No matter what kind of water,

As long as you reach the ocean, it is the ocean;

No matter what kind of water it is,

As long as you get to the sewer, it's the sewer.

It used to be like this, but later it became like that.

People, simple life, some play vigorously, some are silent; Some romances are famous in history, while others are notorious. Therefore, generations have subconsciously thought that life is doomed. And I think a person's life is decided by himself, which is closely related to his environment.

Mr. Liu Bei, the founder of Shu, was born in poverty. His father died early, and he and his mother lived together by selling knitting mats. It can be said that status is not status and power is not power. But he has a very good "re-created" environment-the descendants of the Han dynasty imperial clan. His father and ancestors also worked as small officials, but when it was his turn, his family came down, but according to seniority, he was still the uncle of the dynasty emperor. It was precisely because of this condition that Liu Bei gathered a bunch of romantic figures around him and established political power, which prompted the emergence of the Three Kingdoms. So: Fate is not predestined. In Mencius' view, climate, geographical location and human harmony all refer to the environment, but how to grasp creation and change depends on people. Only by grasping favorable environmental factors, changing unfavorable environmental factors and making full use of them can we change ourselves.

Occasionally, I heard some people sigh that their fate was bad, so they lost confidence, and in some embarrassing situations, they experienced ups and downs and never recovered. But if we think about it the other way around, the harder our fate is, the stronger we will be. We will try our best to create a road out of poverty and make every threshold alive, which is also a test of our psychological environment. In fact, it is very important for people to create a good psychological environment on the way to change themselves and their destiny. There is a saying in the field of psychological education:

Sow an idea and reap an action;

Sow an action and reap a habit;

Sow a habit and reap a character;

Sow a character and reap a destiny.