People like to listen to nice words, because they are eager to be affirmed and to excel somewhere. Since you and I both want to be appreciated, why not learn to appreciate each other? Warning: The copyright of this article belongs to Zhongshan Net Education. Please indicate the source for reprinting. You must keep the website name, website address, author and other information, and you are not allowed to delete or modify any content of the article at will. Our organization will reserve the right to take legal action. Appreciation is a ray of sunshine in a cloudy sky; Appreciation is the singing of birds in lonely and depressing winter; Appreciation is a note in a beautiful and moving music score. Learn to appreciate, in order to appreciate each other, in exchange for brilliant achievements and self-confidence. Holmes appreciates Watson's medical talent, and Watson appreciates Holmes' reasoning ability. They appreciated each other and solved many cases together. Singer Jay Chou was appreciated by Wu Zhongxian and got the chance to open the door to music success. We should learn to appreciate. Holmes said, "Fools are stupid, but more stupid people applaud them." So, please don't deny yourself, and don't give up appreciating others just because they are stupid. I think, even the stupidest and worst people always have something to be appreciated by others! William Jeames once said: "The deepest need of human nature is to long for the appreciation of others." Indeed, everyone wants others to affirm and appreciate themselves. Learn to appreciate, appreciate things don't have to have a dazzling appearance, don't have to have a dazzling talent, don't have to have a rich background, a moving word, a moving smile, a pure personality is enough. Appreciating others is not flattering, just relaxing and comforting others' hearts and letting others believe in themselves. Appreciation means not only appreciating others, but also learning to appreciate yourself, tap your own potential and discover your own advantages. Of course, this is not the same as conceit and arrogance. Appreciation means giving yourself more affirmation, courage and self-confidence, finding yourself hiding in a dark corner and taking it to a sunny courtyard. Appreciation is the expression of a person's open mind and Shu Lang's vision; It is also a manifestation of a person's keen intelligence and calm tolerance. Appreciation is the way to be a man. If you don't know how to appreciate and don't want to appreciate, people tend to be more critical and don't know how to appreciate; Ask more and care less. As a result, just like doctors treat patients, they persistently "diagnose" other people's shortcomings, faults and mistakes, so they treat each other coldly, criticize, satirize and even reprimand them. The ultimate bitter fruit is the loss of trust and affinity ... Everyone should learn to appreciate, knowing that "the deepest need of human nature is to long for others to appreciate" (William Jeames). And with the increase of experience, this "desire" will become deeper and fiercer. A smile you trust, an affirmative moment, an inspiring look and an encouraging word can dispel the shadow of inferiority accumulated in your heart, find back the long-lost precious self-esteem for others, correct the lost direction of value pursuit for others, awaken the long-forgotten potential and potential for others, and induce the germination of creative impulse in your heart for others. Appreciation lies in the adjustment of mentality. Appreciate growing up in free and harmonious air and growing up in kind eyes. Appreciate and abandon the psychological fetters of "grandfather" and "judge", listen to the simple and pure words in the depths of the soul with a peaceful and broad mind and a generous attitude, and capture the fleeting creative light. Appreciation lies in the transformation of angles. Everything has its own merits; Far and near, each has its own posture. People in things, its front may not be so beautiful, but its side may be a beautiful silhouette; Or its appearance is still immature, ugly, clumsy and stubborn shell, but its interior contains a mature, beautiful, novel and smart core. Why don't we look at it from another angle and think about it from another corner? Appreciation lies in the choice of standards. Beauty and ugliness, good and bad, good and bad, success and failure, right and wrong all exist in comparison. It is understandable to pursue sublimity and perfection, but it is doubtful to demand sublimity and perfection. Use God's standards to measure mortals, and use perfect standards to judge others. If you appreciate them, you will lose your home. As long as we correctly choose a suitable reference and even look at others with a little eye, things worth appreciating will come to us: flashing morality, wonderful wisdom, beautiful human feelings ... appreciation is not a one-way charity, but an active collision between wisdom and wisdom; Appreciation is not a cheap compliment with ulterior motives, but a fair recognition of a relative value: learn to appreciate, have a broader mind and a higher soul; With appreciation, the world will gain inexhaustible motivation to pursue truth, goodness and beauty. "Learn to appreciate, please allow me to be conceited-a girl with high artistic attainments. When we saw Picasso's Pigeon, the pure white pigeon symbolized peace, but our military plane was crashed by an American reconnaissance plane. I am angry and want to cry, because pigeons have black spots. Seeing the "shrimp" painted by Qi Baishi, a painter in China, is lifelike on paper, but the river in my hometown has turned black, and no fresh shrimp can be seen any more, which makes people think. We should protect this blue earth, the only living earth so far. Appreciate, please learn to appreciate, and don't make mistakes again! When listening to Beethoven's Melody in the dim moonlight, I saw the sad love story of the Cowherd and the Weaver Girl, heard the mutual confession of the hero and heroine in Bridge of Death, and felt the romantic love melody of Ruth and Jack in Titanic ... When I heard Chopin's piano solo, my passion rippled and I could feel his intensity. I can think of the artistic conception of Lu You's poem "Sleeping in the wind and rain in the middle of the night, sleeping in the glacier", and I can appreciate his great spirit of loyalty and death on the battlefield ... In music, I learned to create, write heroic poems, draw affectionate oil paintings and write a lot of brushwork. Yes, please learn to appreciate it, it will add color, richness and passion to your life! I will appreciate a painting, a song, a line of words and a building without reservation, because they are the crystallization of the creators, who have worked hard day and night or even years. I respect it, love it and appreciate it more. Please learn to appreciate it, it will make you develop good ideological and moral quality and make you respect and love others. Appreciation, it makes my life colorful, it makes me have a beautiful heart, so that our classmates can appreciate each other and appreciate the beauty. We live in a colorful world. In this world, there are not only beautiful scenery, but also people with different personalities, temperament and personality charm. In the long journey of life, you will meet many people. Different people have different qualities and charms. Appreciation, liking and love have become the most difficult scales for us to grasp. Some people say that the most important thing for men and women is to know each other and love each other. In fact, in your life, there are far more than one person who can really impress you. Are you all in love? It's unrealistic. Love is a narrow emotion that you put your heart into. It is beautiful, but independent and exclusive. When you love someone, you want to have him completely, including his thoughts, his emotions and his whole person. But can you have it for a long time after each touch? There is no eternal thought, and there is no eternal and unique emotion, so what matters is not love, but appreciation. Excellent people will be scattered with attractive brilliance, which not only attracts you, but also attracts people with the same appreciation ability as you. Just like a beautiful scenery, it exists not for a mountain or a wilderness, but for the whole nature, to decorate this beautiful world, and to let more people appreciate, taste and revel in it. Different people, different tastes, have different feelings about the same scene. The glittering and translucent snow-capped mountains have the beauty of ice and jade, the gurgling streams have the beauty of beauty and beauty, and the magnificent sea has the beauty of being broad and bold, and each beauty gives people different shocks. Everyone is flesh and blood with a soul, and they all exude different beauty. Every good quality is attractive. At any time, learn to look at the world with appreciation and the people around you, and you will face everything more calmly. The weakness of human nature is to want to possess everything you like, but people are thinking and changing at any time, and no emotion is eternal. So don't expect you to have a lot. Appreciating a person with a normal attitude is just like appreciating a painting, and you will be very happy and calm. When you get to know someone with a normal attitude and make friends with someone, you will have no selfish distractions, you can communicate freely, your mind will blend a little, and true friends will come to you in your admiring eyes. Friendship is also an indispensable thing in life. When you have many sincere friends, you will feel that life is very happy. Having a good friend is much more practical than having a relationship. Every effort in a person's life is a kind of injury. Friends are different. You can realize the purity of human nature and the value of true feelings while having friends. Friendship is also a kind of love, a more noble and sincere love. Appreciate everyone's advantages with a tolerant heart, and you will find that the world is beautiful, the sun is bright, your heart will be bright and your sky will become blue. Learning to appreciate is a state of mind and a lofty spirit from ego to ego. There are thousands of leaves in this world, and there are thousands of people in this world. You don't have to love each other, you don't have to be together, just learn to appreciate! God gave you a pair of eyes, green mountains and green waters, birds and flowers, and you turned a blind eye; Penglai, a masterpiece of ancient and modern times, is boring to watch; The towering Mount Tai and the Great Wall of Wan Li make you flinch; You scoffed at the traffic, and the chicken and dog heard about it ... so God sighed heavily. Sad for your ignorance, sigh for the buried beauty. Friend, wake up! Open your eyes-those are the eyes that God gave you, and they should be full of aura. There are so many beautiful things in the world, waiting for you to discover, appreciate and enjoy. You are awakened by God's sigh, reach out and rub your eyes and look at the world in front of you. You sighed, a little guilty and a little happy. You seem to understand something, stand up and want to perceive the realm of beauty with your heart. Climb Mount Tai and enjoy the pleasure of "all other mountains look small under the sky". And ignite your long-lost fighting spirit; Embrace the sea, feel the mind of "all rivers run into the sea" and abandon the long-hidden depression in your heart; Walk into the mountains, walk into the tranquility of "moonlight in the pine forest, crystal stone in the stream", and find the long-lost tranquility in your heart ... "The river does not return, the waves are exhausted, and the romantic figures of the ages", Su Shi's unrestrained and free-spirited is unstoppable; "There is no way to eliminate this situation, and then I frowned and took it to heart." Li Qingzhao's tenderness, tenderness and delicacy; "Didn't you see how the water of the Yellow River moved out of the sky and into the ocean, never to return?" Li Bai's romance was unrestrained; "They ran with you, crying, they tugged at your sleeve, and their plaintive voices went up to the clouds", Du Fu's "Loneliness in the World, Waves at the Bottom of the Pen" ... put down the poetry book and step into the countryside, and you listened attentively to the notes of the countryside. Fertile fields and beautiful ponds, streams gurgling; Cocks crow and dogs bark, accompanied by cattle and sheep; Blue sky and white clouds, smoke curling up ... The previous contempt disappeared, and you realized the existence of beauty, accompanied by "we opened your window, crossed the garden and field, and talked about mulberry and hemp with cups in our hands"; There are rice flowers that say that there is a bumper harvest, and frogs say "hi"; Picking chrysanthemums under the east fence and seeing Nanshan leisurely make you feel happy ... You feel that beauty is everywhere and begin to be glad and proud of having a pair of eyes; Began to be intoxicated and influenced by the beauty of the world. You put your hands on your chest and meditate piously in your mouth. You are thanking God for his gift. God smiles so sweetly; You're smiling, too. You are so satisfied! Dear friends, never forget that God gave you a pair of eyes-these are the windows to absorb beauty.