European golden eagles nest on mountains and cliffs. With its sharp beak and strong claws, it claims to be the king of the sky. Only two chicks are hatched from a nest of golden eagles. In the era of food shortage, the golden eagle will starve to death, and the golden eagle mother can only watch her children scream with hunger. At this time, the two little golden statuettes were forced to lean together, and the weaker one was always pushed off the cliff and killed. At this time, the golden eagle mother always tolerated this "animal behavior." It is difficult for people to understand the golden eagle, but in the face of cruel hunger, the golden eagle must do so, or it will starve to death. Not only golden eagles, but also human beings are always faced with painful abandonment. "Fish, what do I want; Bear's paw is what I want, and I can't have both. I take bear's paw instead of fish. " More than 2000 years ago, Mencius introduced the problem of giving up and taking with vivid metaphor, which has profound philosophical significance. Both fish and bear's paw are desirable, but this possibility is also the least, and it is generally impossible; It is rational and realistic to choose between fish and bear's paw. Although only one was obtained, it was actually a success. It's a tragedy that neither fish nor bear's paw were caught. The reason is that you don't want to give up anything Look at the pot after eating a bowl. It turned out to be a dead duck. Giving up is the best interpretation of reason. If "having both" has been defined as "impossible", it means that it doesn't belong to him anymore and love is useless. Giving up is painful, and not giving up is even more painful. In Daxinganling, a trapped wolf will bite off his leg. It understands that it can't be a complete wolf, the skin will become a mattress and the meat will be stewed in a pot. When the lame wolf is better than the wolf in the kettle, it bites off the trapped leg rationally and decisively, and we are often not as decisive as the golden eagle and the wolf when facing the pain of giving up. Giving up is a natural law, giving up is a way of life, and giving up is the behavior of the brave. We should face it bravely and give up when it is time to give up. Winners are those who are good at choosing. I didn't write it, but I think it will be useful to you. The name of this article is "learn to give up"