, and the key lies in how you treat it. If you blindly follow the trend and see others say that a singer is good, you will become a fan of him (her), and wasting time and money for him (her) will undoubtedly hurt yourself. However, if idolization is regarded as a kind of entertainment, it is ok to relax in your spare time. Now students' learning burden is getting heavier and heavier. In their spare time, it is undoubtedly a good opportunity for us to catch our breath by paying attention to entertainment news, listening to idols' songs and watching their movies or TV series. When we relax and return to study, the efficiency of study will be higher and the effect will be better. Sometimes, a singer, movie star, star and other public figures will become the goal we want to catch up with, the object of study, or the spiritual pillar. Sometimes, a singer is excellent in a certain aspect, and his (her) fans will try to improve their ability in this aspect. I once saw a scene on TV: When a reporter interviewed Jolin Tsai, he asked, "What beneficial influence do you think you have brought to fans?" Yilin replied: "Some fans think my English is good, so they are also trying to improve their English." Liu Xiang's idol is a world-famous hurdler. Liu Xiang made constant efforts with him as his goal. Finally, at the 2004 Athens Olympic Games, Liu Xiang won the120m hurdles, breaking the Asian record of 0 medals in this event. I think it is not uncommon for some middle school students to regard idols as spiritual pillars. Take me for example. I have always regarded idols as spiritual pillars since junior high school. Whenever I encounter difficulties, I always think of the difficulties encountered by my idol. In contrast, I found that everything I met was as small as sesame and watermelon. With this in mind, I will cheer up, face the difficulties bravely, and constantly strive to overcome them. Everything is like a double-edged sword, so is idolization. If we use this knife to cut the thorns on the road of life, it is undoubtedly a sword for us; If we use this sword to chop around, chop ourselves and chop others, it is undoubtedly a weapon for us. I hope everyone can use this sword to cut off the thorns on the road of life and make it a sword. Mager Deng Jun's point of view is that "idolatry" is people's love for a star, so they pay attention to his or her new trend. Sometimes it's because of the star's face, or because of singing, acting, or personality. Similarly, idolization will also bring opportunities to some businesses. Idolaters will buy all kinds of goods of stars: such as posters, TV series, albums, magazines, newspapers and so on. However, it is undeniable that idolatry also has some disadvantages. There have been many newspapers that reported that a certain child ran away from home to see his favorite star; How many people fall down because they meet stars and are squeezed by many people; How many people spend a lot of money on all kinds of goods to raise stars ... Some people put their studies aside and watch TV and movies of stars. Some people spend all their pocket money to worship idols; Some people regard the star as their dream lover, even to the point of infatuation. In fact, this is unnecessary. Idolization is just a kind of entertainment, which should not be taken seriously, or even the whole life. ..... Based on the views of the above group members, after discussion, our research and study group summarized this research as follows: We advocate loving stars, learning stars and striving to be stars, and oppose blindly worshipping stars, attaching to stars and losing ourselves. Learning with love, following the example of stars, inspiring yourself and walking with stars are not only the needs of society, but also the wishes of individuals and stars, thus benefiting the progress of society and people. It is wrong to regard the star as an idol, blindly worship and attach to it, and thus lose yourself. Stars and people have their strengths and weaknesses, their superhuman talents, wisdom and skills, and their weaknesses. There is no need for superstition or worship. We advocate the all-round development of human beings, strive to improve the scientific spirit and humanistic spirit, and oppose one-sided pursuit. "Voldemort's Survival" should respect and learn from the real stars in the entertainment and sports circles and people who have made unique contributions, such as Xian Xinghai, Nie Er and Guo. There are also people's stars in science and technology, education, industry, military and politics, which should also be paid attention to and studied. It is a dangerous signal to know only the stars in the entertainment circle and not the stars in the field of science and technology; It is a kind of sadness to know only the enthusiasm of the scene and not the taste of art. The so-called Voldemort-style survival refers to this mental state of living at a lower level of art for a long time. Youth is the future, and the future is composed of growth. Without the growth of scientific spirit and humanistic spirit, there is no future. How many ethnic groups have disappeared from history and how many ethnic groups are on the verge of extinction. What they lack is a culture that keeps pace with the times instead of being good at singing and dancing ~! ! Hope to adopt ~ ~ ~