Thorns are obstacles to progress, blocking many wide roads; The fence is the barrier of the courtyard, which blocks many beautiful scenery; However, the heart wall is a spiritual barrier that blocks many sincere feelings. The heart wall allows clouds to pile up on the forehead, the gap to be buried in the bottom of my heart, and the cold silence to pervade around. We should sincerely call for the removal of the core wall.
Demolition of the core wall, we need to understand. Understanding is clear rain and dew, which can wash away the barriers in people's hearts; Understanding is a bridge, which can narrow the distance between heart and heart. Turgenev and Tolstoy, two literary giants, once stayed away from each other because of their different literary and political opinions. Later, Tolstoy removed the heart wall with understanding and took the initiative to write an apology. Turgenev was greatly moved, and the two finally made up. It can be seen that because of the solid shield of understanding, the heart wall between friends will be dissolved and friendship will be more sincere.
Tearing down the core wall, we need tolerance. Tolerance moistens the earth like a drizzle in the sky. It blesses the tolerant and the tolerated. We should learn to be tolerant of others at all times.
In the Three Kingdoms, there was a man named Yang, who was a prime minister in Shu. He was withdrawn and inarticulate. When Jiang Wan talked to him, he only answered. Someone couldn't get used to it, and muttered in front of Jiang Wan, "It's outrageous that Yang is so rude to you." Jiang Wan smiled indifferently and said, "Everyone has his own temperament. If they criticize me in front of everyone, he will feel ashamed of me. So, he had to keep silent.
In fact, this is his valuable place. "When I heard about Yang, I became more loyal to Jiang Wan. It is because of Jiang Wan's tolerant heart that the contradiction between him and Yang was resolved and the heart wall between them was torn down. Therefore, Jiang Wan has the reputation of "the prime minister can punt in his stomach" today.
Tearing down the core wall requires sincerity. Sincerity is the communication between hearts and the intersection of love and love; It is a bright light that illuminates the road for others and also illuminates your own life.
Du Fu sincerely demolished the core wall, lived in harmony with his neighbors, and let himself go home safely in the war. In the Northern Song Dynasty, Wang Zhi sincerely dismantled the core wall and escorted the exiled Fan Zhongyan, so that Fan Zhongyan could leave Beijing safely, and then got the immortal Yueyang Tower, and Wang Zhi gained valuable friendship.
Ouyang Xiu sincerely demolished the core wall, gave up his old prejudices, accepted Zhang's recommendation, appreciated the Su's father and son, and made him famous quickly. Ouyang Xiu was revered by later generations for his virtue. Throughout the experience of the ancients, we have to admit that if we treat others with sincerity and tear down the core wall with sincerity, our tree of life will be more flourishing.
Dismantling the heart wall, we are eager to understand and realize spiritual communication with understanding; Demolition of the core wall, we look forward to tolerance, watering the flower of friendship with tolerance; Demolition of the heart wall, we call for sincerity, with sincerity to destroy the gap between the soul. Let's tear down each other's heart walls, live in harmony and build a warm world together.