First, lead by example and guide students.
Ushinski, a great educator, once said, "A teacher's personal example is the most useful sunshine that nothing can replace for students' hearts. "Primary school students have a special sense of trust and dependence on the class teacher. The head teacher's own quality, moral cultivation, words and deeds, and the head teacher's every move will invisibly become an example for dozens of children in the class to imitate. If the teacher casually throws out short chalk heads to pick up useful handwriting, students will learn to choose and throw away short pencils, throw away small erasers, and don't use broken pens ... Therefore, for the sake of students, our teachers should be careful in their words and deeds. Therefore, in class work, I always pay attention to my own image. Everything starts with me and sets an example with a good image, which exerts a subtle influence on my students. Usually, I do what students are asked to do first. I once solemnly promised to the whole class at a class meeting: "children, look up to me!" " "Take the simplest etiquette habit of" greeting teachers and students ". I will first change "say hello to teachers" to "say hello to students" and cultivate students' polite habits with my own practical actions. The students learned it quickly when they saw that the teacher actually took the initiative to greet them. Every time the class is cleaned, I don't stand on the spot to "direct", let alone sit in the office to "remotely control", but sweat like rain with the students. If the teacher does this, won't the students clean up carefully? In the classroom or on campus, whenever I see scraps of paper on the ground, I will bend down and pick them up. I also took the plastic bottles after drinking water to my class to accumulate. When the children saw the teacher, they all did it. Some students didn't forget to pick up plastic bottles on their way to school. Once, the school held a parent-teacher conference on the playground. After the meeting, all the students in other classes left with their parents. Only the children in our class are running around on the playground. What are they doing? So you're collecting plastic bottles discarded by your parents? In a short time, Guo Shuangqian, Cui, and other students came to me excitedly and said, "Teacher Zhang, look, I picked up two plastic bottles!" " I smiled at the children's red faces with excitement. Students in our class have been insisting on this behavior for more than three years, and they can sell it for five yuan a week. Other class teachers said I was a "rich man". I use this money to buy some prizes, ink, trash cans and so on for the children. Aren't these all examples convincing and appealing?
Second, first criticize one shortcoming and praise two advantages.
"Be careful that there is Watt under your pointer, Newton in cold eyes and Edison in ridicule", which is a sentence said by Mr. Tao Xingzhi, a famous educator in China. Warn the class teacher who educates our students that he must pay attention to the methods and methods when educating those "problem" students, and not be simple and rude. My method is to criticize one shortcoming and praise two advantages first. In other words, before criticizing a child's mistakes, the teacher must pay attention to affirming one or two of his achievements, and then criticize his shortcomings, which will have a good effect. Because this makes students understand that teachers not only see their own shortcomings, but also see their own achievements, which is realistic. Remember to exaggerate children's mistakes, which is their least favorite.
Third, deeply love and touch students
"Touching people, don't worry about love first." What will be more and more in the world? That is love. For more than ten years, I have tried my best to see the truth in detail, care for my children sincerely and help them enthusiastically. When a teacher really gives love, he will definitely get more love from his children! On weekdays, when a student is ill, I will call my parents or send him home in person. And always pay attention to the weather and remind students to increase or decrease their clothes. Every dry season, I will "force" my children to drink all the water they bring ... Although these are trivial things, they have left a deep memory in the students' minds. What I sent out was true feelings, and what I got was more sincere return: this winter, the weather was extremely cold, and the road was slippery because of several heavy snows. One day, I went out to work with my wallet in my hand and accidentally tripped. At this moment, I heard the most beautiful voice in the world: "Miss Zhang, be careful." That voice, with eager and incomparable care, made my heart warm. Another day, I opened the door of the classroom and prepared for the first Chinese class. I was about to step onto the platform when a pair of small hands reached out. I looked down, ah! It's Siraitia grosvenorii. "Teacher zhang, this is momordica grosvenori. You can break it to make tea after class, which can cure your throat, especially pharyngitis. " My eyes were moist at that time. At that time, no matter how much money you gave me, I wouldn't exchange it with him. I was in a particularly good mood in that class. After class, I sent a short message to my parents, thanking them for cultivating such a caring child. Soon, my parents wrote me a letter, written by the child's mother: Hello, Teacher Zhang! We should say thank you. You have been with your children for six years. You have given as much to your students as your parents, and you know as much about your children as your parents. It is your teaching that makes students treat you as a relative, learn to care and know how to love. It is our parents who should say thank you. I just said "Siraitia grosvenorii cleared my throat" because of my sore throat that day. I didn't expect the child to say immediately that I would get it for you. The child knows that he cares about me and loves me, and he is also very pleased. In fact, some parents have no reward for raising their children, which sometimes hurts them. Imagine how good it will be for others and the country for a person whose parents don't even know the return. I often ask my children: "What's the use of raising you?" That child, after doing something for me every time, proudly said to me, "Look! It is very useful for you to raise me! " Looking at the short messages my parents sent me, I have a sense of happiness. In the class, I often affirm this kind of words and deeds that know how to be grateful and concerned, and the children gradually realize the teacher's good intentions. No, in the Spring Festival of the Year of the Rat in 2008, nearly one third of the children in my class sent me messages of blessing, and I also replied one by one. Although I work hard, I like it very much. It feels good to be loved.
Fourth, enrich students' activities.
Class collective is fertile ground for students' healthy growth. I have always regarded my class as a big family. The slogan of our class is: June 1 is my home, and cleaning depends on everyone. In this big family, teachers and students are members of this family, and this big family should have rich family activities! This semester, in order to encourage students to increase their language accumulation, four walls of our class have opened up a stage to show themselves. Exercises, tabloids, materials, etc. They are all proud pens of students, giving full play to their autonomy and promoting students' continuous progress! When the Lantern Festival comes, the class will hold an activity of "Celebrating the Lantern Festival in solve riddles on the lanterns". Ask the children to make their own lanterns, write riddles and prepare candy. One is to show whose lantern is creative, and the other is to see which classmate writes the riddle beautifully. The winning classmate will get a lollipop. The lantern made by our classmate Long song won the first prize. Guo Linzhi's riddle won the creative award. Today is March 8. Make a card for mother and teacher. Hold class yo-yo competition and basketball competition. Reading exchange and so on. The diverse atmosphere enriches students' lives, and they are also very willing to integrate into the big family of the class!
Fifth, home-school contact to help students
To have a good class, it is not enough to rely on the efforts of teachers alone, but also the help of parents. Therefore, I have carefully read many books on family education, gained a lot of theoretical support, mastered various methods, and enriched practical experience. In every semester's class work, I contact the parents of students purposefully, so that family education and school education can work closely together. Hold regular parent meetings and individual parent training classes. In the training class for individual parents, I suggest that parents adopt the cooling method when their children make unreasonable demands: that is, let their children use various means, and as long as they are unreasonable, parents will ignore them, making his means ineffective and self-defeating. After several times, he will realize that willfulness is an ineffective means. If he can't meet his wishes, he will give up and try to adjust himself and rationalize his requirements. This is the key to correct children's bad habits, and it also requires parents to calm down and actively cooperate with education. Announce the teacher's phone number and open it to parents 24 hours a day. I call it the home-school contact hotline. This hotline is convenient for parents who are busy with school and can ask their children's performance in school by phone. "Small hands enlarge hands-parents and children grow together". At the parent-teacher meeting, I told my parents to be a parent who loves reading, set an example for their children, and do what parents do. The children in our class are required to read a good book every month. Parents must read this book with their children and let them sign at the back. The child was very excited to receive such homework and finally had the opportunity to take care of his parents. Recently, in view of the high divorce rate, I recommended the book Five Languages of Love to my parents. Li's parents, a classmate who didn't buy this book, called me anxiously and asked me where I could buy this book. His children are very dissatisfied with his failure to finish his homework on time. I hope their parents will set a good example for him. Parents who insisted on reading as required wrote me their feelings after reading. Among them, Liu Zhipeng's mother wrote in the letter: My child Liu Zhipeng spent two days reading the book Bronze Sunflower. He always tried to read it, but this time you asked him to go out, but he didn't go out. I have read this book, too. It can be said that I finished it with tears in my eyes. The children's books you recommended are so well written and touching. I really hope my children can learn what love is from this book. How to love? How to love everyone around you? I must recommend this book to others in our family. Thank you for your kindness. My parents are from Liu Zhipeng. After reading this letter, can you still deny the role of small hands and big hands? With the cooperation of parents, the activity of reading a good book every month in our class is vigorous.
Six, excellent style of study, shaping students
As a class teacher, it is an unshirkable responsibility to grasp the style of study in the class, because excellent style of study is the lifeline of the class collective. Whether a class group is excellent or not depends mainly on its performance in learning. Diligent study style is the driving force to promote the continuous development of the class, which can effectively enhance the cohesion and combat effectiveness of the class. In view of the concept of curriculum reform, I encourage students to ask more questions in class management, so that students can develop the habit of thinking and asking questions. At the end of the term, I will set up the "Diligent Inquiry Award". Establish an atmosphere of mutual love and assistance, and often educate boys to be like gentlemen, girls to be like ladies, and men to protect the weak. Establish "Gentleman's Manner Award" and "Lady's Appearance Award". Over time, the phenomenon of boys bullying girls in the class is much less, especially when there is a contradiction between boys and girls, it will be considered a humiliating thing for men and despised by boys. And make great efforts to establish a good atmosphere for everyone in the class to read-set up a class book corner, hold a class reading exchange meeting every Friday, and write a review every month. After class, fight less and read more quietly in the classroom.
I remember a poem by the famous young poet Wang Guozhen:
Now that you have chosen the direction,
I only care about the hardships.
Then, since I chose a teacher, I will go all the way without hesitation. "I will never regret my infatuation, but I will use my efforts to water the flowers of hope."