A child accidentally touched the table and cried. China's mother saw that the first action was to reach out and strike the table, and then coax the child: "Good boy! Stop crying! " . Japanese mothers are not like this. She will let the child walk around the table again, and then inspire him: "There are three situations when people hit the table. First, you can't stop running too fast; Second, do not pay attention to the road; Third, you are thinking about other things. What happened to you just now? "

The table is dead, it won't take the initiative to hit people, so people will hit the table, which is the fault of people, not the table. China's mother stretched out her hand to strike the table, which was tantamount to educating her children. It's all the fault of the table, not yours. Children who grow up under this kind of education, first of all, shirk their responsibilities, try their best to make excuses for themselves and concentrate on finding fault with others. The practice of Japanese mothers is to educate their children to take responsibility bravely, instead of blaming others blindly. Children who grow up under such education always review their own shortcomings first.

In fact, few things can completely distinguish who is right from who is wrong. Often everyone is wrong, but the difference is much more wrong. If everyone involved can shoulder their share of responsibility and seriously review their own shortcomings, what else can't be solved?

The same is true between departments. When others point out shortcomings to us, we should first make a review, not refute or argue. If it is really wrong, we should correct it immediately, and if it is true, we should also give a warning in order to attract more attention.

Attitude is everything. The same thing, different attitudes, the result is different. Therefore, if you want to do things well, you must first correct your attitude.