* [Jiangxi examinee] Self-confidence and modesty
Self-confidence is a life attitude that modern people should have. On the other hand, believe in yourself, that is, believe in yourself. We should believe in ourselves. If you don't believe in yourself, what is there to believe in this world? Only by believing in yourself can we build confidence in success and achieve success. Many people are not confident because of inferiority complex. They don't think they can do it. They have given up hope. Can they expect hope from others? So I think believing in yourself is the cornerstone of success. But that doesn't mean we can refuse to listen to other people's opinions. "Go your own way and let others talk!" It sounds chic, but no one can really do it. It is true that we should stick to our beliefs and not be interfered by outsiders. But when others give you sincere advice, I think you should accept it with an open mind. "All bets are off, but modest gains" means that overconfidence will lead to losses, while accepting others' opinions modestly will be beneficial, which requires us to learn to correctly handle the relationship between believing in ourselves and listening to others' opinions.
Believe in yourself instead of blindly believing in yourself, accept others' opinions with an open mind instead of blindly following them, fully understand and know yourself, know your own ability and kindness, fully believe in your own self-confidence and kindness, listen to others' opinions properly in areas you don't know much about or when you don't know much about them, and make correct judgments based on your own ideas.
The road of life is very long, and the progress is full of thorns. We always face turning points again and again. How to take every step well depends on our own choice. No one can help us, we must rely on ourselves, we must believe that every step we take is correct and go on without regrets. People who often ask for directions won't get lost. We can't rely on others, but we can ask others for advice and find the best way. In the process of growing up, we gradually know how to believe in ourselves. It's like listening to others' well-intentioned advice, taking your own path and accepting others' rational correction. The road seems to be no longer rugged, and we seem to see hope on the other side.
"Believing all people's mistakes is the same as doubting all people's mistakes." We are opposed to extreme thoughts, and we also have the ability to distinguish right from wrong. Correctly understand your own position and ideas, think carefully about others' opinions, combine believing in yourself with listening to others' opinions, carefully and firmly take every step of your life, and you will surely see a rainbow not far away.