Black spots on white paper and white spots on black paper.

Today, Zhu Lihua accidentally opened a book and saw such a story, which is a true story that happened in Africa. In a boarding middle school in Ghana, a teacher asked his students, "What do you see, children?" The students stared at the black spot on the paper and shouted in unison, "A black spot". The teacher was very depressed: "Don't you see that this is a blank sheet of paper? Focus on black spots, black spots will get bigger and bigger, and this cannot be the case in life. " He supervised the students and the classroom was quiet. The teacher took out another piece of black paper with white spots in the middle. He asked the students, "What do you see, children?" The students all replied, "A white dot." The teacher smiled happily. "It's very kind of children. Infinitely beautiful things are waiting for you. " The teacher's innocent teaching caused me to think deeply. Students are like a blank sheet of paper. Every time they make a little mistake, they are clearly seen by us, so they are often accused by us: you fought again today, but you didn't do your homework; Talk in class, be distracted, when you can listen carefully, and so on. Are there really so many "black spots" on students? Are we concerned with black spots on white paper or white spots on black paper? If it is the former, our education will be eclipsed, and we will focus on the advantages of students and foster strengths and avoid weaknesses. I believe that what awaits us will be successful. Reference can also be summed up in another way of thinking. The teacher told the students this short story to tell everyone that one should be good at discovering the advantages of others and not always stare at their shortcomings. A good student has shortcomings, and it is also a small black spot on a piece of white paper, which will not affect the white paper itself, but his advantages are still dominant; Even if the poor student has only a small advantage, we should not ignore it, which proves that he may get rid of all his shortcomings slowly and bit by bit. One day, with everyone's help and his own efforts, he will dye that black paper into white with white spots one after another. If in the process of daily communication with people, we should take a long-term view, don't blindly stare at a stain of others, and try to explore more bright spots of others, then we may know a person more comprehensively and objectively.