When it comes to youth, we always combine love and rebellion as if they are inextricably linked.
Does youth have to lead a rebellious life? Has anyone really thought about what caused the image of these so-called rebellious "bad children" in people's eyes?
In my opinion, what is wrong is nothing but the influence of family, school and social environment.
First of all, parents prematurely instill cruel thoughts in their children. Many parents will impose their unfulfilled wishes on the next generation, let them take their own imaginary path, and rarely respect their children's ideas, which invisibly gives them strong pressure and makes them have rebellious emotions;
Then at school, teachers usually like those children with excellent grades, but forget that those children with poor grades who are scolded by adults really need more care and help. This preference is the failure of education, which will only create a shadow of inferiority in the hearts of poor students and even sow the seeds of hatred.
In the end, the pressure from family, unfairness from teachers, neglect and incomprehension have caused these children to degenerate, rebel, tired of learning, fight and a series of undesirable phenomena that ordinary people can't tolerate. They learned to smoke, drink, surf the Internet, skip classes, stay out at night, indulge in their own world, regardless of other people's gossip and eyes sharper than needles.
I'm sorry about that. Because, such mistakes are often due to young impulse and temporary confusion, but people crowd them out to a dark corner of society with a critical and even indifferent attitude, and let a still pure and beautiful soul rise and fall at will in the vast world. You know, everyone makes mistakes, and mistakes are inevitable in the process of growing up. Who wants to really know and understand them? Who is willing to tolerate them and give them a chance to correct? Many parents lack patience to enlighten and care for them. Parents will only sigh and say "this child is really hopeless" after scolding, and then give up completely. I think the root of this failure is that people's values are distorted in a realistic society, so that the care they should have in the process of growing up is ignored, so such education often runs counter to people's wishes. In fact, as teachers and parents, you don't need to interfere too much. When confused, point out the direction for them; When they fail, a word of encouragement or a positive look can make them realize their own value and gain the motivation to work hard. This effect is better than a lot of scolding and persuasion.
To tell the truth, I have fallen. It was the encouragement and support of my friends that made me see hope and have the courage and determination to come again. Looking back at that road, looking back at that gray trajectory, I found that this young impulse is actually punishing myself with my own mistakes, and the ultimate punishment is not others, but myself.
So I sincerely hope that all my friends who live in rebellion and degeneration will wake up as soon as possible.
Maybe today, you can anesthetize yourself with alcohol and tobacco; Maybe today, you can use the internet to escape from yourself; However, all this will only be illusory and short-lived. One day, you have to face the reality. Imagine the sadness and despair when you suddenly wake up one day and find that you have no way out.
My friend, maybe you are very proud today, and you will disdain everything (including me) and announce to the whole world in an arrogant tone: The world is so big, I don't believe there is no place for me!
Indeed, I admit that not everyone needs a good school education to succeed. However, at present, like most of us, we are still ignorant and immature, and we still need to learn to grow. In a relatively stable and simple school environment, it is far more beneficial to our growth than in a complex society.
Therefore, every friend of mine, please don't give up the opportunity to study and grow on campus easily. For the pressure from parents, we don't need to bear too much ideological burden. Even if you can't communicate with your parents, you should learn to be considerate, not blindly resist. You should know how to have your own goals, as long as you work hard according to your own ideas; You don't need to care too much about the teacher's prejudice and injustice. Learn to communicate with teachers and be brave in asking questions. Gradually, you will find that this gap has been unconsciously eliminated, and precious trust and tacit understanding have been established between you. Don't be timid, I don't think any teacher will hate an enterprising student;
A journey of a thousand miles begins with a single step! I hope everyone can work hard to change and accept the challenges we face with a new look. I believe that no pains, no gains, and you will never regret your sweaty youth!
Remember: our youth should not just be rebellious. Face it calmly, don't give up, don't abandon, and the sunshine will definitely fill every corner of our hearts!
Senior two of Wuyi Middle School in Hebei Province: Shang Congcong