Helping others has always been the traditional virtue of the Chinese nation. In today's real society, an indifferent and selfish attitude will narrow the distance between adults. A person who only thinks about himself and doesn't listen to others' feelings will be gradually eliminated by society. Send a rose and leave a lingering fragrance in your hand. How much love can you share in your heart? The more you share, the more you get. When you are kind to others, it is the best time for yourself.
On a cold night when the north wind roared, a humble hotel on the roadside welcomed a pair of elderly guests. Unfortunately, this small hotel is full.
"This is the hotel 16 we are looking for. This kind of weather is everywhere. What should we do? " The old couple looked at the cold night outside the store and were worried.
The bartender couldn't bear the elderly guests to catch cold, so he suggested, "If you don't mind, sleep in my bed tonight, and I'll make a floor in the shop when I play alone."
The old couple were very grateful and had to pay the house fee according to the store price the next day, but the waiter resolutely refused. When they left, the old couple jokingly said, "Your ability to run a hotel is really enough to be the general manager of a five-star hotel." "Well and good! At least more income can support my old mother. " The boy casually replied, hahaha smiled.
Unexpectedly, one day two years later, my buddy received a letter from new york with a round-trip ticket to new york, inviting him to visit the old couple sleeping in his bed.
The boy came to the bustling metropolis of new york. The old couple led the boy to the intersection of Fifth Avenue and 34th Street, pointed to a skyscraper there and said, "This is a five-star hotel specially built for you. Now I formally invite you to be the general manager. "
The little boy's dream came true because of an act of helping others as easy as blowing off dust. This is the true story of George Boffitt and his benefactor, Mr. William's family.
Many times, helping others means helping yourself. How much you pay for others, how much you will gain. Hammer, the world-famous American oil giant, was an unfortunate refugee before his success. One winter, the young Hammer and a group of companions went into exile in Walson, a small town in Southern California. There, he met the kind mayor Jackson.
One day, it was raining in winter, and the path beside the garden in front of the mayor turned into mud. As a result, pedestrians walked through the garden and made a mess. Hammer lamented for the mayor, so he stood alone in the rain to look after the flower beds and let pedestrians walk through the muddy path, regardless of the cold and rain. When the mayor came back, he picked a car full of cinders and put them on the muddy path in front of Hammer, who was at a loss. As a result, no one ever walked through the garden again.
Finally, the mayor said meaningfully to Hammer, "You see, taking care of others is actually taking care of yourself. What's wrong? " It can be said that Mayor Jackson's words played an inestimable role in the later success of Hammer.
After the hammer succeeded, he said to reporters who didn't understand that he deliberately reduced oil production for a period of time: "Taking care of others means taking care of themselves. Those who want to get ahead in the competition will definitely regret it if they know that taking care of others requires only a little understanding and generosity, but they can win unexpected gains." Remember, give applause to others, and there will be applause around you; Give others a chance, and success lies in getting close to yourself; Taking care of others is taking care of yourself.
Looking around, there are so many things in the world that it is only a fool to help others. Selfishness is becoming more and more rampant, and the friendship and mutual assistance between people is becoming more and more indifferent. But by money relations. Only by helping others can we solve this selfish behavior and create a new world.
The golden rule of interpersonal relationship is that when you help others, you are also helping yourself. Life is like an echo valley. What you give, you will get, and what you farm, you will get. Therefore, in life, no matter what happens, don't choose to be indifferent and help others, please choose to be a good person. Everyone gives a little love, and the world will become a beautiful world.
"Self" is a deified concept.
"Man" is the essence of a hero's fearless distortion and condensation.
I deeply admire this hero who insists on "asking for others is not as good as asking for yourself". I still don't believe that "asking for help is not as good as asking for help" because I am not a hero, and I dare not ignore the power of human resources like a hero, saying that asking for help is not as good as asking for help. In this view, hero is a broad title that comes from civilians and belongs to civilians from beginning to end. As long as you succeed, you can call him a hero
Whenever a hero has to swallow up the mountains and rivers he admires, it is like a storm coming and thunder rumbling. Then force people to worship God and dominate the world. In this way, we worked hard to pave the way for public opinion during the People's Republic of China (PRC) period. As soon as the east wind burned, all the civilians were bewitched by the so-called beliefs left over from feudal ills, and then shouted affectionately in front of the mirror: "It is better to ask for help than to ask for help." Unfortunately, civilians are blinded by the dazzling aura of self-confidence. Caught in the seemingly self-seeking, but actually asking for people and seeking special hypocrisy. Why not look in the mirror with a clear conscience and shout, "Why don't you ask for help?"
The success or failure of any hero's honor or disgrace will be borne by countless "people" as a stepping stone to misfortune. For the most famous hero-the hero in battle, he relies on his servants who do their best and his disciples who are unprecedented. Two fists are no match for four hands. Even if you are a hero, you should go forward bravely. The result is not a one-on-one fight with a group of enemies and then a tragic death like fate. Throwing away Jin Yong's ultimate fantasy, such a hero has little chance of survival, let alone being called a hero by later generations. Fighting depends on manpower and needs a group of brothers and disciples who swear allegiance to the death. In this way, it is not only huge, but also has the reputation of "taking the lead and speaking out". There is a good chance of survival! Just ask someone to win, or be polite, corporal Lixian. Let's make peace-the draw will last forever. It is understandable to ask for help.
Qi Jiguang, Yuan Chonghuan and Yang Jiajiang, who is alone, fighting bravely? They are heroes, but they never deny the power of human resources. Just like Qijia Group, not yourself, but others, soldiers who worked hard and sacrificed for them. It's no use asking for help when they are fighting bloody battles. Just ask the soldiers to fight bravely and take the lead, at least give the fresh fish a chance to rally and turn over. Miraculously, at most, less wins more. This is the reason why the fighting hero should cherish the hero and cherish the feelings. Once talented people enter this country, they will try their best to protect them. Because they know very well that they are heroes. The mystery here is naturally obvious. It is better to ask for yourself than to ask for others! Because you can't be a hero alone.
Other heroes, either famous in history, want others to admit and establish a good reputation, that is, want others to give themselves a chance to shine. Dont Ask For Help, it's like dying. Why do sages say they want something from others, not from themselves? I don't know at all. I seek fame and self, just help.
Whenever a hero always sets a perfect example for future generations to worship. At night, I try to make people admit that they no longer need to control their words and deeds after hard work. It is understandable to drown your sorrows in wine and get mad in the name of a hero. After all, heroes have their own difficulties. A hero is a hero, if he asks. He never wanted everyone in the world to be a hero. Of course I won't instruct you to ask for help. On the other hand, all modest and sincere heroes should consider the loyalty of heroes all over the world.
What's more, heroes should proudly flaunt themselves when they say heroic words. Therefore, it is better to ask for help than to ask for help. It seems that this sentence is absolutely unbelievable.