Giving up when it is time to give up is a natural expression of one's spiritual connotation and also a kind of life wisdom. In the face of complicated life, we should do what we can and know that we can't give up. Put limited time and energy into the great cause of building a harmonious society and let life glow with colorful brilliance.
Giving up is a state. If a person does not have lofty ideals and goals, it is easy to be confused and short-sighted, and it is easy to confine himself to a narrow range and not see the distant scenery. Madame Curie's living room has only a simple dining table and two old chairs. She said: "I have been pursuing quiet work and simple life in my life." In order to do a good job in scientific research, she gave up a lot of contacts and devoted more time and energy to the cause she fought for all her life, and made great achievements. I don't want to enjoy and pursue the comfort of life. This abandonment has made a wonderful interpretation of life.
It is a kind of life wisdom to give up when you can. Look down on fame and fortune, especially things outside your body. If you let nature take its course, you will not stir your limited life into the infinite vanity fair, nor will you work hard and deliberately pursue the promotion of your position. Will show a broad mind and noble demeanor, consciously pursue unlimited knowledge with limited career, and create wealth for society with their talents and wisdom. We should have a correct "official standard view" in the pursuit of life, noble character in the use of power, selfless loyalty in the face of sacred duties, and broad love in the face of people's sufferings.
Giving up is still a kind of self-control. In the troubled world, the mentality of all beings is as deep as the sea, unpredictable, with different hearts, feelings and shapes. If you let yourself follow the temptation, be bound by all kinds of desires and things outside you, be entangled in the lock of fame and fortune, and dream of making big money and getting rich overnight, you will be reluctant to part with this and that. You always complain about your low position and lack of money. Running all the way for profit, you seldom feel the wonderful and colorful life. Why don't we start with Bill? Gates felt this self-restraint in his attitude towards wealth. The man who created the myth of contemporary personal wealth donated most of his money to charity and made it clear that he would donate all his property after his death. Giving up doesn't mean not paying attention to material interests, but keeping an indifferent and broad-minded heart, despising fame and fortune, spending more time purifying the soul, cultivating sentiment, focusing on our spiritual life, and not becoming slaves to money and desire. This open-minded abandonment is a kind of self-control over life.
There is a saying in the Book of Changes: "Be quiet before you move, change before you speak, decide before you ask." The size of the universe is the same for each of us. The key is whether we take the universe as space and stand on our own fulcrum. Giving up is a kind of self-control, so we should face colorful life with a calm mind, treat unusual things with a normal mind, treat the noisy outside world with a calm mind and deal with the coldness of the world with a peaceful mind. "If you have no desire, your heart will be like water, and if you have a camp, you will have more than one hair." In a world where desires are difficult to fill and chaotic, you will keep a noble heart.
If you miss the flowers, you will reap the fruits; If you miss the sun, you will see bright stars. Pursuing and giving up are normal attitudes towards life. If you pursue something, you should give it up. A valuable life needs pioneering and enterprising, but it also needs to know how to give up correctly and necessary-this is not helplessness, but a kind of wisdom.