Therefore, it is often difficult to solve the problem of providing for the aged. In addition, the rural elderly generally have more children, and the children are unwilling to take care of the elderly, which makes the elderly even more chilling. There are some old people, because there are many children, and children take care of each other. It seems fair to children, but what do old people think? Let's take a look at Aunt Cao's experience.
Speaker: Aunt Cao, 72 years old.
I am 72 years old and have three sons. My wife has been dead for six years. Since her death, I have lived in the house of three sons in turn, and they have taken turns to take care of me.
It is fair that the three sons take turns to take care of them, but it makes me very tired. My three sons live in three places, and one son lives in the house for a month, which means I have to move once a month, which is exhausting.
I thought about it, too. If I am still strong enough to take care of myself, I don't think my three sons will take turns to take care of me. This makes me so tired. I'm not familiar with one environment yet, so I have to move to another.
Especially in terms of food, the meals cooked by the three daughters-in-law taste different. Every time I get used to the taste, I have to go to another restaurant and start all over again. Although there is a lot of reluctance in my heart, I can't say it. I am satisfied that my son and daughter-in-law can take care of me. How dare I ask for anything else?
For us old people, as long as the family can live in harmony, it is already very happy. My three sons sometimes quarrel about supporting me. I can't say anything. No matter who I say, everyone will think I am partial. So it is difficult for parents to live in their son's house.
Sometimes I think it is better to have a son. Having a son will save a lot of things and won't quarrel because of the old man's problems. They say it's hard to get old, it's true. It's really hard to get old.
Now that I'm over 70 years old, I don't know how many years I can live, so I'll make do. I don't care if I move once a month. I just hope that the three brothers can live in harmony and stop worrying about my pension.
Conclusion: with parents, life still has a home; When parents are gone, there is only one way home in life! Therefore, we should be filial to our parents while they are still alive. Parents have been worried about their children all their lives. Now that they are old, we should know how to be grateful and filial!