On the Etiquette Cultivation of College Students
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Abstract: China has been known as "the country of etiquette" since ancient times. Today, Dali advocates that the society should pay attention to spiritual civilization and stress civilization.
Paying attention to etiquette and politeness is a specific social morality that every citizen must have. This paper focuses on the etiquette cultivation of contemporary college students.
The importance and etiquette status of contemporary college students.
Keywords: etiquette, college students' accomplishment, politeness
China is an ancient civilization with a long history, and is known as "the state of etiquette". It is a fine tradition handed down from generation to generation by the Chinese nation to talk about and understand "ceremony". The long etiquette culture is a rich legacy left by predecessors. With the progress of the times and the increasingly frequent and close interpersonal communication, etiquette is becoming more and more important as a lubricant of communication. In today's well-off society, advocating etiquette is the basic requirement of society for its members, and it is also the spiritual requirement of social members. Paying attention to etiquette plays an important role in promoting social progress and improving the level of civilization.
Paying attention to etiquette and observing etiquette norms can effectively show a person's education, demeanor and charm, better reflect a person's cognitive level and respect for others and society, and make personal knowledge, cultivation and value recognized and respected by society. Appropriate etiquette can not only give the public the trust and desire of affability, respect and cooperation, but also make the process of cooperation with the public full of harmony and success.
If a student knows both books and manners, and his knowledge level and moral level are seriously out of harmony, it is impossible for him to become an excellent talent. An excellent talent should not only have high-level professional knowledge, but also have good moral quality and etiquette. Etiquette is the expression of good moral cultivation and one of the important ways to cultivate good moral quality, which needs to be reflected in a polite way. Although the research and education of etiquette have developed in China, especially the combination of occupation and etiquette has become the general trend. However, etiquette education has not attracted enough attention in colleges and universities, and most colleges and universities have not set up etiquette courses.
College students are a group with high level of knowledge. In today's China society, they have been regarded as intellectuals, and they are also the leaders and pillars of China's future development. On the moral level, they should put forward higher requirements on etiquette cultivation. The pursuit of individuality is the characteristic of contemporary young people. Some college students regard ugliness as personality in the process of pursuing outstanding personality. Many uncivilized, impolite and even ugly, stale and vulgar things are regarded as "trendy" and "chic". In today's university campus, you can often see disheveled people, misbehaving people, swearing people and spitting people. Other phenomena are not uncommon, such as closing the door and thunder, never introducing myself on the phone, no longer being polite to the teacher, and walking with a lunch box. These undesirable phenomena are not isolated, but are becoming more and more common.
The reasons for the low etiquette quality of some college students are as follows:
The first point: the side effects of exam-oriented education in middle schools. At this level, parents, teachers and even the whole education system have unshirkable responsibilities. The magic of college entrance examination command makes primary and secondary education focus on "scores" and "exams", while moral education and aesthetic education have long been ignored. Students regard scores as the "lifeblood", teachers regard scores as the "magic weapon", and parents only look at students' grades and don't care about the all-round development of students' psychology and personality. This practice of measuring students' merits only by their academic performance rankings determines that they only work hard on teaching and rarely spend time and energy on shaping children's souls. It seems that the education system needs to invest heavily, constantly learn from the reasonable components of the education system at home and abroad, and constantly improve an education system that can adapt to the development of the times.
The second point: social transformation. When society is in a state of chaos at the beginning of value transformation, ethics and morality are in a state of chaos. As a member of society, it is also difficult for college students to "emerge from the mud without being stained, bright without being demon". The university town is no longer a pure land like Eden. As a typical sub-cultural circle, university town is bound to be influenced and eroded by social culture. In the society of commercialization and coal transportation, the ivory tower that does not eat human fireworks has long since ceased to exist. Contemporary China faces a similar social and cultural background. College students in China are going through a painful "weaning" process. How to judge the truth, goodness and beauty is theirs, and they are eager to make up for it.
The third point: the influence of bad social atmosphere. As far as college students are concerned, there are many unhealthy tendencies, such as the proliferation of "desk literature" and "toilet literature", the books in the library are scribbled, some university professors are exposed to copying other people's academic papers, some teachers are perfunctory in class to earn income, and there are also murders, pornography, bribery, corruption and deception in society.
Therefore, college students should absorb the essence of traditional culture, improve their cultural and moral cultivation and learn some necessary etiquette common sense, so as to stand in the forefront of society and get more affirmation from people.
In fact, I don't know if the university has ever thought about it: when you talk to people in polite language in social life; Communicate with people in a civilized way; When you associate with people with proper documents, people will certainly feel your polite bearing, natural and graceful temperament, civilized and moral cultivation, and you will also pay some respect in your life. Elegant and reasonable speech and cordial overall appearance will make people feel a warm spring breeze blowing warmth and enthusiasm.
Etiquette runs through interpersonal communication and serves the connotation of communication; Ignoring etiquette will inevitably affect the depth and durability of communication. Whether the lack of etiquette affects communication is because of small loss. Not only foreign communication, but also we college students should pay attention to etiquette and form habits in our daily life, which will naturally become a kind of cultivation and help improve our taste.