Spring dreams disappear with the clouds, and flowers fly out of water; Send a message to all children, why bother to find leisure.
Jia Baoyu, Lin Daiyu, Xue Baochai and xiren are the main characters in A Dream of Red Mansions, and the tragedies of Bao and Dai run through the whole story. Although Xue Baochai is not a party to this love tragedy, she also has a very high status.
I have a lot of dissatisfaction with the ending of A Dream of Red Mansions, but someone said to me, "Since you are dissatisfied, Lin Daiyu finally died with regret and Jia Baoyu became a monk, what do you think is the perfect ending?" Indeed, I am very dissatisfied with the death of the other party, and the other party is also a rebellious role. I just want to show my talents all day, which goes against the ancient times. Grandmother Jia has always loved her, especially Baoyu. They want to tie the knot, and the grandmother may not object. She didn't fight for it, so she was annoyed. But on reflection, she is always suspicious, and even if she marries Baoyu, she will inevitably get angry. She doesn't like Xifeng to drown her sorrows in wine. How did this come from Jia Mu? Her strength is so meager that she is not as popular as Baochai in Jia's family after all. Baoyu finally saw through the world of mortals and became a monk. Is becoming a monk really the best ending? If so, the whole world will become a monk. My idea is extreme. "If you die, I will become a monk." It indicates all this, as if everything is fixed and cannot be changed. What I am dissatisfied with is that Bao and Dai can't escape the bondage of fate in the end. The man said to me again, "Baoyu, you didn't become a monk for Daiyu. What can Baoyu do without becoming a monk? Go after fame and gain? " Yes, this is the best ending for Baoyu. He has become indifferent to fame and fortune, which are all strange to him. Do you want to pursue fame and fortune, let history repeat itself, and watch your descendants stage this Dream of Red Mansions again? He doesn't seem to be free from the bondage of fate, but fate can no longer bind him. He became a monk not for each other, but for himself. He doesn't want to be immortal like the world, but he looks at the world of mortals without attachment. It's a pity that Baochai is smooth and likable, and finally she lives alone, which makes people feel a little sorry.
Baochai was also a victim of feudal ethics. She married the Jia family in the name of Lin Daiyu. She knew that Bao and Dai were of one mind, but she was powerless to resist. Xue's mother can't hurt her any more, and Jia is so sincere. How can she politely refuse? Besides, the Jia family has done a lot of work on Xue Pan, and Baochai doesn't want to embarrass her mother. After marrying Baoyu, Baoyu treated her well even when she died, but Baoyu still remembered Daiyu. Finally, she got pregnant, and Baoyu left her and became a monk, leaving her alone. Speaking of which, what's the popularity? In the end, I did not get happiness.
I always think Baochai is the real strong player in the whole play. She never embarrasses others in front of them or confronts them. Her talent is by no means inferior to that of the other party. I admire her most. She never asks for anything, never says anything she shouldn't say, even if she is stubborn, she is extremely careful and even impeccable. Her intelligence is rare. She doesn't speak like Feng at all, and she doesn't seem to have any taboo or splash.
Take these two things for analysis. She sometimes exhorts Baoyu, who has no intention of repentance, and she is not forced. First, she is from menstruation's family, so it's not convenient to say more. Erxiren's encouragement still doesn't work, and it's useless to say more. Stop here, I have no intention to say more. When she married Baoyu, she waited for an opportunity to tell him about her son's death, which also showed her cleverness. All these are obvious to all.
Speaking of my own opinion, I think I don't know enough about Baochai's character, personality and thoughts. I just think from an ordinary angle.
Baochai handles the world tactfully, and almost everyone loves her, but it is inevitable that she will feel a little hypocritical. She is so kind to everyone that she doesn't pour out her heart as easily as others. In my opinion, no one wants to bury himself. Maybe she did it to establish her position or win people's hearts. In front of her mother, she is considerate, in front of outsiders, she is sensible, and Aunt Xue has a light on her face. But it also buried the real Xue Baochai. In the whole book, she may be the most perfect on the surface, but I always feel that she betrayed her heart and soul. What is perfection? Maybe it's her family. She likes Xue Pan very much. Although she has Xue Ke, she is not her own brother. She may want to put up with it for a while, but when the time is right, she can find herself again. But where can she find herself? Although she is strong, I personally think it is not easy to bury herself. It wasn't the weak who did it, but in the end, she wasn't the real winner.
After all, dreams are empty. Youth is gone, and the face is withered. Sitting alone in front of a candle, I felt tears crawling all over my face. The past is like a cloud, and the temples in the mirror are frosted. My knees have grown up, and my room is as empty as before. Looking up at the moon has nothing to say but tears!
I often hear people discuss whether Baochai is miserable or Daiyu is miserable. But if you read the whole article and comment carefully, you will feel that this question is no longer important.
It's a pity to stop working, but it's a pity to praise talents.
Jade hangs in the forest and is buried in the snow.
Thoughts on Reading A Dream of Red Mansions
Reading A Dream of Red Mansions presents us with a bustling world of characters, and it is these characters that move us most. We were deeply impressed by Jia Baoyu, Lin Daiyu, Guo Baochai, Wang Xifeng and even Granny Liu, but after watching Dream of Red Mansions, other characters made me feel different, and something new was distributed among them.
A Dream of Red Mansions describes such a person as "bright and charming, some like Baochai's charm, some like Daiyu's real name and beauty", and her combination of Baochai's and Daiyu's "good amorous feelings and good moonlight" is the root of her failure. This person is the most beautiful woman in A Dream of Red Mansions-Qin Keqing and Qin Keqing. Her father is weak and sick, and she has no money and no power, but Jia Fu is one of the eight men in Kyoto. " White jade is a golden horse "and" has a pair of rich eyes up and down ",so her status is not as reliable as that of" Lian Er Grandma "of Xifeng. Although her beauty added luster to her and made her ascend to the throne, this does not guarantee that she will not be discriminated against. However, Qin Keqing won it after he arrived in Jiafu. Instead, he became the "first proud person" among Jia Xuansun's daughter-in-law. This is because she was born with "elegant, gentle and peaceful behavior". She not only "grasped beauty", but also "knew how to act", which proved how capable she was in the Jia family, that is, a social environment. At this time, I can't think of Lin Daiyu and Guo Baochai. Why did she later? The old lady asked the page to coax her to play once. Qin took the initiative to take this job in order to please the old lady. During the dinner, Baoyu met Qin Zhong, and they went to the inner kang to chat. Qin came in and told Baoyu, "Uncle Bao, your nephew is young. If you don't bow your head, don't pay attention to him, lest Qin Zhong make a mistake. I came to see my pulse four or five times. " Qin risked catching a cold and getting sick, changing clothes four or five times a day and sitting to see a doctor, for fear that she would be criticized if she behaved badly ... So much, it is not difficult to see Qin Keqing's carelessness and strength, but her carefulness and strength also show that she only asks people not to offend, not to praise or criticize, so as to win people's favor.
Qin Keqing said so many advantages and actions, but she ended up hanging herself. Why? It is also a question worthy of deep thinking and exploration. When Qin entered Jiafu, Jia Zhen coveted her for a long time, and Qin's position was tied up with the favor of Jia Zhen and his wife. Faced with this situation, Jia Zhen threatened that she was isolated, either forced by death or committed to obedience to her heart. It also made her feel terrible, which made her feel heavy and unwilling to fall into the hands of Jia Rong and his son until she hanged herself to end her young life. Her death was caused by endless mental abuse.
Qin Keqing is not an adulteress full of passion and desire. She is a calculating, capable and feudal "shrewd" woman. She hanged herself in shame, reflecting the mental pain that she could not get rid of this bad luck. Her ending shows another tragic fate in A Dream of Red Mansions.
Such a woman can be said to be a master in a Dream of Red Mansions. Besides all kinds of dignitaries, there are also many maids who are graded. The most important thing in the Jia family is Yuanyang, who is the ancestor of the Jia family and the "emperor's father". Jia's personal servant girl is a powerful force that Jia can't leave for a while. No matter big or small, she is considerate and handles it properly. It is this special position and identity that makes her the king of many maids in the Jia family. So grandma commented, "Yuanyang is a little cautious and has some ideas about my affairs." She can come whenever she wants; She will tell them what to add when she is free. " Yuanyang is also a kind-hearted person. She doesn't rely on Jia's strength to bully others, but she often helps others solve problems. Although she is weak in appearance, she is a strong-willed and ambitious woman. We all know that Jia She threatened her to be a little wife by using both hard and soft methods. Mrs. Xing said, "Among the girls, you are the first; It seems that the behavior is decent, gentle and reliable. " In their view, this is noble and decent. I don't want to be firmly rejected by her. Rachel's sister-in-law was scolded by her. Pinger xiren, a prospective menstruation, played a joke on her and made her steal a meal. She said, "Don't ask me to be a little wife. Even if the first wife is dead now, I can't go if I am asked to be a big wife!" " ..... When I was desperate, I cut my hair and became a nun. Otherwise, there will be one. Crying and cursing in front of the old lady: "I am cross-minded, in front of everyone. Don't talk about Baoyu in this life. If you don't marry, you'll just be "Bao Jin", "Bao Yin", "Bao Wang" and "Bao Di". Even if the old lady forced me to die with a knife, I couldn't do it! " So determined, so strong-willed, I can't help but admire such a woman from the heart, relying on Jia. Although Yuanyang temporarily lost Jia's forgiveness, after Jia's death, wouldn't it be another good piece of meat? So, she must be lacking in the heart of death, and finally her grandmother died. How can she not die like a martyr
Many characters in A Dream of Red Mansions left a deep impression on me, but this is also a theme that the author wants to express. He didn't say it clearly, but through the vivid expression of hundreds of characters' hearts, languages, movements and psychological activities, a huge and prosperous aristocratic family and the disintegration of this family, it is not difficult to see the corruption and incompetence of feudal capitalists and the darkness and impermanence of feudal society. As Lin Daiyu said. Jia Baoyu and ............................... are such a "rebel". Their love is fruitless and even sad, but they represent a new life and a new faction representative who dares to fight against the die-hard forces. We Dujiangyan people know Lin Daiyu's tears, but we also know that she is so mean, and others laugh at her and dig at her. We also know that Jia Baoyu is "down and out, ignorant, afraid to read articles, and his behavior is remote and perverse." The image of dude, their vivid characters also let the darkness have a glimmer of light, let us see hope!
Thoughts on Reading A Dream of Red Mansions
"Nong buried people laugh today. Who did he know when he was buried? The sad words of Daiyu's crooning were sung by lonely people through the ages. This poem was written by Cao Xueqin, which seems to imply the tragic ending of the novel and the unique desolation and helplessness of feudal society contained in it.
I remember reading books when I was very young. I was depressed and didn't like reading when I was a child. The complexity and noise of the Grand View Garden seems to be my understanding when I was a child. Baoyu's levity, Daiyu's melancholy, Baochai's generosity, Granny Liu's kindness, Xifeng's meanness, and other characters' respective levity and meanness. In short, this book only records the rise and fall of a family in the middle and late Qing Dynasty.
After reading it carefully, with the enrichment of views, this book in my mind not only means a purely tacky story, but also begins to have a deeper meaning. The unknown sadness and suffering revealed behind that story also made me appreciate the profound thoughts and rebellious thoughts of Cao Xueqin, a talented writer.
Baoyu once said, "Women are made of water and men are made of mud. The former is pure before marriage and natural after marriage. " Why does Baoyu feel this way? Doesn't this imply that Cao Xueqin was extremely disgusted and indignant at the phenomenon of patriarchal society at that time? Why is Daiyu unhappy and happy to leave but unhappy to get together? Because the author expresses his sad and melancholy mood through this beautiful beauty and the unfriendliness of the literati in feudal society, the vitriol of other characters, such as Feng, is also a true portrayal of the wretched villain of that era. There are also good-hearted dissidents, such as attacking people mentioned above, and there are also helpful and kind-hearted people, which is the moment when the author is kind and peaceful. The color of tragedy still hangs over this beautiful and ironic story, and the loss of family and the separation of Rong Ning's two governments also show the author's extreme disappointment in society and the freedom and sadness of seeing through the world of mortals, which makes readers feel uneasy.
Although the social indifference revealed between the lines of this book can really make people sigh like the author, it also has a good and kind side. For example, the family in the Grand View Garden drinks and reads poems together, enjoying the excitement and happiness of Spring Festival couplets together, just like Baoyu's cleverness and eloquence when facing Daiyu, and feeling the warmth of the family together also makes readers feel a little duckweed when reading. This is also a true portrayal of folk customs, good upbringing and the rich culture of the Chinese nation. However, the more so, the more miserable the outcome, the more reluctant it is. Otherwise, the author's sharp language and spearhead will not point directly at the deepest part of people's hearts, so sad.
After reading it, I escaped from the shadow of that feudal society and took a long breath. Looking around, my living environment can at least give me a long breath. What about people then? I can't help myself, my mind is locked up. What is their mood? Therefore, every time I finish reading, the tension and depression before reading seem to disappear, and my inner understanding of suffering and hardship is deeper, and my pursuit of dreams is more and more persistent. We should also be happy about it. We live in a democratic era, and there are hardships and difficulties in life, but they are inevitable in the course of life and have nothing to do with the environment and ideas. however
Leaning on the bookshelf, quietly exudes a faint fragrance, which is joy, sorrow, gathering and dispersion. It breeds the connotation of fanaticism; It inherited profound thoughts; It is full of intoxicating sadness. ...