The model essay is as follows: In love, I chose the grandson of Meishan. Abstract: This paper describes my mental process of becoming a mental health teacher. Through a comprehensive review and analysis of my self-growth experience, this paper expounds the process and reasons of my personal maturity from naivety, deeply examines and analyzes my personality characteristics, thus revealing my inner pursuit and desire to become a mental health teacher, analyzing my own conditions and shortcomings in my career as a psychological counselor, and thus pointing out my direction of efforts. I am 37 years old. I 199 1 graduated from Shanghai Physical Education Normal School. Long-term engaged in physical education teachers and brigade counselors. I like dealing with children and have been rated as "a good teacher in the eyes of students" for many times. It has been my good wish for many years to become a qualified and noble student's spiritual guide, a helper to solve puzzles and a true friend of children. I. Analysis of Self-growth (I) Beautiful and Innocent Childhood Because my parents, especially my father, were busy, I left them half a year after I was born and grew up in my grandmother's house in the countryside until I went to a kindergarten class. It's a small mountain village with mountains and rivers, and the simple rural life left a deep impression on me. My father is very capable. My brother and sister are sewed clothes and shoes by my father. My father can make kites and lanterns that we play with. I was carefree when I was a child. (2) Teenagers at the turning point have long expected to attend a large class for one year in the countryside with a pure Nanjing dialect. Because my birth month was a few days shorter and there were more students this year, I was strictly controlled to stay at my grandmother's house in the country for another year. At this time, I was "wild", and I used a pure Nanjing dialect to teach the first grade of primary school. The primary school life from grade one to grade four is spent in ignorance. Although my grades are not very good and I often get into trouble, I am very happy. In the fifth grade, my father was rated as an activist of "five stresses and four beauties" in Shanghai, and was praised by others everywhere. Standing beside my father, I am full of glory and admire him. What a great father! He takes care of everything in the family (of course, his mother is also a part of it). He is filial to the elderly and has made remarkable achievements in his work. He was rated as an advanced worker and an excellent party member every year. Looking at his stacks of award certificates, I was deeply touched. I am a daughter who always worries my father. I want to compete with my father and be a proud daughter. When I arrived at middle school, I studied hard and the first certificate was awarded as "learning from Lei Feng as a good boy". I was very excited that day. On my way home from school, I danced and sang. My father came back very late. I waited until midnight when I vaguely heard my father come back. I was refreshed and couldn't wait to give the prize to my father. My father is really tired. His tired face saw that I was awake and was about to say something. Seeing the award in his hand, he said a word gently. A simple concern makes me feel very warm. I began to work hard to get my father's praise. Every time I win an award, I am always the first to tell my father, including now, and I am also the first to call my father. After three years of junior high school, I made continuous progress, and my academic performance squeezed into the front of the class 10. I entered the Shanghai Physical Education Normal School and became a normal student. (3) After I entered the normal school for three years, I worked harder and harder. Although I am a stranger in Shanghai, my proposal has been affirmed by the head teacher in Shanghai. I am the secretary of the League branch of the class, in charge of the economic power of the class. I was rated as a "three-good student" and won a scholarship every year. (4) Self-change I graduated from normal school for three years with excellent results. Because of my strong parental affection, although I was affirmed by my teacher in Shanghai and wanted to stay in Shanghai, I resolutely chose Meishan, who raised me and gave birth to me. A few years ago, because I just joined the company, I was careless, lacked deep thinking and worked enthusiastically, but the effect was not obvious, which made me suffer many setbacks. For a time, my self-confidence was greatly reduced, and my inferiority complex filled my whole body and mind. I am very tired, I sleep very lightly at night, and I am impetuous when I encounter things. I especially want to go back to my parents at this moment. In order not to increase their burden, I tried my best, but inadvertently sighed a few times, so that my careful father saw the clue. After talking to my father, I realized my own problems. I wanted to do it well, but I was too ambitious, unrealistic and had no plan ... Then I looked up information on the Internet and bought the first batch of books about mental health at Xinhua Bookstore. Carnegie's The Shortcomings of Human Nature became my first book in the field of psychology. From this book, I saw the experiences of people who experienced setbacks like me, and I didn't feel lonely. Their experiences are all normal experiences of people from immaturity to maturity, and I have not felt lost. Some good experience methods have been tried in the experiment book, and obvious results have been achieved. So far, the feeling of success has inspired my self-confidence. In the process of this transformation, I feel. So, I said to myself, "You can do it. You should be cheerful and confident and become an attractive person. " Because of my self-confidence, I no longer flinch. In teaching, I often prepare a lot of materials, and the fresh and wonderful cases in physical education class make my class handy. After work, I no longer close myself, try to actively communicate with others, actively participate in colleagues' activities, and strive for every opportunity to express my opinions. Change happens inadvertently. Standing in front of the podium, I am confident and generous because of careful preparation. Later, I was able to speak without giving a speech, and the chances of getting angry with students became smaller and smaller. I became the object that children like to talk to, gained the trust of children, treated my colleagues, and learned to ridicule, humor and modesty. /kloc-in 0/8 years, I learned to be cheerful and confident, and I learned to actively deal with people. My thesis and open class have won many awards in provinces and cities, and I have been rated as "a good teacher in the eyes of students" for four times, and won the honorary titles of "leader of physical education" and "Hundred Flowers Award" in Meishan area. In 2008, I was also rated as an outstanding educator in Yuhua District. Professional Behavior Analysis (1) Being a mental health teacher is my life ideal and professional requirement. Through the analysis of my life course, I personally feel how important it is to have a good and healthy attitude, and a healthy attitude is the premise of success in life. The occupation of mental health teacher is a noble occupation that can make my mind mature, mental health and personality perfect. At the same time, it is also a career to give people roses, leaving a lingering fragrance in my hands. It is a wish in my heart to become a qualified and noble psychological counselor. Teaching and educating people has two skins, teaching good books and educating good people. Teachers are a profession of dealing with people, and troubles will bother every student. In many classmates, I seem to see the timid self many years ago. If someone had helped me then, maybe I would have gone further today. After I came into contact with the work of psychological counseling, I immediately fell in love with this profession and enjoyed it, because helping others solve problems is also a process of self-examination, and I will inadvertently apply it to my family and career and look at people and things around me in another way. Advantages and disadvantages of becoming a counselor: 1. Personality is particularly fond of children, especially love education. This kind of thing in my bones can always strengthen my belief in psychological counseling. My growing experience is like a mirror. By analyzing my success and failure as a student, we can extract rich and valuable experience from it. Shortcomings: With the in-depth development of school mental health education and my own psychological counseling practice, I am more and more aware of my own shortcomings. 1. In my personality, there is always a sensitive, unconfident and conservative side, which makes me flustered in the face of some thorny and intractable problems, and I can't keep the calmness that a consultant should have. 2. There are still some defects in theoretical knowledge and professional technology, and some psychological problems cannot be solved smoothly for the help seekers. Although my life has been bumpy and frustrated, on the whole, my growth is relatively smooth. The experience from school to school makes my social circle seem very narrow, and my social contacts are not wide, so I don't have too much contact with all kinds of people in society. These are all serious injuries in my consulting work. 4. Some hardware conditions of psychological counselors' career need to be improved, especially the lack of relatively complete psychological test scale and related software. (3) Studying hard can make us know our predecessors, others, the past, the future, take care of ourselves and reflect on ourselves, so as to get a new generation. Therefore, I think it is necessary to achieve "three learning": (1) persistent learning. I will continue to learn theoretical knowledge and consulting skills, pay attention to the study of students' mental health, overcome some weaknesses in my personality, accept help-seekers unconditionally, and be able to deal with setbacks in the consulting process reasonably. Strive to establish the concept of students' lifelong learning. (2) Multi-channel geoscience. Be a conscientious person, study in books, learn political and ideological theory, education and teaching theory and various professional knowledge, and enhance your theoretical accumulation; It is also necessary to learn from others' noble ethics and rich teaching experience in "no words" to achieve the purpose of learning from each other's strengths; Strengthen online learning. Now that computers have been widely used, we can learn more advanced psychological counseling education concepts through education network and sports network. Let yourself be unique in this field, so as to contribute to society and add color to your life. (3) extensive learning. Psychological counseling is both a science and an art, and the scientific truth is not difficult to understand, but it is not easy to apply the counseling technology to every visitor. In particular, there is no shortcut to master the skills of psychological counseling, work creatively and help visitors solve problems effectively. I want to read all kinds of useful books extensively and learn knowledge and skills in various fields, especially modern information technology. Constantly build and enrich their own mental health knowledge structure, and gradually improve and improve while understanding. In short, in the face of the new situation, I always tell myself to pursue Excellence, advocate first-class, reject mediocrity, pay attention to my own innovative spirit and practical ability, and devote all my knowledge, talent and love to students and education. I will continue to work hard to attract students and impress parents with sincere love, sincere heart and personalized classroom teaching style. Caring for children is caring from the heart, not just doing superficial work I treat every child equally, equally. Only by truly loving these children can they truly love you. I plan myself to make my work orderly and efficient; I am a student, so am I.