It is everyone's luck to find kindness online, but not everyone can succeed. Success is not that cobblestones on the roadside can be picked up casually, nor that grass in the field can be found casually. If you want to succeed, you have a long way to go, and there are many setbacks during this period. Regarding setbacks, Balzac, a great French writer, said, "Setbacks are priceless to the capable and bottomless for the weak." The strong will be more frustrated and brave in the face of setbacks, and the weak will stumble in the face of setbacks. Tan Qian of Ming Dynasty in China spent 27 years writing the first draft of Guo Que in 5 million words, but it was stolen by greedy people. He endured this heavy blow, and spent ten years at his desk, rewriting the second draft of "The Lack of the Country". After three years of supplementary revision, it was finalized. It can be said that Tan Qian devoted his life to writing this book, and he had no regrets. If Tan Qian never recovered after the first draft was stolen, it was not successful after 13. Sima Qian wrote in the book "Bao Ren An": "The ancient people were rich, but their names were lost, which is indescribable. Only charismatic people say nothing. King Gavin was arrested and acted in Zhouyi; Zhong You wrote Spring and Autumn Annals; Qu Yuan's exile is a tribute to Li Sao. Zuo Qiu is blind and has "Mandarin"; The satiety and revision of Sun Tzu's Art of War: ... "From this perspective, aren't those" charismatic people "brave and frustrated in the face of setbacks? Hua, a famous mathematician, once said: "There is no smooth road to science, and there are countless reefs and shoals in the long river of truth. Only herb gatherers who are not afraid of climbing can climb the peak and find the fairy grass; Only those who are not afraid of waves can go deep into the water and find a beautiful pearl. " Every truth in science has been obtained through numerous setbacks and failures. We should face up to setbacks and treat them correctly. Only in this way can setbacks become a ladder for us to succeed. Different attitudes towards setbacks will lead to different results. The same is lovelorn, and Japanese Prime Minister Shimizu Kawasaki fell; On the other hand, Goethe wrote the young Werther. The weak dare not face setbacks, for fear of failure after repeated efforts, so they are trapped in the pain of failure. In fact, frustration is not equal to failure. The real failure is that you lose confidence and belief in success. Setbacks can be overcome, and setbacks breed success, provided that you have firm beliefs and the spirit of going forward. Satisfy these conditions, setbacks will be trampled under your feet, and tomorrow is the time to clear the clouds. Laugh at setbacks. "In the process of understanding and transforming the world, people will inevitably encounter all kinds of difficulties, setbacks and even temporary failures. In short, if people want to make a difference in the activities of understanding and transforming the world, they must give full play to their subjective initiative, which requires strong will and full enthusiasm, and a dynamic mental state. " This is a passage in epistemology, that is to say, when people encounter setbacks and difficulties, they should look at them with a positive attitude, meet them with a good mental state, and smile at the setbacks given by a life. Maybe someone will deny my point of view. They think that after encountering setbacks, their mood has fallen to the bottom. How do they force themselves to accept such setbacks and even face them with a smile? I don't deny this view, there is nothing wrong. Everyone wants a smooth life, just like the greeting cards that are exchanged with friends every time: I wish you all the best and all your wishes come true. However, life is realistic, reality is cruel, and all wishes are beautiful, but they seem to be the most useless. Facing life, we should learn to face reality and face all the challenges that life brings us with a smile. Frustrated, I never recovered, never found what I love, and even lost hope for life. What's the use of all this? Just add a sadness to yourself! Students have been studying hard day and night for ten years, just for that day. No matter under the ancient imperial examination system or today's college entrance examination competition, some people succeeded and some failed. Winners are happy, but what about losers? I feel uneasy all day, even locking myself in the house, not thinking about tea and rice, and I can't sleep at night? Come to think of it, it's always like this. What's the use? What's done is done. I regret it's too late. It is better to regain fighting spirit, continue fighting, face setbacks with a smile and meet the next challenge. Madame Curie discovered radioactive elements from 1896 until 1902 when she discovered radium, an element that shocked the world chemical community and promoted its development. * * * has experienced six hard seasons. In these six years, she was alone in the cold laboratory, facing all the cold instruments, but she was still not discouraged. Finally, at 1902, she found the radium she had been waiting for for for a long time. Zhang Haidi is the representative of China Disabled People's Association. In the face of sudden myelopathy at the age of five, she also thought about giving up. After learning from a painful experience, she resolutely chose to be strong, picked up the pen in her hand and wrote the perfect world in her heart. Similarly, Helen Keller is also disabled, but she is also fighting the disease with a smile and writing another touching myth. There are still many people who smile like this in the face of setbacks in life and eventually succeed. In short, when faced with setbacks, don't give in, but face the setbacks in life with a smile! There is a well-written lyric: "How can you see a rainbow without experiencing wind and rain?" No one can succeed casually. "Although the rainbow is beautiful, it can only be seen after the storm. Some people say that setbacks shine because of exercise, others say that setbacks shine because of motivation, and I say that setbacks are beautiful because of different personalities. People often bless others with "all the best" and "all the wishes come true", but no one ever encourages others with setbacks. In fact, setbacks are essential to life, which is more important than smooth sailing. Frustration becomes better because of persistent practice. Tan Qian was a historian in China during the Ming and Qing Dynasties. He began to write books at the age of 29, which lasted for 27 years, and finally completed the 5 million-word masterpiece "National Shortage". However, one night his house was stolen and the manuscript was unfortunately lost. After 30 years of hard work, Tan Qian was heartbroken, but he calmed down and started from scratch. Nine years later, he wrote this masterpiece. This manuscript is more perfect than the last one. Frustration brought Tan Qian heartbreaking pain, but this pain did not make him fall, but brought him a new life and made his works famous all over the world. Without the loss of the manuscript, without his resurrection, without his continuous improvement. Maybe we won't see this masterpiece today. Setbacks can make life perfect. The key is whether we can beat it. Deng Yaping began to practice table tennis when she was 4 years old. By the age of eight, she was highly skilled, but she was rejected by the provincial team because she was too short and had no future. Faced with the blow from heaven, Deng Yaping did not give in, but worked harder. Finally, she proved herself with her own strength. Frustration itself is not beautiful. Frustration will become more brilliant only when people overcome it with persistence, hard work and renewed efforts. Deng Yaping used her own transformation to overcome setbacks and let a bright future come into view. Celiol Smyer once said: "If there is only clear Wan Li, no rain, only happiness without sadness, only joy without pain, then such a life is not life at all-at least not human life. "Yes, life can only be called life if it has experienced setbacks, and life has become beautiful because it has honed its character.