Commitment will affect your children.
One day, Ceng Zi's wife is going to the market, and her children are crying to go with her. His wife coaxed her into saying, "Wait for me at home and I'll kill pig stew for you when I come back." Children believe it. In the evening, when the child saw his mother coming back, he greeted him happily and shouted, "Mom, mom, kill the pig. I'm dying of greed." But Ceng Zi's wife said, "A pig can support our food for two or three months! How can you kill pigs casually? " The child cried with a wow. Ceng Zi understood this matter and picked up a kitchen knife without saying anything, while Ceng Zi's wife said to Ceng Zi, "I'm kidding him. Don't take it seriously." Ceng Zi said to his wife seriously, "How can you cheat a child? Our words and deeds have an influence on children. If we don't keep our word for a while, which child will not trust us in the future. " So they killed the pig together.
Words must be done, and actions must be fruitful. Ceng Zi proved what they said with his own actions and kept his promise, which had a far-reaching impact on his son.
Commitment is the way to educate students.
A very funny scene happened at the flag-raising ceremony of Xianning Experimental Primary School in Hubei Province: Hong, the vice president in charge of students' moral education, kissed a pig weighing more than 40 kilograms in full view. This move is to fulfill his promise to students-"If students don't expect to litter on campus, then I will kiss pigs". Hong uses his own actions, regardless of his own image, just to realize his promise. He can educate students about an inspirational network and give them a lesson of honesty.
Commitment is a kind of benevolence.
Liu Tongtang, from Binzhou City, Shandong Province, studied martial arts with a peddler in Yangxin County since childhood and developed a set of pure bonesetting massage techniques. Bonin is not his main business. On weekdays, he takes planting jujube trees and raising livestock as his income source, and treats villagers in eight neighboring towns for falls and injuries free of charge.
Why is seeing a doctor free? Another reason is that when Liu Tongtang's hawker master taught him bonesetting massage techniques, he was asked to see a doctor for free. Liu Tongtang said: "I like massage. I didn't learn massage to make a living." My master has an obligation to treat everyone. Of course, I can also do this for my neighbors for free. " Now he is 64 years old and wants to pass on his craft. If his grandson wants to learn, he wants to pass it on to his grandson. However, he proposed that the premise is to inherit our promise of no charge for mentoring.
Commitment can show a person's quality, which is the basic requirement of being a man. If you lose your promise, you will lose your moral character.