Make friends with yourself as if I were better than anything else. But it's better to meet each other after three to five days. Human feelings are like water and things are like clouds. Will talk about the city, not the house.

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Instead of making friends similar to yourself, it is better to make friends with people who are better than themselves in all aspects. Often contact with friends for three to five days, the impression of meeting is not as good as when I first met. People's feelings are as high and low as water, don't care; Things in the world are like clouds, let them change. Those who can talk are things in big cities, while those who can't talk are trivial things inside and outside the house.

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1. Make friends selectively without flooding. It is a good choice to choose someone better than yourself. "A threesome, there will be a teacher. Choose good and follow it, but change it if it is not good. " But if you are better than yourself in all aspects, you will have pressure and inferiority when you get along. Besides, there is a big gap between you and others, so you may not be able to integrate into their circle and become friends. So friends can choose people who are similar to themselves and superior to themselves in one or two aspects, so that they can learn from each other. It is also possible that the person you know is an expert in something you don't know, so you should be good at observing and discovering his bright spots.

It is not enough to make friends, but also to maintain friendship, so that friendship can be as sweet as old wine.

3. The level of knowledge, social experience and interpersonal communication that can be learned from a person's speech. If a person doesn't want to be seen as a superficial person, he must learn to speak and strengthen his cultivation. Only by constantly charging yourself can you express yourself.