In fact, many times, we really regard our opponents as enemies, and there are too many auras hanging over the pyramid of honor waiting for our opponents to compete. We taste the joy of success in the opponent's failure and shed painful tears in the ecstasy of the opponent's victory. It can be said that our opponents have shattered our wonderful dreams, but they have always given us great encouragement and unremitting efforts. I often think of some great contemporary chess players, such as Ma, Chang Hao and Wang. They have been shrouded in the shadow of others for a long time, constantly failing, constantly being knocked down, and wiping the blood from the corners of their mouths. They are still stubbornly waiting for the next time. Although they can't judge heroes by success or failure, their inner pain must be unforgettable, so that there is a trace of fear hidden in their anger and unyielding. When Xu Fengzhu, a native Korean chess player, was knocked down by Cao Xunxuan's iron fist again and again, a generation of Go emperors finally achieved a hegemony after leaving the then Go Kingdom of Japan. It can be said that without Xu Fengzhu's "sparring partner", there would be no later "Cao Yanzi". Similarly, without Cao Yanzi's punch, there would be no later four kings. In this sense, shouldn't they thank each other? Although I appreciate each other's grip, there is still blood of fierce fighting. Similarly, the confrontation between Nie Ma and Zhao Zhixun in those years, and the heroic struggle between Kobayashi and Junichiro Koizumi are also models of mutual achievement. They are real heroes on the chessboard. They complement each other and are indispensable. Then, what reason do we have to belittle each other for temporary success or frustration? I often read in newspapers that in order to avoid unnecessary embarrassment, organizers try not to arrange for two masters to meet on the eve of hegemony. Opponents are respectable and terrible, and the complicated mentality before the decisive battle is beyond others' understanding, just like the headline of a news in Yicheng.com not long ago when Chang Hao and Li Changgao were fighting for hegemony between China and South Korea: Brothers are better than brothers! I don't know what I would think if Chang Li and his wife saw it. That's how heroes come step by step. At his feet are the remains of one opponent after another. It is the opponent's desperate struggle that makes the strong have their own strong hands. It is the superb skills of our opponents that let us constantly hone ourselves and enter the super-class realm. Suppose you are unique in this world, suppose your opponents leave you one by one, how chilling the loneliness at the top is, and how disappointing the silence after shouting is. It is better to be a hero of the legendary swordsman than to be a lonely hermit who seeks defeat, constantly improving his skills and pursuing a higher level of victory in the siege of many opponents. This is the true nature of a truly great chess player. Therefore, opponents are enemies and friends, and we should always be grateful to our opponents. It is sad to have no opponent, but it is narrow and contemptible to have an opponent without respecting him. A truly great chess player is always full of respect for his opponent. They can "get rid of their brothers" in chess, but in reality they can only be brothers forever, because they know that heroes will never know the source, but they will never forget their opponents who accompanied you around the rivers and lakes in the shadow of swords. You are the one I want to defeat. I will try my best to chase you until one day, you are tired and I am tired, then I will use my last strength to fill the distance between you and me. You are my competition partner, I will abandon my selfishness, hold your hand tightly and embark on a distant journey together, and develop together in the competition. You are the mountain in front of me. I know that if you want to climb it, you have to struggle and work hard. The higher the mountain is, the more I conquer you, the more I can reflect the value of my struggle. You are the person who urges me to keep moving forward and the inexhaustible motive force for me to dare to challenge myself. So I want to thank you for putting pressure on me. You are my interdependent side. Without you, I will lose my meaning. I need your encouragement, support and even cynicism. Someone said, "If you were born in Liang, why were you born in Liang?" . As everyone knows, without any party, there will be no great achievements in history. All the way from mud to beautiful scenery, I am used to looking for courage in each other's eyes, and I will think of you when I am too tired to forget the hardships on the road. Think about your opponent. Without him, you may have been content with the status quo of the first throne, sleepy and no longer struggling as before. God always puts people of the same weight on both sides of the scale. Therefore, we can neither despise our opponents nor ourselves, because our opponents are people with the same life weight as us. Opponents have lives as heavy as ours, and they and we are placed at both ends of the scale to verify the value of each other's lives. Once we lose our opponent, the balance will be out of balance and our own value will be lost. Opponents will bring us challenges, countless challenges, you may hate these challenges, but we just want to find someone who is evenly matched with ourselves and can learn from us. Throughout history, how many pairs of "famous" opponents are there? Li Bai and Du Fu can be called Gemini in China's poetry circle, and their friendship is well known. Li Bai once wrote many poems praising friendship, and Du Fu also wrote "Li Bai without a sense of ending". But they are also rivals in the field of poetry, competing with each other and embellishing the temple of Chinese characters with two completely different styles. A calm sea can't make a real strong man. Only by personally experiencing the fighting in the stormy waves can you become a helmsman who can turn the tide. These stormy waves, dangerous beaches and reefs are our rivals. We call for such an opponent and cherish such an opponent. So, don't treat your opponent as a thorn, as an enemy who competes with you for cheese. You should think about it. How can an opponent become your opponent without a certain weight? Tit for tat, just to narrow down; Open your mind and embrace your opponent. This is the style of self-confidence and self-esteem! Embrace our opponents and we will have a wider sky!