Loser's demeanor
In the arena, losing and winning are always inseparable. People often give applause and flowers to the winners, but they often ignore the other side. In fact, a person's demeanor and quality can best be reflected in his attitude towards failure.
"Can't afford to lose" is not easy. This mentality is formed in the long-term tempering and needs to be accumulated on weekdays. Therefore, whether an athlete is mature and experienced can be read from his attitude towards failure. I still remember the farce of young Chen Qi in Kobe. He threw the racket and kicked the baffle, and was accused of losing, which caused a lot of discussion and thinking. On the court, this is common. Beating, swearing and even fighting are not uncommon. But from the analysis, most of the "perpetrators" are still in the growth stage, and they are often inexperienced but arrogant. Uncle Zidane who hit his stomach with a bald head is still quite rare. Most veterans are very calm about failure. For example, Lao Wa, who was defeated 0-4 in the last international competition, failed to draw a perfect end to his brilliant ping-pong career, but he still laughed and laughed at the press conference, which made people admire his general style.
A person's self-restraint and the spirit of a country can be clearly revealed at the moment of winning or losing. Also talk about table tennis. That time, I met Bohr. In the seventh game, 12: 13, when Liu returned the ball, it fell to the floor, and the air in Shanghai Gymnasium seemed to freeze immediately-if it was out of bounds, it meant that Liu was out. Just then, a man reached out and gestured to the referee: "The ball passed!" "This man was none other than Bohr! 13 draw, the referee raised his right hand. After two cheers from China fans, Liu finally turned the tables with 15: 13. Bohr lost the game, but he never lost his manners. The whole world saw that he was better than the king. Another move originated from Beijing's Olympic bid. It is hard to forget that when President Samaranch announced that Beijing won the right to host the Olympic Games, delegates from all countries sincerely embraced and wished each other. Yes, when the game comes to an end, it doesn't matter who wins or loses; Winning without arrogance and losing without grace is the real gentleman's demeanor.
Success or failure is not all about winning or losing. Losing can be vigorous and win the respect of others and even opponents. In the American Civil War, the Confederate army suffered a crushing defeat, and the proud Confederate soldiers refused to admit the reality. They urged General Lee, the commander, to go up the mountain to fight guerrilla warfare and vowed not to surrender to the Yankees. However, General Li, who has always been brave, advised everyone to surrender: "If you lose, you lose. We must admit that, more importantly, we must lose the game gracefully. " The commander-in-chief of the northern army was deeply moved by General Li's demeanor and specially presented his favorite cigar. This shows that General Li "lost".
Losing gracefully is an ability, a quality and a wisdom. At the end of the "competition", the winner has been divided, but the judgment of "losing" and "winning" is not limited to this.
Comment on the simulation rating content, 20 points, 19 points, and 20 points for development = 59 points.
Scoring basis: the topic of "demeanor" is very broad, the big topic should be small, and the wide topic should be "narrow". Su Liting handled it properly in this respect. She emphasized that "a person's demeanor and quality can best reflect his attitude towards failure". In the choice of specific materials, the author also showed his ingenuity. She mainly takes examples in sports competitions (especially table tennis competitions) as arguments and tells them in sharp contrast, which is very convincing and readable.
The reference idea of this question is: 1. To make friends and be a man, the word "demeanor" is the most important. Good manners are admirable, enviable and have undeniable aesthetic value. Second, demeanor is not necessarily a versatile person, not necessarily a person with high status, not necessarily a person with deep pockets. Manner is first of all a kind of self-restraint, a kind of inner enrichment, and a manifestation of confidence in yourself. Third, manners are reflected in real life, that is, proper speech, neat and decent clothes, elegant manners, natural and sincere attitude, earnest work, honesty and trustworthiness, frugal and healthy life, unique and profound insights, elegant and refined taste. ...
The topic is written as an argumentative paper, and the argument can be designed as follows: ① Manner is a virtue, a cultivated and perfect temperament and style (what is it); 2 Being gracious can earn respect from others, enhance the love between people, and help you live in harmony (why); (3) To be graceful, we must strengthen moral cultivation, abandon vulgar words and deeds, and consciously cultivate good sentiments (how).