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Isn't it rude to squat?
Earlier, some netizens posted on the Internet that Weibo said that "girls are squatting and waiting for the subway to be uncultivated", which triggered a heated discussion. The headline reads: "Maybe I am old and a lot of things are conservative, but I just don't understand why so many girls don't know how to educate now." You can squat while waiting for the subway. Is it ugly? Who taught them? What is this habit? "From the point of view that they are outsiders, Shanghainese will not be like this.

Actually, I want to say, can you not always associate everything with education?

Education is an abstract concept. It is everywhere, but nowhere to be seen. Only when you feel it with your heart can you feel it. In fact, it refers to the general culture and behavior. It can also be specific to a person's words and deeds. However, I think it is inappropriate to equate squatting underground with illiteracy. Just because you squat once in a while doesn't mean you're illiterate.

It is true that the subway entrance belongs to a public area, so squatting is indecent, but it is also inappropriate for netizens to draw conclusions easily based on a photo. Maybe the girl may be tired of shopping, so squat down and slow down; It is also possible that you squatted down because of dizziness or physical discomfort ... Without investigation, you have no right to speak, and you cannot easily draw conclusions without understanding the actual situation. This is also a kind of injury!

In addition, squatting down does not mean that you are from other places or rural areas. This is obviously a preconceived discrimination. I remember a saying: I don't like others because I don't have enough self-cultivation. We can't easily judge the right or wrong of others because of some behaviors we don't like. First of all, no matter whether this kind of comment is right or wrong and how much it has to do with ourselves, we should not judge others' right or wrong easily as a judge, let alone judge others by our own standards. Everyone's angle and position are different.

Young people have a world of young people, and sometimes the elderly should be more tolerant and understanding about it.

In addition, I think "no culture" is a heavier judgment to some extent. Because there is an old saying that "it's the father's fault that children don't teach", saying that a person is uneducated actually means that her parents didn't teach their children well. Therefore, it is somewhat exaggerated to say that you are uneducated from a simple behavior.

Education, teaching and training are actually integrated. Now many people just separate them. Raising is the responsibility of parents, and teaching is the responsibility of teachers. In fact, parents are duty-bound to raise their children, and teaching them well is the most important thing. Many parents only raise and don't teach. The consequences of only raising and not teaching are very serious, because if you don't teach, one day society will teach for you, and that time may be the lesson of blood.

This reminds me of a story: the story of Han Xin and his children.

It is said that one day Han Xin rode alone through a country road and felt very tired on the way, so he had a rest under a big tree. Suddenly, he felt a heat flow from head to toe and looked up to see a naughty boy urinating under the tree. Han Xin was very angry and naturally wanted to give him some punishment. But on second thought, he didn't have an attack. Instead, he took out a gold ingot from him and threw it out with mirth. Seeing his uncle under the tree, the child was ecstatic and lifeless. I will play all kinds of pranks more unscrupulously in the future.

As luck would have it, Xiang Yu passed by here a few days later and stopped under the same tree. Seeing someone coming from a distance, the child climbed the tree early, ready to do the same thing again and earn him a gold ingot. Who knows Xiang Yu is a famous overlord of Chu, who had the strength to get up from the ground by holding his hair! How dare that child pee on Tai Sui's head and eat his good fruit? Jumped up by the bully, dragged down from the tree and split the sword in half.

In this story, when a child urinated in a tree for the first time, he was not stopped, so that he didn't know whether this behavior was right or wrong, and he continued to let it go. In the end, he paid the price of his life. There has never been such an example in real life.

The story above is different from the story of a girl sitting in the subway. The child's behavior has hurt the interests of others, while the girl's behavior, although somewhat indecent, has not caused any harm to others.

I want to express my opinion that squatting doesn't mean being uneducated, and squatting doesn't mean coming from the countryside. In this world, everyone is different, and there may be many places we don't like in life. You can make sincere suggestions and opinions, but don't make malicious comments and attacks. Being yourself is the most important thing. Because people are often very harsh on others, but they are very tolerant of themselves.

We should learn to be more tolerant and tolerant of others, and you will find that the world in your eyes will be different. In the eyes of others, you will also become a person worthy of respect. Respect for others means respect for yourself. Let's be more tolerant and love the world together.