Lying will lose the trust of family and friends, so quit. In order to achieve a certain goal, lies often pop out of our mouths easily. For example, many students often tell all kinds of lies to their families in order to go to Internet cafes, buy things and skip classes. In order to get the money, he said that he would pay the information fee, donate money and buy exercise books; If you want to go to an Internet cafe in cut class, say that school is on holiday. Maybe these lies are too trivial for family members to take to heart. However, swindlers often push their luck. They lie more often and their parents are more careful, so their lies are often exposed. Maybe it's okay to tell a little lie, but once the lie is exposed, we will lose the trust of our family and friends, and others will never believe us again. Everyone is familiar with the story of the wolf coming, but because many people will not take it as a warning, they often make the mistake of looking at the children of the sheep again.
Be an honest boy and tell the truth more, and there is no place for lies. When many people make mistakes, they often think of lying, hiding the facts and shirking their responsibilities. However, even if you avoid responsibility, can your conscience be at peace? Telling the truth may be condemned and punished, but it is better than being condemned for a long time. George. When Washington cut down his father's beloved cherry tree as a child, he bravely admitted his mistake and was forgiven by his father. His father said, I'm glad you got up the courage to tell me the truth. I would rather have a brave and honest child than an orchard full of lush cherry trees. Lenin accidentally broke the vase of his aunt's house when he was a child, but he was afraid to admit it at that time. Three months later, I took the initiative to write to menstruation to apologize, and I got her understanding and praise. They choose to tell the truth instead of telling lies, but they are praised instead of being criticized, which shows that people appreciate the truth and hate lies.
White lies should also be avoided as much as possible, and don't tell them at will. Although they told a white lie, the deceived person may forget it out of tolerance, or think it is pure deception, and will blame you and stay away from you. Ceng Zi's wife lied about going out to work and killing pigs for him when she got home, but she didn't keep her promise when she came back. In this regard, Ceng Zi strongly disapproves of this practice, because children can be cheated once or twice, and it is impossible to cheat forever. And if the child knows that you will cheat him, he will not listen to his parents and may cheat others. So Ceng Zi killed the pig for the children to eat. Ceng Zi's wife told a white lie. If Ceng Zi is not good at solving this problem, she will hurt her children. Some people may say, do doctors and their families have to tell the truth to patients who are sick and blind? Of course it depends on the specific situation. For a patient with fragile vitality, we might as well tell a white lie; For a patient with strong vitality, we might as well tell the truth and let him spend his life completing what he has not finished.
In the face of lies, we should quit them with an honest heart. Because any lie will be ashamed in front of honesty. Be careful in the face of lies, don't blind others with lies, and let others make wrong choices or judgments.