People will always come up with various reasons to comfort themselves about what they can't get. Sometimes there must be something in life, and there is no need to force it in life. Grapes that can't be eaten are sour ... but people either regret, shake, blame themselves or recall what they have lost. Where can they comfort themselves? Quarrel becomes cordial, resentment becomes sweet, pain is also a kind of enjoyment, and loss is always good.
Most people think that two things in the world are valuable only after they are lost: one is youth, and the other is health. Youth and health are very important, especially for the elderly and girls. However, more than that, you don't know your value until you lose it. For children, novel toys, beautiful clothes, delicious snacks and exquisite pencil boxes are not anxious after they are lost. For boys and girls, won't the understanding of classmates, the admiration of teachers, the recognition of parents and the beautiful vision be shaken after losing it? For the elderly, the filial piety of their daughter-in-law, the thoughtfulness of their wives, and their leisurely old age, don't they despair after losing them? For middle-aged people, anything lost, even the details that young people scoff at, is so precious.
Middle age, this is a sensitive and contradictory eventful autumn, youth, career, love, family, friendship, understanding, trust, respect, health, money ... if you are not ridiculed as greed, you will be eager to have them. However, how can things go as one wishes? We have worked hard for half a lifetime, paid precious youth, and often chase one or two things. This is lucky. Sadly, we didn't get what we sought, but we lost what we had. When we celebrate with wine, we find that we are full of flowers and tired. When we indulge in the warmth of our family, we find that our ambitions are not rewarded and our grades are average; When we pursue money and power, we find that friendship, understanding, trust and even love have abandoned us. ...
Everything we lost, which one didn't make us unforgettable? I want to make a comeback, but there is no firewood in the mountains; I tried to give up my pursuit and became a monk for a day, but I was not willing to sink. As a result, hesitation, depression, irritability, emptiness, these unintentional things flocked.
What a pity! When this sensitive and contradictory troubled autumn is lost, it is the most precious!
"It's a long way to go, Xiu Yuan. I'll get on and off it." As long as I have pursued, worked hard and paid, why am I afraid of losing?