Educating children is the unshirkable responsibility of parents, and family education is the foundation of all education. The influence of parents on children is one of the factors that can not be ignored in the process of children's growth, which is subtle and lasting.
Personally, I think that in the process of children's growth, we should mainly do the following aspects:
First, give children a harmonious home.
The healthy growth of children is inseparable from a peaceful and safe family environment. First of all, a harmonious and peaceful family atmosphere gives him a sense of psychological security and happiness. To make children develop in an all-round way, a harmonious family is very important, and a warm family is established. Only in this way can they have confidence and interest in learning. At home, we should not only give children a harmonious and happy study space, but also cultivate their basic life skills, self-care ability, will and love to overcome difficulties as much as possible. Third, take time out to study and play with your children. Cultural knowledge is important, but games are essential for children. Parents should let their children get the joy of success in their studies and games, and let their children fully find fun in their studies and games. Let children feel the happiness of living in the family. Give children a happy growth space.
Second, parents should educate their children patiently.
The junior high school stage is the stage when children "cross the hurdle". Due to various reasons, their academic performance has declined, and their parents are anxious and impetuous. There is opposition between children and parents. At this time, parents should calm down and learn to wait patiently for their children's growth. When you get along with children at ordinary times, you will always find that many words and deeds of children are not in line with parents' wishes, and sometimes even unreasonable. However, parents should give their children a chance to defend themselves, listen to their opinions patiently, and let them feel their mistakes in their parents' patient persuasion and education, and then take the initiative to improve. Parents' expectations and behaviors for their children often play a key role. At the same time, school education is equally important, and only the joint efforts of both sides can produce results.
Third, cultivate children's good self-confidence.
In the growth of children, parents should guide their children not only to work hard, but also to try their best. Even if the result is not the best, as long as they work hard, they will be the best. Only by letting children jump and succeed through their own efforts can children experience the joy of success and establish self-confidence. Parents should not reprimand their children too much when they make mistakes. First of all, they should educate their children to have the courage to bear mistakes, and then help them analyze where they are wrong, why they are wrong, what consequences they will have, and how to correct them in the future. Encourage your children, see their progress, affirm their achievements, and don't blindly criticize their efforts and failures. Build confidence in children. Self-confidence is a gradual accumulation process. Children should not be afraid to do something because it may fail, but should be willing to do something because it may succeed. Because this is a step-by-step training process, we need to pay attention to this point all the time, whether in small things in life or in games and learning. Children need help and love in life. As parents, it is not a complete substitute, but a reasonable care and training. Let children know that self-esteem and self-confidence are built by themselves, not by others. In this way, they can cultivate their independent and sound personality.
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