The power of human nature: for some reason, human beings are secretive about certain things; As a result, some things have become tools to grow evil and noble in our lives. Then, people became more and more fierce, and began to blame some bad sexual behaviors and bad sexual habits on something; Then it was even more ridiculous. Those who talk about something seem to be evidence of shame and become targets of people's anger. But the existence of something not only poses a great threat and temptation to the opposite sex, but also brings great joy and pleasure to the opposite sex. Look at things in two. You think that sex in marriage is the most legitimate human sexual behavior; That's your opinion. I don't care what you like. I believe that marriage is the most hateful shackle that binds human nature; It is its existence that makes more people who can enjoy a better quality of life walk into a dead end of thinking; This stubborn thought forces them to "be strangers" to a free and happy life. I say this to verify an obvious truth that has been deliberately blurred in this moral society: we have always yearned for the reproductive organs of the opposite sex. Because of the huge social controversy and moral regulations, we often involuntarily look forward to this magical organ that gave birth to human beings. How much we hate it, how much we hate it, how much we love it, and how much we long for it; These are two opposite external manifestations that we show under the definition of morality and immorality. Some people say that you will be surprised and excited to see the mysterious part of your lover, but you will be surprised and angry to see the mysterious part of a stranger. In fact, men's reproductive organs are all similar. The guys who face different men have different psychological feelings, because the social collective consciousness has joined them, so love and hate are clear. How terrible we feel about sex, and how scared we will be when we first meet. This fear is mainly manifested in improper sexual relations. This society only regards the sexual relationship between husband and wife as the only legal sexual relationship. That is to say, in the name of love, or in the name of marriage, we will be very calm when we first look at the genitals of the opposite sex, but this is just an attitude, our emotions are still tense, and our psychology is still amazed in a state of curiosity. On the contrary, if you see an unrelated person's body for the first time, especially when you are young, this impression will be complicated: curiosity and surprise, nervousness and yearning. Many people's sex education is passively completed in this unintentional sightseeing. The mystery and fear of sex are mainly due to our social taboos and people's silent attitude towards sex, which has caused years of sexual repression. When sexual psychology matures, this fear does not exist. On the other hand, shame will not disappear with age. Mature thinking can make a person ride the wind and waves in the ocean of sex. People who have lived in the cold for too long, who don't look forward to a vibrant spring? The green color in spring is a kind of strength, not only because of the warmth of sunshine, but also because of the change of seasons. It is also a mysterious movement of nature. Spring not only dazzles me, but also delights my restless heart. In the human body, there is also a mysterious power hidden; With the maturity of human physiology, it will break out. Because of its importance in human society, people regard it as the most important support to maintain the family. Because of its beauty, people regard it as the best gift in love; Because of its unparalleled attraction, people regard it as a master key, thinking that with it, they can open the door of heaven and get high with their lovers for a lifetime. Similarly, because it is irreplaceable in human life, it has become the source of people's jealousy; Because of its unique happiness, it has become the private property of most people in human society; Because of its inseparable relationship with reproduction, it often becomes the exclusive right of marriage. Anyone who wants to take advantage of the situation and deprive others of their legally enjoyed sex will be shared by the whole society. Because of its huge explosive power, people try their best to suppress this power. Everyone will feel this pressure in the early stages of growth. The true maturity of their nature met with ridicule and cold eyes from all sides. No one, after the body matures, parents will seriously celebrate; Even if a few cheerful parents are occasionally influenced by modern civilization, it is just a show. For a person, his physiology is mature, which means that he has the right to use his sex. China's parents are nervous about this "sex". Their children's puppy love makes them haggard and heartbroken. Maybe you will say that physical maturity does not mean that he is also mature psychologically. That's true. Some people are really behind in their psychological development; This gap is a typical manifestation of our society and family's lack of sex education for children and their typical irresponsibility. After sexual maturity, the power of sex is deeply hidden in our hearts. It surges day and night, looking for a breakthrough. Some people live like years, sticking to the newly married couple, or the love season of being very much in love; Some people can't wait to find a heterosexual to solve it. For sex, its outbreak is a natural phenomenon; A ripe melon is a process of life. After human evolution, society has a set of civilization theories, but this eruption is moderate. Some people regard this temperance as a symbol of civilization. Some people think that this civilization is inhuman and cruel. You may be a worker or a farmer; You may be a prostitute or a lady; You may be a nobleman or a beggar; You may be a soldier or a future general. No matter who you are, no matter who you are in the future, sex is on you. Over time, it will merge into a powerful undercurrent, and one day, it will rush into your life. Don't expect you to be a saint sitting still, don't expect you to be a respected old man, and don't expect you to be a person who sees through the world of mortals outside of sexual desire; The temptation of sex is the same for you and everyone. Maybe you will use a set of eloquent moral system to restrain your sexual strength; But all you have is your behavior and your life. The power of sex is still stirring in you. You may think that it's not your fault that you misbehave, it's just sexual interference, and it's the power of human nature that makes you irresistible. You regard sex as a stench, otherwise, quotations are poisonous guys. Your worries and fears about sex are only the function of your attitude towards sex. There is no good or bad sex; The difference between the two is that the recipient's thoughts and feelings are different before he has a specific understanding of personality. Love it, saying it is the most important sexual entertainment in the world; I hate it, saying that it is a major source of crime that destroys the harmonious family atmosphere of human beings. I hate it with words.