A good image can not only leave a good first impression on others, but also enhance your confidence.

(1) Hairstyle and overall image

(2) facial images;

Pay attention to the expression

Expression is the most abundant part of human language and the reflection of inner feelings. People express their inner feelings through expressions such as joy, anger, sadness and joy. Expression plays an important role in interpersonal communication, and modern psychologists have summed up a formula:

Emotional expression = 7% speech +38% pronunciation +55% elegant expression, which can leave a deep first impression.

Expression is an important part of elegance, and the main factors that constitute expression are: first, eyes; The second is a smile.

3. Treat interpersonal communication positively with an open mind.

Everyone is very eager to get friends, but few people can actively communicate with others. In our life, it often happens that two people sit together and can communicate face to face, but both of them are unwilling to take the initiative to talk, preferring to call people far away with their mobile phones. Be brave and take the initiative to say hello to others, and you will soon win a large group of friends. For example, you often meet a strange classmate in the dormitory corridor, try to nod and smile at each other, and you will gradually get to know each other.

4. Actively do something for others.

When others need help and support, actively doing something for others can greatly increase others' goodwill towards you, thus establishing a harmonious relationship with others. Suppose it rains suddenly, but you can't find the right person to bring you an umbrella. Is it sad?

Take the initiative to do something for others, and then, when you encounter difficulties, naturally more people will be willing to help and support you.

5. Carry forward the spirit of cooperation.

Now many students can realize that we are in a competitive society and strive to improve ourselves in all aspects, which is good, but because of this, some students always regard everyone around them as the object of competition and are unwilling to cooperate with others. This practice is wrong. Now it is not only a competitive society, but also a society that emphasizes cooperation. Everyone has his own advantages and disadvantages, and the collision of ideas between them can often produce new sparks of thought.

It is easy for us to feel that by exchanging thoughts and feelings with others and sincerely helping each other, we can not only enjoy the joy of success, but also establish good relations with others.

6. Praise others sincerely.

In the process of getting along with others, we should be good at discovering the advantages of others, feeling the beauty, and then giving sincere praise. So that everyone will be happy to associate with you. A good word is warm in three winters, and a bad word is cold in June. I once read a magazine about a man who travels around the world. She doesn't know all the languages in every country, but every time she goes to a country, she will learn to say some polite and appreciative words in the language of that country in advance, so that she can make many friends in a strange country and have a good time.

7. Put yourself in others' shoes.

Many students are accommodated by their parents at home and gradually become very self-centered. Always consider your own feelings, but don't know how to think of others. When interacting with others, talk and dance when you are happy, and lose your temper when you are unhappy. Sometimes when you meet something that bothers you and see others happy, you blame others for not understanding and caring about themselves. We should understand that everyone has his own life, and others have no obligation and can't always pay attention to your feelings.

We should try our best to accept others and think from their standpoint. For example, students should try to put down their movements when taking a nap, wear earplugs when listening to music and so on.

8. Don't show too much perfection.

We can see such people who are good, energetic, intelligent and ambitious in all aspects, but they often don't get along well with others. Psychologists have done such an experiment: randomly find a group of strangers and let them observe what is happening in another room in one room. In this room, the experimenter arranged four people to do one thing, and one of them performed very well with almost no mistakes; The second person performed equally well, but accidentally spilled the water in the cup; The third person's performance is average, but there is no situation; The fourth man was mediocre and knocked over the water in the cup again. Finally, ask this group of people who they like better. As a result, most people like the second person best, and the fourth person has the lowest evaluation. Why?